Best Way To Masterbate For Men

Male Masturbation isn’t, and shouldn’t, be all about boring handjobs! There are many ways for men to experience solo pleasure without the standard grip-and-tug method. For those of you stuck in a sexual rut with the same old solo handjobs, it’s time to experience something different. Here are new masturbation techniques you can try out!

X Man

Not to be confused with the X Marks The Spot Position. You may feel silly attempting this masturbation technique, but once you get the angles and the rhythm down, this is an expert-level method. All you need is your arms, some lubricant, and some flexibility. Take your place in the trusty, “on your back” position, with your erection lying close to your stomach. Keeping your arms straight towards your toes, cross one over the other to form an “X” shape.

Arrange your arms, so your palms are resting on the opposite hip/leg (you’re not crossing your arms like you’re angry). Place your arms, so the center of the X is above the head of your penis. Utilize the softer skin of your inner arms while you pump your piece between your stomach and “X” arms. Making this move is an excellent workout for your abdominal and pelvic muscles and offers a fun, hands-free thrust!

Fake Oral

Start with a silky, smooth lubricant, and get ready to feel tension and stroke similar to oral sex! Lubricate your head and shaft, and hold the rod in your non-dominant hand. With your dominant hand, place your pointer and middle fingers together (like a closed peace sign). With your palm facing toward you, slide the head of your penis through your two fingers, allowing them to conform to your shaft gently.

Remember your fingers shouldn’t be gripping, you should be sliding through with ease, mimicking the motion of pressing your penis through taught lips. To add a little extra sensation, place your non-dominant hand behind your finger, and gently squeeze your head as you push through! It feels like soft, wet lips and a gripping mouth, and when you get the rhythm right, you will orgasm in no time!

Suck It, Solo

Some of you may not yet know the wonders of the masturbation sleeve. Usually made from jelly or a more lifelike material, Male Masturbators come ribbed, smooth, or nubby. Some are adorned with realistic-looking vaginal lips while others have a hole to insert yourself. It may seem tricky to choose the proper sleeve, but with all these options, a masturbation sleeve creates private pleasure, unlike what you’ve felt before.

Masturbator sleeves can be used not just like a textured coat while you stroke yourself! They double as sliding, sucking products that feel amazing. Instead of gripping around your shaft, lubricate and slide the sleeve. Then grasp the tip (just over the head of your penis). By pulling and releasing tension (and closing and opening the open end), the sleeve will slide up and down your shaft, creating an incredible suction! You’ve got to feel the difference!

Just The Tip

This erotic tip-teasing method utilizes something you’ve already got lying around - YOU and a soft sheet or light blanket! Use something lightweight and smooth, so it doesn’t weigh down your member or block any of the sensations you’re about to receive. When lying in bed, take the shaft of your penis in either hand and hold it straight upwards towards the ceiling. Drape the blanket over the top of your penis, so it rests gently over your tip and isn’t being pulled down.

With your free hand, reach outside of the blanket. Lightly place your palm on top of the sheet. The sheet should be light/slippery enough to feel your palm through so that you don’t need lubrication.

Feel the sensations of the blanket moving on your tip as you lightly rub back and forth, and in circles with your palm! Alternate speed and pressure to find just the right combination. Just be aware that this technique can make the head of your penis super sensitive, so if it doesn’t get you off, it’s undoubtedly going to turn you on!

Turn Up The Heat

If you want a new and sensational experience with an inexpensive addition, you should toss out your lotion and tissue combo and grab a lubricant that heats up! Warming lube teases your cock with a light, friction-reducing formula that warms you up for a spectacular solo session. A little goes a long way with warming lubricants, and the soothing, smooth glide coupled with tingling warming sensations lets you feel you’re inside a wet, hot lover as you stroke.

Bonus: with water-based warming lubes, you can change from your hand to hand to a silicone or real feel masturbator without fear of deteriorating the material.

So enjoy yourself sir, and dive into a hot new experience!

Best Ways To Masterbate For Women

Believe it or not, most women masturbate in the same way every time, with little or no variation. We do know what we like, and we tend to stick with it. However, there is more than one way to skin a cat – or play with pussy – pun intended. So whether you are new to masturbation or have been playing for many years, here are some ways to use only your fingers to self-pleasure.

Start Above The Waist

Masturbation should not be only about the clitoris and vagina – masturbation should be a full-body experience. Women have sensitive and erogenous zones all over their bodies. So, why should we neglect them when we are self-pleasuring! We shouldn’t. So, start above the waist. Use your fingers to explore your stomach, ribcage, under the breasts and, of course, your nipples. You can tweak and slightly twist your nipples, pull on them gently or rub them under your fingertips.

Vaginal Lip Exploration

We all know that the most sensitive portion of a woman’s vagina is her clitoris, but what about her vaginal lips? The inner and outer lips carry their nerve endings, and exploring them can be extremely pleasurable.

Run your fingers up and down your outer lips, perhaps squeezing them a bit between your fingertips. Pull the inner lips – gently – and then a little more vigorously. Just pulling on the lips activates the lubrication glands and increases arousal.

Clit Stimulation

Of course, if you are going to masturbate, you are going to touch the clitoris at some point. So, instead of rubbing your clit in the same manner as you usually do, change it up a bit.

If you usually rub in circles, try up and down motion. Or, if you feel a little daring try tapping it with your fingertips. Spread your vaginal lips open and tap it gently, then a little harder.

Try different speeds and pressures. See what builds you up more and more. Maybe even use your opposite hand for a completely different sensation!

Penetration

Of course, fingers do not have to be external only. You can also use them for some internal stimulation. You can reach down and use one, two, three or more fingers and insert them into your vagina just barely in, deep penetration or even a total in and out motion.

Do whatever feels right to you at a speed and depth that you find personally pleasing. Some women can achieve some pretty great G-Spot stimulation through internal stimulation via fingers. Experiment and see what gets your blood boiling!

Combos

Probably the most satisfying way to use your fingers during masturbation is to combine all the moves into one, fantastic session. Spend some time warming up and slowly seducing yourself with the not so deep moves. Then concentrate on the clitoris and some tremendous internal stimulation.

Vary the play every time; using your fingers to bring yourself to the brink of orgasm. Then back off and concentrate on another part of your body. See just how close you can bring yourself to orgasm before you need to stop. Then, when you finally want to make yourself go over the brink, do it with the combo of internal and external stimulation.

Unique Masterbation Tips for Women

Self-love, solo play, masterbation or masturbation - call it what you will, we all love to do it. While masturbation seems to be mechanical, there are always tips and tricks that can help you to make things diverse and maybe even more exciting! So, if you are looking for some unique suggestions, hold on to your panties and read on!

You Have Them, Use Them Nipples

Most women realize that their nipples are soft and sensitive and can provide some delightful sensations. However, raise your hand if you ever had a nipplegasm. Yes, it is possible to have an orgasm just from playing with your nipples and breasts!

The next time you are ready to play, pay some attention to the breasts and nipples! Massage a tingling lotion or lubricant on to your nipples before to give you a slick feel! You can also try running a vibe across them or test with clips or suction toys to make your nipples hard and ready!

Voyeurism At Home

Come on be fair, and you know you’ve always desired to see what you look like when you masturbate. So, grab a big mirror and watch yourself! It gives you a little taste (Sucking fingers are right too) of what your partner sees. You will be excited yourself at how much this can turn anyone on. Give it a go and for the more adventurous, take a little video.

DIY Sex Toys

Before there were sex toys, there were cucumbers! What you never rubbed your pussy with a wet cucumber shaft (or even full-on penetrated yourself with it!) Even if you have erotic toys, there is something extra erogenous about using something on the fly. Like, you are home alone from a long day of work and food shopping, grab a condom wrap that stiff chilled cucumber - yep, go for it!

However, be careful with what you use!

Dry Humping

Some of our first orgasms happened by accident. Possibly when we were humping a pillow or a couch armrest, it was an electrifying feeling, and just doing it was interesting. So, why not get your Humpty dance on and re-experience that? Firm thick pillows or a dildo ;) work nicely for this!

Watch Some Porn

Ladies, porn is not just for men! Porn Hub doesn’t have millions of views only from guys, and guess what, the videos have women participants, so let’s give it a go. Porn can take masturbation to an incredible level. Pick something erotically taboo, or something that will get your mind running wild!

You may not know right off precisely what you’re into, but that’s the beauty of experimentation! If you’d instead let your imagination do the work, try exploring some erotica.

Rub That Clit With a Water Jet

Are you lucky enough to have a hot tub or pool? Hot tubs have those incredible jets that when placed just right, will bubble you into instant orgasm! Got a pool? Guess what; the water return makes for a powerful stream too! Snug yourself up against the sidewall so that both your vaginal opening and clit reach the water jets! Got neither, use the showerhead on the pulse if you ’haven’t already. WOW, if your not wet, you didn’t even try, everything involves water.

Just Walk Away

The purpose of masturbation is to have an orgasm. Yeah, but guess what? The longer you anticipate to have that orgasm, the better it will be. (This works for men also.) There is a technique “ ” that is when you are coming to just the brink of the orgasm, then stopping. Bring yourself to the edge a few times, then walk away. Stop masturbating. Don’t let yourself cum that is until the next time.

Lubrication

Yes, you should be using lubricants if you use sex toys. However, what about lube during masturbation with fingers? Sure, experiment with different brands and lubrication, to tease your clit and get you in the mood! You can use a heated lube or a cold lube! Use one that gives you some extra slickness for your fingers to glide all over and bring you to orgasm.

Lube it up! When choosing a lubricant, make sure it’s the type that you need for your pleasure box. You can even combine with a clit gel, and you’ll be on your way to orgasmic bliss!

DP? YES, Doing Double Penetration

Most women never think of doing a DP (double penetration) on themselves during masturbation! You can experiment with a toy in the vagina and in the anal canal simultaneously, is an intense sensation and can be done solo. Get an appropriate anal toy, pull out your favorite vibrator, and start seeing double!

Take Pictures of That Pretty Pussy, Pre and Post Masturbation

Whether you have a partner or not, taking sexy pictures is a great way to get the blood flowing. Doing so will make that masturbation session hot! Whether you are wearing some lingerie, going completely nude, putting in that foxtail buttplug - take some sexy pics.

If you are in the mood, send them to your sex partner. Turning your partner on will heighten the heat of the moment for you! Or, enjoy looking at your sexy self!