Are you mentally and emotionally down due to your recent break up with your lover? Ask anybody who had ever experienced a break up, what often come to their minds are thoughts of how they could get back together with their ex.

Friend, in as much as you love your ex and want him or her back, don't ever do the mistake of pleading and begging that the love affair should be restored. Doing this is tantamount to shooting your self in the leg and it will only drive your ex farther away from you.

Wake up, your relationship challenge is not special. Many people have been in your shoes and with the right mindset and strategies, they got back together with their ex.

What then should I do? My advice is that you follow these steps if you are really serious about getting back together with your ex.

After the break up, don't ever do the mistake of contacting your ex even though there will be urgent feelings to do so. Doing this implies that you are doing really fine on your own without your ex. This will allow him or her to miss you the more, thereby making them to realize how valuable you were..

When you are through with this stage and you have given yourself some time of little or no communication with your ex, you can then try reaching your ex for a chat. This meeting is not to immediately ask him or her for a get back, it is supposed to be an avenue where you assess whether your ex still need you or not and also the possibility of getting back together.

These steps are not all inclusive, they are however a starting point and in no distant time, they will help you to win your ex back and start enjoying the love ride once more.

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