Although I am not particularly interested in politics, this book kept me spellbound for many reasons. The book gave me a closer view of the South African tribal lives and their customs. There was nasty segregation of the black people. What really interested me was the similarity between the political development in South Africa and in Nepal. After so many times trying to negotiate in peaceful manner and failing, Nelson had to start Armed Struggle against the government. Many people died in the armed struggle in South Africa. Same thing happened in Nepal during the armed struggle in the name of Maoist movement. After the government and the armed struggle force came into peaceful talks, there was election of constituent assembly in South Africa. Same thing happened in Nepal. Mandela and Frederik Willem de Klerk got Nobel peace prize. No wonder Babu Ram Bhattarai, Prachanda and Girija Prasad Koirala were expecting Nobel prize for peace. So many similarities between the political development between the two countries except for the fact that no high level leader in Nepal who were on the side of the armed struggle got imprisoned and non of them had the honesty and integrity as Nelson Mandela.
Although the book is pretty long and detailed I still find some details missing. It is a curiosity in my mind which has not been fully addressed by the book. I wished that Mandela had disclosed minutely about the source of fund for mobilizing armed struggle and how finance was managed. After coming out of the prison, I wonder how he was able to build his house and how his personal finance was managed. It would have been really nice to look into how money is managed under such abnormal circumstances.
Overall, the book is captivating. I really enjoyed every page of it. It is not a long-boring political book. Rather it is a book which takes us into the pain, struggle and sacrifice of the leader for the betterment of the society at large. I would recommend this book to anyone who would like to meet a strong and determined person. If you like this book, you will also love "My Experiments with Truth", an autobiography of Mahatma Gandhi. I would rate this book 4 out of 5 stars.
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A few words extracted from this amazing book:
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"I had concluded that the time had come when the struggle could best be pushed forward through negotiations. If we did not start a dialogue soon, both sides would be plunged into a dark night of oppression, violence, and war. My solitude would give me an opportunity to take the first steps in that direction, without the kind of scrutiny that might destroy such efforts. We had been fighting against white minority rule for three-quarters of a century. We had been engaged in the armed struggle for more than two decades. Many people on both sides had already died. The enemy was strong and resolute. Yet even with all their bombers and tanks, they must have sensed they were on the wrong side of history. We had right on our side, but not yet might. It was clear to me that a military victory was a distant if not impossible dream. It simply did not make sense for both sides to lose thousands if not millions of lives in a conflict..."
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"A mother’s death causes a man to look back on and evaluate his own life. Her difficulties, her poverty, made me question once again whether I had taken the right path. That was always the conundrum: Had I made the right choice in putting the people’s welfare even before that of my own?"
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“We watched our children growing without our guidance,” I said at the wedding, “and when we did come out [of prison], my children said, ‘We thought we had a father and one day he’d come back. But to our dismay, our father came back and he left us alone because he has now become the father of the nation.’ ” To be the father of a nation is a great honor, but to be the father of a family is a greater joy. But it was a joy I had far too little of.
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