“The Psychic Vampire is societies most sophisticated and undetectable predator.” – Michael Tsarion
In the spirit of Halloween, I came across a suitable topic for this time of year – The Psychic Vampire!
The Psychic Vampire
How much do you know about the people you think you do? Do your emotional attachments to people blind you to their real natures, and if so, how much?
- Person A – becomes dependent on others under the name of love.
- Person B – makes others dependent upon them, under the name of love.
- Person C – does both.
- Person D – does neither.
We all know the myth about vampires who suck blood from their victims and make them into vampires.
Although there is some truth to this myth, it can also be seen as a metaphor because they don’t all live in Transylvania and dress in black.
The worst vampires you can imagine are not necessarily those who suck your blood but those who suck your energy! We have all encountered them, and it’s always traumatic when we do.
I have been aware of such people’s existence since I was young and used to avoid them when I could, after having had a few quite horrible encounters with them.
They may not be significant in numbers–perhaps 10% of the whole population and growing, but the damage they do to their environment is so devastating that it seems like they are more prominent in number.
The Definition of a Psychic Vampire is: A psychic vampire (or energy-draining vampire) is a person who gets increased energy around other people but leaves those other people exhausted or “drained” of energy. They suck the life force out of people like an energy parasite.
There is another side of Psychic Vampirism – The Psychic Dumper.
The Psychic Dumper does just that. They are the ones who dump their pain, responsibilities, and drama on souls that have dealt with a lot of trauma and abuse in their lives.
The psychic dumper generally will not do this to stronger, more centered, and grounded, or who lives a better life than them.
In essence, there are two types of Typical Psychic/Energy Vampires:
- The Energy Drainer – Sucks the life force from you.
- The Energy Dumper – Ways you down with their problems either mentally, physically, or both.
There Are 7 More Vampire Types:
- The Narcissist
- The Rageaholic
- The Victim
- The Drama Queen or King
- Control Freaks and Critics
- The Nonstop Talker
- Passive-Aggressive People
I’m writing about this subject because we must know these people and entities, or it will seriously halt our progress and can even be a threat to our immediate lives. If nothing else, these vampires put deep scars in our souls that always need healing.
(FYI: Many of us have energy-draining activities we do as well. Poor food and drink choices, movies, music, television programs, and so on. Be mindful of what drains you and what fills you up positively.)
The Psychic Vampire & Empath Relationship
Energy vampires and emotional vampires (those who particularly deplete your emotions) are attracted to the openness and loving hearts of empaths and all sensitive people. Sensitive people need to be prepared for them. – Dr. Judy Orloff -(affiliate link) –The Empaths Survival Guide
Empathy is feeling the same as another person, feeling pity for another person, and knowing what the other person is feeling or thinking.
Energy Draining Vampires can be your:
- boss
- spouse
- children
- parents
- friends
- coworkers
- relatives
- neighbor
They come in all packages, and you need to be on the lookout for them at all times, for they can be lurking at you as their prey at any given time.
Energy Vamps are energy suckers, and empaths are energy givers, which is why Vamps seek out empathic people in the first place.
Why doesn’t an empath leave as soon as they realize a vamp has sunk its fangs into them. There is a perfect reason. Empaths are good people, and they mistakingly project their goodness onto other people.
Young empaths are naive to the true nature of some humans, and they couldn’t imagine in their wildest dreams that someone would use, abuse, and manipulate them because empaths wouldn’t do that.
It takes a series of “relationship wake-up” calls for empaths to realize there are bad people in this world.
Vamps are cunning and will pin problems on someone else in almost every situation. They never accept responsibility for their role in any issue, and they’ll leave the empath holding the guilt and blame.
Sensitive people are prime targets for energy vampires. You offer a listening ear, a kind heart, and an endless supply of energy for the energy vamp to use at their will.
Empathy is seen as the “natural capacity to share, understand, and respond with care to the affective states of others.”
It plays an important role in social interactions, not only in humans, but also other species including apes, and rodents.
Moreover, empathy is thought to play an important role in affecting prosocial behavior, inhibiting aggressive behavior and is found to be fundamental to the development of moral behavior.
In that way, energy vampires use your very nature against you, draining you of your life force.
Energy vamps always find themselves in the middle of a catastrophe, flailing from target to target with their emotional and dramatic behavior. When they’ve landed on you, they fling this drama onto you in hopes you’ll absorb it and fix it for them.
Vamps will treat the empath according to how they are feeling. If the Vamp is having a bad day, then they will project that onto the empath. They want to make you feel the way they feel.
Empaths and other ordinary people have bad days, but they don’t generally project it onto other people as a vamp would. A healthy person self isolates if they have to until they have dealt with and conquered their emotions.
Energy vampires place their problems squarely on the shoulders of other people. They will not take any responsibility for their contributions to their problems, and they are always the poor victim.
I put Psychic Vampires and Narcissists in the same category.
Narcissists are the most dangerous energy vampire. Why?
Scientific research on narcissists (sociopaths and psychopaths) has shown that they have an “empathy deficient disorder.” Full-blown narcissists use what seems like empathy as a ploy to get what they want when you begin to distance yourself.
Empathy is a crucial human ability because of its importance to prosocial behavior and moral development. A deficit in empathic abilities, especially affective empathy, is thought to play an essential role in psychopathic personality.
They are often insecure at their core, and they may use dehumanizing tactics and criticisms to keep their “prey” uncertain, too.
Energy vamps do not respect their targets, for if they did, they wouldn’t behave the way they do.
11 Signs You’re Dealing with A Psychic Vampire
There is no gadget or meter to know when a potential psychic or energy vamp is sucking you dry. The only way to tell you are under attack is:
- You feel like crap for no reason
- Life starts to suck for no reason
- Constant anxiety for no reason
- Health suffers, and energy is down for no reason
- You’re depressed, and feelings of futility abound for no reason
- Bad dreams for no reason
- You are always in “anticipation mode/hypervigilance.”
- You have a bad attitude for no reason
- You Attract obstacles for no reason
- Feelings of suspicion for no reason
- You doubt yourself and your life purpose for no reason
Yes, there is no physical meter with a dial that goes to the red when you’re being drained and dumped on by others, but there is one kind of meter that has been with us from the beginning called intuition.
Backed by arts like Vibrational Kinesiology or energy healing, and with a healthy dose of reason and emotional intelligence, it may all start making sense.
A few mainstream psychoanalysts have been getting rather frustrated with those clients who cannot get better, who seem to backslide, or whose issues seem vague and impossible.
Yes, they have tried it all, going along with the traditional theories concerning Personal Responsibility and creating our sickness and all that.
After getting nowhere, a few intelligent psychologists have put down the textbooks and taken off their spectacles and have asked those poor patients, the ones with their heads in their hands, questions like…
- “So, who is around you at this time?”
- “So, who are you hanging around with?”
- “Tell us about the people you love?”
So, the bottom line is: when you notice that someone you are connected with constantly makes you feel uncomfortable and tired for no apparent reason. Things start to go wrong in your life, then consider that this other person may be a psychic vampire.
The way to spot a vampire is to be aware of how you feel in the presence of a particular person. When you interact with them, do you feel empowered, neutral, or drained and depressed during the visit and afterward?
Dr. Judy Orloff, who is my go-to for empath self-defense, has a short quiz to see if you’ve been dealing with an energy drainer.
- Do your eyelids get heavy, and you feel like you’re ready for a nap? Yes or No
- Do you ever feel put down or like the rug has been pulled out from under you? Yes or No
- Does your mood take a nose-dive? Yes or No
- Do you suddenly feel physical pain? Yes or No
- Do you want to binge on carbs or comfort food? Yes or No
- Do you feel toxic or agitated? Yes or No
- Does the person corner you to tell you their life story? Yes or No
- Does the person like to gossip and bad-mouth other people? Yes or No
- Is the person critical, controlling, or punishing? Yes or No
- 10. Is the person negative and self-obsessed? Yes or No
What Is Bioenergy?
To understand how vamps affect you, you need to understand what Bioenergy is.
Each of us has a unique energy system made up of different electromagnetic fields in a wide range of frequencies, and this is called our bioenergy field.
This field comprises electromagnetic emissions, which are closely connected to our physical body and our external environment.
In other words, our bioenergy field has two sides—one reflecting the condition of our physical body and one reflecting the influence of our environment.
Therefore, our bioenergy field is like a mirror, showing us the changes occurring in our internal body and the external elements affecting it.
Your environment –where you live, who you share your space with, and who you interact with, along with your physical body’s health, all affect this bioenergy field.
There really are two sides at play here, and if one or both are severely compromised, dysfunction and eventually disease will occur.
On one side of this equation is the health of your environment, and on the other side is the health of your physical body – external and internal representations. This is why we need order in both our internal and external environments.
Why Do Psychic Vampires Do This?
They have difficulty creating their energy because they don’t know how to. Some say vamps were traumatized at a young age and have cut themselves off from receiving power naturally from god or source.
Many vamps are soulless beings because they do not have a self. They are “self-less,” but not in a selfless way.
Since they do not have their natural energy supply, they must siphon it from other individuals, groups, and nations.
They need someone else to feed their energy needs. And they always feed out of fear, and they create fear in the other person, and that fear is their life energy.
Vampires have forgotten how to give something “from their heart genuinely”; their heart chakra is closed. They are disconnected from Prime Creator, and when they do share, it’s always with a “what’s in it for me?”
They are out of balance with their energy flow. Many are possessed by entities from the lower astral planes that use these human vehicles to feed off your fear. These entities are known by many names, but one of them is Archons.
As long as they can feed on someone else, they feel strong and vital, but when the victim is too low on energy, they may walk away as destructively as possible and choose a new victim; or they have several victims whom they are working on at the same time.
If such a person should be exposed and no longer pull life energy out of somebody else, they would collapse and eventually die unless they start building their power by being more positively oriented and working on self-balance.
Psychic Vampire Self Defense
Milton Glaser’s 10 Rules for Life & Work, “SOME PEOPLE ARE TOXIC AVOID THEM.”
“There is a test to determine whether someone is toxic or nourishing in your relationship with them. Here is the test: You have spent some time with this person, either you have a drink or go for dinner or you go to a ball game.
It doesn’t matter very much but at the end of that time, you observe whether you are more energized or less energized. Whether you are tired or whether you are exhilarated.
If you are more tired then you have been poisoned. If you have more energy you have been nourished. The test is almost infallible and I suggest that you use it for the rest of your life.”
Besides Milton Glaser’s advice, I advise you to become more authentic and maintain your boundaries and containment.
- Containers confine your actions in whatever area you find yourself in, and they give you a sense of what you are supposed to do. An example would be you wouldn’t ask your gardener to clean your house.
- Boundaries limit you from doing certain things, and they are the line you must never cross. An example would be a neighbor taking stuff from your garage when you’re not home without permission.
By being authentic and maintaining boundaries, you need to “be yourself” always. I’ll give you an example.
Are you a hugger? Some people hug others at social engagements as a greeting.
Most people reciprocate.
However, some people don’t like to be hugged or give hugs. If you are one of these people, you are authentic by not embracing or stating you do not like hugs, and it’s not a big deal.
Setting boundaries is a form of self-care and must be maintained and practiced regularly. Boundaries are guidelines or limits set by us.
They can include personal boundaries like not eating junk food every day or relationship boundaries where you feel comfortable enough to say ‘no’ to a last-minute invite to go out.
Examples of personal & relationship boundaries are:
- Avoiding harmful or toxic people.
- Protecting our physical space.
- At work – Protecting our ability to do our work without interference or drama.
- Time – protecting the use, and misuse, of our time.
- At Work – Not responding to calls, texts, or emails when you’re off the clock.
- Your right to privacy – Not everyone needs to know your business.
- Saying ‘No’ when you do not want to do something.
I will protect my energy around draining people. I will learn how to set healthy boundaries. I will learn to say “no” at the right times. I will listen to my intuition about which relationships are nurturing for me.
Michael Tsarion: Psychic Vampirism
IDENTIFYING THE VAMPIRISTIC TYPE: Michael Tsarion is on a whole different level when it comes to explaining what the Psychic Vamp is.
VAMPIRISTIC types are not merely suckers of energy; they are dumpers. Spending time in their presence will eventually make you drained, disoriented, emotionally flooded, and unwell.
However, even if you remove yourself from their toxic presence, you may find it hard to heal. This is because the poisonous energy they’ve dumped into your field is not cleared quickly.
It can take years to decord [Decord means to remove energetic connections from another] and return to a hygienic state, all without much assistance from anyone.
Moreover, going to certain healers may be counterproductive. Many New Age “healers” can be vampiristic in their way, so be careful. When entering a clinic or therapy room, take note of the conditions and energy. Use your sense of smell. If it does not feel right, excuse yourself and leave.
To get to the root of vampirism, accepted fallacies must be deconstructed, particularly about the nature of evil.
Let us understand, once and for all, that vamps are not mentally disturbed or deranged. There is no such thing as a mental disorder.
There can only be physical brain damage. Consequently, we understand that deviant actions are performed by bad people.
The Mind & Brain Are Not The Same
It is only because of intentional sleight-of-hand by psychiatrists that we think of mind and brain as the same thing. Nothing could be further from the truth, and nothing endangers the future of civilization more than the erosion of moral conscience.
The man who commits evil acts has not contracted some exotic disease. He is not irresponsible of demonic possession, infection, or mind-altering substances treatable by drugs and physical therapy.
His behavior is the direct result of his hedonism, bad moral conscience, and impaired self-image. So understand that the concept of “mental disorder” is a highly financed psychiatric fiction.
Criminals are immoral and must be treated accordingly. Their deviant behavior is not to be excused or traced to spurious causes. The criminal is not to be medicated, and he is to be punished. Similarly, the good and moral person is to be praised and rewarded.
Vamps are either:
- Amoral – (lacking a moral sense; unconcerned with the rightness or wrongness of something.)
- Immoral -(not conforming to accepted standards of morality.)
We attract them when and if we cannot judge moral actions. Today, fewer people understand what morality is and what moral steps look like. Fewer people are virtuous, and those who act morally may do so due to societal pressure and the need for external approval.
The genuinely moral individual is authentic and contemplative rather than hedonic and worldly. He acts morally because of his conscience and because he understands, as Socrates said, that to harm another is to harm oneself.
Vamps have no such understanding or inclination.
Psychic Vampires Have Pathological Relationships
All their relationships are pathological. They never accept blame for the hurt they cause other people. Even if they pretend to care and value someone, it’s soon clear how shallow and temporary their utterances and affectations are.
Their nature is challenging to detect for a while because we treat them typically and fail to see their underlying pathology. Being moral, we tend to project our virtues on everyone else, whether they deserve it or not.
It takes a lifetime to change this habit and realize the havoc and disappointment it brings.
In time, however, we come to see something incredible about vamps and psychopaths. Although they certainly enjoy and value the experiences they have with us, they do not respect us. In other words, we as people are not essential to them at all, regardless of appearances.
What is important to them is how they feel in our presence. Until we upgrade our insight to detect human insincerity and cunning, we are bound to repeatedly be victimized by such types.
When vamps look back over their lives, their experiences, not people, are cherished.
It’s the complete reverse of the way empathic people operate. It’s not their acquaintances they recall with affection, and no, it’s simply the experiences they’ve had with this or that person.
Experiences that were not titillating, fulfilling, profitable and fun are quickly forgotten. The Vamp excels at turning the page and focusing on the “now.” It sounds like a virtue, but is it?
A vamp will exit as soon as things become even slightly dull, complicated, or sour. Hungry for sensation and fun, they don’t stick around to assist acquaintances through hard times loyally, and they feel absolutely nothing for their sorrows, let downs and losses.
Imagine them standing at your graveside while you’re laid to rest. They are the ones looking for the coffee dispenser, inquiring when the party starts, impatiently checking their watch as every minute passes.
Entitled Vamps
Psychic Vampires believe themselves to be entitled.
They think they deserve not only physical possessions but the time, care, and servitude of others. They are arch-pragmatists who do not care for you as a person. On the contrary, they care for you as a resource and means to the ends of pleasure and security.
They will say anything they think you want to hear in the beginning and during the early stages of your relationship.
To win your interest and trust – to “cord” you – they come across as exceptionally attentive yet strangely elusive.
Initially, they attempt to “walk-in rhythm” with you so that, like a cunning predator, they get to know your “scent” and “pace” – your personality type – as much as they are able.
They expertly give the impression that you mean something to them and that they want to know who you “really are.” In many cases, they “love-bomb” you to get you thinking of them as exceptionally caring people.
This strategy works for them time and again. So understand that no one can or should know you through and through. You can’t know any other person completely, and no other person can know you completely. This is a romantic fiction for which most emotionally-prostituted humans fall.
The person who protects your secrets and privacy of being, and who has this sense of personal privacy themselves, is an evolved human worthy of friendship.
If you’re the victim of love-bombing, ask yourself why this exceptionally attentive, caring person isn’t already in a relationship or why their past relationships have been so fleeting. Why have they picked you as the object of their charity?
Energy Vamps Are Chameleons
Most vamps can be described as human chameleons, and they are malleable and capable of morphing to suit their situation or whatever person they choose to spend time with. This is why it is essential to observe a vamp in the company of others closely.
You will be surprised at how effortlessly they alter their personalities to suit the occasion. If they find themselves in the company of vegetarians, they’ll become vegetarians. The next day, when in the company of meat-eaters, they become meat-eaters.
By mastering the art of “mirroring,” they endear their victims. All the while, they inwardly roar with laughter at the fools they make of those duped into trusting their facade and act.
These acts of “mirroring” allow vampires to set the stage for what they truly want, which is to dump their toxic energy on you. It’s not the act of mirroring that is bad, and we all do it, but the intention behind it is a problem.
When you mirror the Vamp, your intention is positive and truly friendly. When they reflect you, the purpose is purely self-serving and cruel.
You enjoy being liked by others. Better still, you want and crave the company of those who make you feel good about yourself. And you will like a vampire, probably a lot at first. This is because they excel at making us feel good about ourselves and our accomplishments.
So be sure to question what you think you need from others and question what associates desire from you. This process entails being aware that vamps first appear to give a great deal.
Most parasites first inject something of their anesthetizing toxins into your bloodstream before sucking your vital juices.
It’s not much different with human parasites. When the honeymoon ends, you’ll find yourself feeling deeply in debt, and this, in turn, leads you to empty your physical and emotional coffers into the lap of the Vamp.
Vamps Always Show Up During a Crisis
Psychic Vamps often make an appearance in your life when you’re not doing well emotionally and financially. They appear as welcome confederates when we find ourselves especially vulnerable and likely to be overly appreciative for small acts of kindness.
When we feel broken, alone, and desperate, we tend to place helpful people on pedestals.
This is attractive to vampiristic types who love to be adored for something they’re not. They adore bathing and shining in other people’s light. However, despite their show of concern, don’t expect them to stick around tolerating your downers permanently.
Once their little game ceases to edify and deliver what they want, their attitude toward you will dramatically reverse, and they’ll be out the door, leaving you puzzled and numb.
Vamps rarely communicate clearly and rationally about their past. Regardless of how you attempt to probe, you will not be given accurate details about their past friendships, romances, and experiences. Their omissions in this regard are a major red flag.
Their path has been so strewn with depravity and crime that they are forced to dissociate and radically edit their past, rearranging events to give inquirers a false impression.
If you ask about their past experiences, they will feign forgetfulness, change the subject, or change their stories repeatedly, offering brief, edited, implausible, and highly colored accounts.
Not one word of blame will they confess. On the contrary, in their lives, it’s always other people who are to blame.
The past holds no substantial interest for them, and this is true of all immoral criminals. Those who recount past experiences vividly and spend time reflecting positively on their lives are trustworthy and real.
Those who avoid speaking about the past and who deride reflection are kept at an arm’s distance. Do not fall for their plausible excuses “…I never dwell on the past, I focus on the present,” or “…I live for today,” and so on.
This is the rhetoric of immoral episodic, not moral people.
Vamps Seem Normal At First
At first glance, most Psychic Vampires appear to be exceptionally effervescent, innocent, genuine, and even evolved.
They seem to be untouched by the problems that burden most people. This illusion occurs because their sensations are mistaken for genuine emotion.
Indeed, it can take a lifetime for us to discern the difference between sensationalists and emotional people.
In any case, your welfare may depend on knowing the difference and testing for it. Test for emotion by speaking to the Vamp about moving experiences in your life. Observe their reactions. If you do not see genuine emotions, you may be in trouble.
Watch the Vamp in the presence of other people. Note their responses when they are swept into emotionally charged situations. If they remain indifferent, unmoved, exasperated, or bored, it’s not a good sign. Watch emotionally charged movies with them, and observe their responses.
Additionally, discreetly ask them to describe their best sexual experience or spiritual moment. Decide whether the account is truthful or fictitious. For example, ask the Vamp to decide whether the act of sex without love can be as satisfying and as sex with love.
Note their answer. (Most vampiristic people believe that sex can be exhilarating even when love is absent. Indeed, their passion is always missing in every intimate experience.)
Alternatively, pretend as if you believe sexual experiences to be better when love is absent and note their response. (Remain cautious whatever answer is offered, remembering that vamps excel at telling you what you want to hear.
In light of this, carefully choose the moments in which you set tests for vampiristic types in your life.)
Remember that real people experience and display real emotions, including those society pretends to condemn, such as anger, hatred, and violence.
Energy Vampires Are Shallow
Long-term observation of a vamp reveals a conspicuous absence of deep emotion.
Most vamps are incapable of fighting for causes and being angry and passionate about injustice and tyranny. They are incredibly shallow and don’t have access to the deeper layers of life force needed for persistent resistance and hard graft.
The emotional tank is, so to speak, almost empty. Consequently, you will see that they live in a bubble and never act with passion. Don’t assume this facade of tranquility and saintliness to be a good sign.
Real people have real scars and bullet holes.
The Psychic Vampire’s guise of grace and lightness also exists because they don’t care about the suffering that infests the world. This is because they are emotionally dissociated episodics, and consequently, they do not watch the news as moral agents.
Be sure to observe vampiristic people in your life and see whether they are genuinely and deeply moved emotionally by the plight of those who suffer around them. Recoiling from scenes of suffering and horror, casually conversing and intellectualizing about it, or showing no concern whatsoever are red flags.
The Vamp, you know, maybe a wounded entity. Paradoxically, this does not mean they have indeed suffered extreme emotional pain. This is because the person who has known the absolute depths of despair is never inclined to hurt other people in any way for any reason.
Consequently, for the most part, although others may have acted harmfully toward them, vamps are victims of self-harm.
We are all capable of believing ourselves to be deprived and hurt, even when such is not the case, and criminal types believe this even more strongly than most. The emotional wounds of most vampiristic types are, more often than not, superficial.
A vamp is often in denial about their true nature and not necessarily conscious of inner conflict and hurt. They have insulated themselves against deep feelings of every kind.
Nevertheless, when consciously aware of their “wounds,” Energy Vampires convince themselves that they alone have suffered. Consequently, they feel justified if and when they seduce, manipulate, con, deprive or otherwise hurt their victims.
Vamps Are Deceptive
Like most psychopaths, the average Vamp never grieves for the considerable suffering they inflict on people.
As far as they are concerned, past hurt exonerates them of blame and even entitles them to act in a ruthless, self-serving manner.
Sadly, since good people are often compulsive fixers and healers, self-wounded vamps have no problem victimizing them. In the end, after being well and truly drained and poisoned, idealistic fixers realize that they have made no progress whatsoever.
The Energy Vamp has merely upgraded its arsenal and become more experienced in deception. They vacate the wreckage of their making and move on to the next unsuspecting victim attracted by their facade of innocence.
Vamps falsely imagine that everyone’s attitude toward and outlook on existence is similar to theirs. They certainly do not believe that people intentionally act morally, and instead, they prefer to think that everyone around them is fake and hypocritical.
It’s convenient for them to believe that most people are just as shallow and narcissistic as themselves. They adopt this attitude, so they never need to accept blame. What is more, their detached icy stance allows them to point out moral defects in other people expertly.
We frequently mistake this ability as a sign that a vamp is insightful and super-moral. This is what the Vamp intends us to think, and later we realize how misguided we were.
Energy Vampires Do Not Take Responsibility
Vamps are incapable of accepting blame or taking responsibility. It does not matter if the incident or infraction in question is small or large.
Moral people accept blame and experience remorse, whereas immoral people continually and irrationally blame others for their mistakes and misdemeanors and never feel guilty.
To accept blame entails introversion and contemplation.
Energy Vampires are incapable of both capacities, and they’ll end the conversation and leave the room rather than look within and face their inner selves. To progress in life is to admit fault and learn from mistakes, and the Vamp does neither.
Their lack of conscience and general irresponsibility means that vamps are lazy and inept when performing simple chores and duties. They may even be inclined to shun domestic and professional obligations.
Commonly, they seek praise without earning it and tend to rely on others, leaving things to the last moment. When money comes their way, they spend it frivolously and without stint.
Being narcissistic and hedonic, they are incapable of delaying gratification. Surface image is of paramount importance to them, and it is their stock in trade.
During your time with them, Psychic Vampires will, in one way or another, tell you who and what they are, but you must listen well and not dismiss the voice within that warns you that all is not right.
To disregard your inner warnings means to later remonstrate with yourself, saying, “I should have seen the truth” and “how could I have been so gullible?”
When and if you give to a person, how do they reciprocate?
Do they rely on words or deeds to appease you? Or don’t you have proper boundaries? Perhaps you believe in forgiveness and unconditional love? If you do, expect to be victimized time and time again. There’s no saving you.
Deliberately give a vampire a precious gift, and watch what they do with it in the coming weeks and months. (Emphasize that you consider the gift you’re giving to be unique to you for some reason, even if it isn’t.)
Finally, once you decide that an associate is vampiristic, don’t bother letting them know what you know. You have no obligation to them, and your responsibility is toward yourself. Therefore, take steps to distance yourself from the Vamp and move on.
However, before you make positive moves, the Vamp’s energy and behavior will change toward you. This is because they are brighter than you imagine and know when the game is up for them.
Chances are they’ll move on to pastures new the moment they sense that you are beginning to see them for what they are. Before they exit, they go to great lengths to highlight your moral peccadilloes, should they exist.
They attempt to denigrate you and make you feel inadequate in specific ways. Suppose they can convince confederates of your evil behavior, so much the better. They exit with a wicked smile and the notion that they are perfectly justified.
It is also likely that they will work overtime to find a replacement for you before moving on. The new victim will be told every lie in the book about you and the Vamp’s relationship with you. This is why it is vitally important to avoid getting embroiled in the intrigues of the Vamp. Drop them cold and move on.
Psychic Self Defense Against Psychic Attacks
The person capable of doing the greatest good is the person fully conversant with the anatomy of evil.
The soul, or the Self, is something you create here on earth through life experience. The process involves the patient deconstruction of all falsity, which implies the conscious upgrading of critical skills and judgment.
Ultimately, although there is no physical meter or gauge for detecting a self-murdered vamp, the instrument we possess to gain this knowledge is intuition. A highly developed intuition works like the immune system, and it detects and defends against violations of Selfhood.
In light of this, we see that the enlightened person develops intuitive skill and rational judgment on the road to Selfhood.
They trust in themselves and heed subtle intimations provided by mind and body. This is vital because using one kind of intelligence – namely, the intellect – is not enough to ward off evil.
Understand that the greatest evil is perpetrated upon the virtuous. It exists and occurs primarily due to the compassion and ignorance of good people, unaware of how evil works.
Therefore develop critical and judgmental skills and doubt everything. Observe how you suffer by projecting your goodness and virtue on others. Learn how your goodness and compassion enslave you to the will of other people. Goodness without boundary is the soil from which evil grows.
Not Everyone Is Good
Understand once and for all that not everyone you meet is “good.” You have no reason to treat people as good and moral until they repeatedly prove it. You are not obliged to like, respect, or befriend anyone whether they deserve it or not.
Similarly, it is not your job to overtly confront and fix evil. Immoral persons must correct themselves, and they don’t need help from you, even if they pretend they do.
So be very wary when someone attempts to treat you as their savior. If their attempts to flatter you elicit uncomfortable feelings, there is a reason. Your intuition (or deeper intelligence) is sending out a warning.
Many vamps own and thumb through books on sociopathy in hopes of enhancing their camouflage.
After all, what better way is there for a criminal to disguise their nature than pretend to be a detective? In short, because a person appears knowledgeable about obscure subjects, it does not mean they are believed and trusted.
Don’t merely rely on a person’s talk, instead observe their actions.
Your adversaries are the measure of your inner power. Only the powerful have potent enemies. Realize, therefore, that you can defeat any adversary that seeks your downfall.
No matter how dark the way, the light is there to lead you to safety. If you are unable to see it, it’s not the fault of the light.
Evil is never defeated with the weapons it deliberately provides its adversaries.
Evil People Are Threatened By Moral People
Evil people are threatened only by the superior morality and spiritual strength of others. Bad people envy these traits; envy is the root of most human malefaction.
Therefore, due to their ambivalent attitude toward virtue, a vampiristic type may for a while choose to be around you simply because you possess traits they lack and wish to study.
The experiment is doomed from the outset because the relationship will be one of attraction mixed with repulsion and because the Vamp eventually realizes that virtue is not something they can cheaply purchase and install overnight.
In the short term, attraction-repulsion-type relationships feel exhilarating and compelling.
However, repulsion comes to dominate over time, and the Vamp seeks to be rid of your troubling presence. Any failure or moral infraction on your part will be blown out of proportion and used to condemn and demean you.
Other people will be routinely exalted to make you feel crushed and insecure.
The more you emphatically attempt to confront, interrogate or correct the Vamp, the more they become icy, remote, and cruel.
They have secretly bookmarked a long list of your would-be infractions to deftly and ruthlessly use against you when the time comes.
False Love Enslaves
False love enslaves, whereas true love frees. When you think you’re in love, you might be wrong. You might simply be romantically enthralled, and you might merely wish to impress mates or ingratiate parents.
Watch to see if this “love” you’re in serves to make you wise or foolish in your choices and decisions. Sensitively watch to see if you rise or fall, succeed or fail, feel healthy or unhealthy while “in love.”
Do you drive away good friends or win more of them to your side? Do you receive lucky breaks or less of them?
Learn to monitor your emotional moods and states and how they change when in the company of other people. This ability makes you immune to psychic attacks.
Whenever you feel odd, discombobulated, or unwell, immediately and willfully ask, “…is this energy coming from me or some other person?”
Be sure to heed the answer and act accordingly. Be sure to bar negative energy from your being and send it back to its origin.
When it comes to psychic attacks, you most definitely fight fire with fire.
Attacks are against your very spirit, so it’s up to you to defend yourself with all your spiritual might. Above all, do not send “love” to your attacker, and do not forgive or forget their abuses.
To forgive a single instance of evil is, philosophically speaking, to forgive all wickedness through time, which is a right you have not been given.
Understand that pain, sorrow, illness, loss, and conflict are signs that something is off bio-psychically. These states occur when the body, mind, and world are out of attunement.
Contrary to what you have been taught to believe, the imbalance is often not your fault, and it is probably caused by the proximity of toxic, spiritually unworked people.
Therefore, you must understand how the influence of other people affects and disaffects your life. Find out how much of what you decide upon and want is based on the influence of others.
Regardless of your natural composure and equilibrium, the presence of others undeniably serves to attune or detune you.
This is why your character can be judged by observing the kind of friends you make. As Emerson said, “A real friend never gets in your way unless you happen to be on the way down.”
You Need Nothing From People
Psychologically and emotionally, it would help if you had nothing from others. What you require must be brought up or created from within.
The morally superior individual refuses to serve a master and also refuses to enslave others. He is careful not to violate the psychic sovereignty of those he cares for and is equally prudent to own his ground and not be broken in the name of love or duty.
The key to the decording and healing process is soul-retrieval.
Heavy doses of energy have been exchanged during the toxic relationship partly because you gave undeserving people time, care, and resources. You have the perfect right to take that energy back, and this is accomplished by meditation on the subject and appropriate visualization.
The healing process concludes once you make a distinct point of forgiving yourself for past foolishness and lack of boundaries.
Focus on the lessons learned and wisdom received from your experience of evil. Betrayal of Self eventually strengthened Selfhood, so take a deep breath, forgive yourself, and move on.
FYI
Don’t frivolously label everyone you dislike as a psychic vampire. Negatively-thinking people are not necessarily vampiristic types.
People in your life who challenge your way of thinking, which give you flack and tick you off because of their arrogance, may be disagreeable, but that is all they are.
They are probably not infecting your emotional state, so you constantly feel depressed, confused, and flooded.
This article is not meant for you to call out the Vamp; it is written for you so you can identify and keep people like this out of your life in the first place.
Sources:
Psychic Vampirism Michael Tsarion YouTube
https://www.psychicvampirism.com/identify.html
https://www.psychicvampirism.com/defence.html
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