So I started dating again. Really just meeting people. I know hard to believe while we are in a pandemic. I like though that we are as it is forcing things to be slow. I tell them it is like we are clearing the land for red flags, then we can build a foundation of friendship, and finally the rooms and building. I don't know if any will be a person that I get romantic with, but it is fun to learn people. God though has to be first in all of this.

You may ask why, well, God commands it. There are several times in the Bible in just Deuteronomy alone that God says no other Gods before Him. And a relationship can easily become another God. Not just that, God needs to be first in all relationships. Psalms calls him a jealous God. I don't think so much jealous as concerned or hurt.

I know, different thinking here. I am adopted and it would kill my parents if I called someone else mom or dad. I do have someone I call papa at times, but not in front of them. I think God is like that, hurt cause you give your issues to someone else and not him. You take your love for him and set aside because of the new relationship.

So let us look at what it would mean to have God truly first! He will bless the relationship, you will bond with each other more, and God will be there for each of you. This is just to name a few.

God's love is to be shared. If both of you are in His family, then you get to experience His love and your own love. You get to grow together. You get to experience a whole different type of relationship together.