It's the little things....

I had a client call me a while back, very despondent.
She had been single for a very long time and had as I had predicted in her reading, met a new man. This guy was honest, devoted to her, faithfull, funny, clever you name any good quality-he had it! Did she jump for joy? You bettcha.
They spent a few fantastic dates together and then she called me, it had all gone horribly wrong.
She was very upset and told me she had 'gone off him'. What did he do, I wondered, did he cheat on her, shout at her, beat her?
No, he had somehow 'turned her off' by wearing his favorite pink shirt a few times.
I had to laugh!
I tried to tell her that because of all his other fanantastic qualities that she should 'overlook' the fact he wore a pink shirt (Something that would not have even occurred to most people as a dumping offence)
No she was determined...she would not 'settle' for a man in a pink shirt.
Now, I would never suggest that anyone settles for anything they don't wan't in a person:
Eg, cruelty, bigotry,a bully, a manipulated...etc, but a pink shirt?
I tried to counsel her she may regret throwing such a great guy aside over a pink shirt...but she was having none of it. She called him and ended it without a reason.

No one should settle for the kind of person they don't want...however we all need to remember the perfect person does not exisit. We can meet the perfect person for us, just not a perfect person.lol We all have habbits that annoy others, few of us look adorable with full blown flu...etc.
I am astounded how many people will end a very good partnership on a whim such as this.
He was devastated and bewildered when he got her call. Both of them sulked for a few months but eventually, my client started to go out and about with her friends again.
She called me very existed one day, she had been out and had seen her ex whilst she was at a dance. He looked fantastic, all the feeling she had felt for him in the beginning had flooded back no sign of that awful pink shirt!
She asked me to take a look psychically to see if there was any chance on them getting back together?
She was not best pleased when I said I didn't need to look and 'no'.
She demanded to know how I could know this without a psychic glance.
I explained to her that she simply could not be ready for love, if a guy wearing a shirt she didn't like was enough to make her dump him.
She was having none of it, she insisted on a reading and well...I gave in to the pressure.

As I looked for her, I found that already another lady had seen this guys great qualities and he was dating. My client refused to believe I was right....she called him.
He was very sweet to her, said it was nice to hear from her etc. She suddenly blurted out that she thought she had made a mistake by ending things.
He was quiet for a momment on the other end of the line...before admitting that it was a pity she now felt this way as he had now started to date a lady she had introduced him too...her best friend from work! They got talking as he had been wearing his favorite pink shirt and this lady commented on it and.....As far as I know, this couple are still going strong too!
Needless to say, my client was devastated, worst of all she feels it was because she acted foolishly. I feel she was not quite ready for love when she met this guy, also she needs to get it straight in her mind that when love in concerned...a pink shirt is the least of her worries!
None of us should be too quick to throw away a really good partnership over a trivial annoyance. Annoyances pass. It is safest to wait and see if they do. Much easier than trying to repair damage done by splitting on a whim and regretting it after, an ounce of prevention as they say...

Remeber, do not settle for any character trait that you feel are unacceptable to you, but snoring, pink shirts, or even untidiness are traits that may just be worth overlooking in a great person. They will love you for doing so and one day when your looking like hell with a temperature off the scal and flu with a streaming head cold. They may return the favour and look on you as adorable(Even) in this condition too:)

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