Be honest to yourself

Don’t lie to yourself, don’t try to fool yourself. Be honest, be bold with yourself. The way you talk to yourself is your talk with the universe. If you promised to yourself you will go to a gym tomorrow, keep your word, do not fool yourself. If you like a girl, do not twist your mind into maybe, I am not sure… say inside yourself “ fuck I like her” and go and get her… Try to live in a flow of your positive thoughts. If you gained few kilos, do not ignore it, do not lie to yourself “I look ok” instead look yourself in the mirror, say it to yourself… “fuck I look like a pig… this can’t be tolerated”. Start being honest and direct with yourself.  Start respecting yourself and others will respect you. Do not fool yourself. How other will treat you in life starts with how you treat yourself. Conversation with yourself is the most important conversation you have during day. Conversation with yourself will probably be one of the smartest conversations you have in your day.

Be honest to others

Everybody lies today, people are even Afraid to be honest with themselves nowadays. Start speaking with your mind, remove filters, not all of them, but slowly start expressing yourself with your thoughts and true feelings. It’s crazy but people trust more those “honest” people then the ones that have no idea whats going through their head and body. Start with small things.. Chair is making you uncomfortable, say it, something smells bad, say it and make action on it.. Let’s move there. So don’t be afraid to say things that are obvious, do not be afraid to offend people. In most cases, your honesty will help them to be better. It’s hard to say to someone that their breath smells bad, but it’s better you to say to that person, than let walk around world with bad breath. They will be thankful for it. Most people filter out and do not say some things. You be the one who is saying what has thinning.

Be a Leader

This is one of your crucial tasks as being an man. People and Woman in general love guys who are leaders. Be the one who is taking care of others, who is organizing things, who is motivating people, be an initiator, push people to do things. On this planet there are two main categories of people. Sheep’s and wolfs. Be a wolf. People would love to do something, but they are afraid or then don’t want to do it alone, that’s why they need a leader, a person who will start, who will push them and they will fallow. 90% of people on this planet like to follow. This is your opportunity to set yourself as a leader in this world. People among us are trained and brainwashed to follow, use this fact. Help them to achieve what they want and they will follow you forever.

Change is good

Your personal Growth Requires Change. Change is good, change is needed! You have to change, survival is all about change. Look at world around us. Technology is changing on daily basis, improving, upgrading. World is changing so fast. We have to adopt and change as well. To be better, to be stronger. So work on yourself on daily basis. Growth requires change! You believe change is not needed? Look what happened to Nokia. There will be moments in your life where you will have to get rid of your old principles, beliefs, some people, friends… As you develop as times goes all those things will change. Therefore be open to change.

Question everything

Dumb people take things for granted. Smart people question everything. From how things work to little details about life. Do not be afraid to ask for explanation when you are not sure. Do not assume you know everything. You cannot know everything. If you feel bad asking someone, google it. Do a research. How does our body works or why fish is healthy. Be an explorer, stay an explorer. Be curious about world. People in this fake world will try to fool you on every single step. Every time you go to a shop to buy anything you are mentally challenged. They will try to trick you somehow to buy things you do not need or to buy something that’s bad for your health. Bad for you.

To live happy you have to outsmart them and system. One small example. Chewing gums. Orbit and all others. They all use aspartame for artificial sweetener. While at same time there are million of studies proving aspartame is cancerogenic. It’s a pure poison they are feeding people with. And nobody talks about it. Again we come back to wolfs Vs sheep’s. If you are a sheep your destiny is doomed.

Don’t ever be afraid to be your true self

Everybody on this planet is unique. You are unique, this is your ultimate selling point to the world. Don’t be afraid to show to the world you are different. You should be different. Imagine how boring it would be on this planet if everybody looked the same, think the same and behave the same. Get in touch with your true self, develop unique beliefs, view to live and do not hesitate to show it to the world.

Defend your beliefs

One of the best ways to feel more confident, and to be sure into yourself is to start saying and defending your beliefs. Do not be afraid to be involved into an verbal argument. Quite opposite, you should be engaged into them. Every time you win an argument your beliefs and confidence will be stronger. Expose your beliefs to the world, let them attack it, then defend them.

Find something comical in every single situation

Look at the life from a bright side. Try to find positive things into every bad situation, try to turn bad situation into a fun. Look at life from funny side, take it easy, and life will be fun and pleasurable, full on nice memories.

Have a Mission

In this life you should have an mission. Mission thats bigger then just going meeting girls, going to office and pay bills. Have a mission thats bigger then life. That will give you spark in the eye an motivation to wake up in morning, it will give an meaning to your life. If you still struggle with finding your mission in life, on Summer Camp (Inner game week) will will have an full day dedicated on how to find an Mission and Purpose of life.

There is no such thing as destiny

You are creating your own destiny. Most people on this planet are busy “finding themselves”. Life is about creating yourself. You can shape yourself into whatever you want. Sky is the limit. Your body and brain is one big muscle that can turn into whatever you desire. It takes time, but if you are truly dedicated you can become who ever you wish to be. Self-motivation is the key in this progress. We man, are pro-active, we do things, we created whole our civilization, whole this world around us.

Look around you. This computer you are watching at or cell phone, this chair you are sitting, your building, home, office, it was all enginered and built by Man. Leave thinking about destiny and “its written in starts” to woman and girls. We man, we shape ourselves and world around us.

Compete as much as you can

Competition is important for every man. compete with others, compete with yourself, push yourself to limits, this will raise your levels of testosterone and push you to be a better stronger man. Stay active in competitive sports for as long as you can in your life.

Always bring a bottle of something to the party

Don’t be a guy that sucks value out from everything and brings nothing to the table. Don’t be cheap. Always replace bottle of wine that you drank on that party or a girl you took home. People will notice that, people will notice you bring value, you give. Nobody likes selfish guys who only think for themselves. Guys who only take, take, take or ask things for free…Its an short term-game.

Be like water

If water runs into an obstacle, it finds its fluid way around or under or whatever it takes—it’s clever. Be in the moment and adopt to the situation. Problems are not obstacles, problems are challenges that you as a man have to solve.

Be like Stone

Opposite from water, be solid, be like a rock, do not let anything breaks you.
If you don’t like something, change it.

Don’t be a person who only talks how everything is bad and does nothing. If you do not like something it is, stand up, take action and change it. Leaders and successful people have good life because they applied energy and time to change things they did not like. Instead of whining and complaining, take action. That’s what great people do on this planet.

If you don’t like your job, quit

Just like with anything else in life, if you are not happy about it, change it. There are so many opportunities out there. If you feel you are not motivated, you do not give your best potential, do not be a pussy and be afraid to quit. nobody owns you. You own yourself, it’s your life. You deserve to have best life you can. But you have to create it. To create best life you have to go through pain and lot of work. Ask yourself are you strong enough to re-shape your destiny and average life into something bigger?

If you don’t have enough time, stop watching TV

Stop watching TV at all. Its a waste of time. Some good movie with your friends or a girlfriend is fine, but rather then that, minimize your TV exposure as much as possible. TV is a perfect brainwashing machine full of negativity (news) to control people.

Do Your Best to Avoid Drama

Drama = negative energy.

Do as much as you can to avoid being sucked into drama. Avoid people who create drama and if you somehow get involved into it, politely exit and do not participate. Drama will suck your energy and get you involved into something you as a man cannot handle well. Dramas are woman’s business. Leave it to them.

Respect yourself

The only way others will respect you is if you start respecting yourself. It starts from you. The more you respect yourself, the more others will do so. Learn how to respect yourself

Your cloths matter

The way you dress will tell a lot about you as a man. Take care of your first impression, take care of what you buy and what you wear. People, especially woman tend to gather lots of information about person from his dressing style. Its really, really important. Do not wear old stuff, do not wear something too big or too small. Learn about personal colors, and wear colors that fits your skin.

Not every person can wear and look good in all colors. There are set of colors that go well with your skin. If you are lazy, get an Personal image consultant to work out your dressing style. The higher you climb in society, the more important your dressing style will be. The hotter girls you try to seduce, the more important this will be.

Stop caring about what others think or say

We go through our days thinking about how other people might be judging us. But the truth is — those people are thinking the exact same thing. Nobody has a time today to think about others. We live in a cellphone era of time, most peoples attention span in less then 1 sec.

They look into you, think for a moment and move on. People walking next to you, sitting in cafe next to you, will never anyhow influence your life. You should only care what people who are important to you. Rest of people are just controlled sheep’s.

How To Not Give A Fuck – Know Your Values

First and foremost. You need to know what’s important to you in life, what you truly value and what you’re ultimately aiming for. Once you know who you really are and what matters to you, nobody will be able to bend your rules or life. The more you value yourself and build yourself, the less you give a fuck about others. Defining your Values – the most crucial aspect of Inner Game and Personality development.

Life is all about managing the emotions

Learn how to control your emotions, still be in touch with your emotions but do not let them to control your life your decisions. Be aware of them, but be stronger then your emotions. Girls are the one who let their life be driven by emotions. You are a Man. Man control their emotions. Man are in perfect balance between logic and emotions.

Learn to Control your emotional knee-jerk reactions

We all have some auto-pilot emotional reactions. They are all coming from our childhood. Some are good some bad. Learn to recognize patterns and get in control over them.

For example, you do not get something you want, you start crying or get pissed off. There is a moment between emotion and knee-jerk reaction (action). In that moment, you can spot the pattern and stop yourself from over-reacting. You do not want to be an slave of your old emotional reactions and habits. A Man should be in total control over himself.

Move out from your parents house

If you still haven’t done that, its a big step in becoming an self- independent man. No woman will respect you if you still live with your parents. Yes it’s hard to do it, it’s hard to step out from your comfort zone and start living alone, but you will have to do it at one point in life. The sooner you do it, the easier it will get.

Create an perfect wake up routine

Perfect day start with a perfect morning. Create yourself an perfect wake-up routine. Do not rush into a day, do whatever you can do make your morning as beautiful as possible. Wake up 30 min earlier then usual and play your favorite music, take a good shower, make yourself an delicious breakfast. treat yourself. Create an “Loving yourself” ritual. Let your morning set standard for whole your day. First 30min of a day should belong to you.

Eat Your (Green) Vegetables

Eat Vegetables, they are source of healthy life. All minerals and vitamins, antioxidants are coming from there. Get your diet in balance between Protein intake ( meat/fish) and salads. They will keep you young and alive on this planet. One of secrets of eating salads is try to eat as many different colors as possible. green, red, yellow, orange… each color will have different nutrients and vitamins.

Being an leader means being Lonely

The more you develop as a person, the more you grow in this life, the less and less friends you will have. Which is an positive thing in your life.

Take care of your family, personal and spiritual health

If you aren’t laughing or smiling on a regular basis, recalibrate life is all about balance. Balance between business ( Making money), family, personal and spiritual growth. Once you have all those components all aligned, you will be totally and fully happy. Don’t forget your personal growth while building your business. Some guys are so focused on building their business that they forget about their families and their love side.
Or some guys fall in love so much they can’t focus on career, they can’t focus on business. Live in balance.

Love but don’t be in love

One of greatest things one thing I learned from very old playboy. Love your girls, but do not allow yourself to fall in love and lose yourself and control over relationship. It’s a weird concept and it will take you some time to grasp this idea, but its so true. Being in-love is so feminine trait and comes with weakness and dependence. You as a man, you can love your woman, without falling in love and being needy. Lots of guys lose their girlfriends and relationships this way. They fall in love too much, they forget about their role in that relationship – Being the Man.

Treat yourself

No one will love you like you love yourself. Take care of yourself. Every so and then, buy yourself something nice, something you really enjoy. Make yourself happy.

Continue Learning

You like these kind of articles and knowledge? This is just an small sample of what this year Summer Camp will be all about. Chasing girls at night and developing, shaping your thoughts, beliefs, values as a man during day. Success from outside comes from peace inside you. Do not is unique opportunity to sort out your Inner self!

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