We tend to hurt the most the ones we Love the most.

It is dumb, but it is a fact. From one point of view it is actually pretty logical. We spend the most of our time together with them. They see us in the morning, throughout the day and also in the evenings in all of our natural states. They are next to us even in times when we hate ourselves. Others only see us when we are ready for it. When we are clean and nice, and beautiful.

When the other person tells us something what isn’t only sugar and spice about us, then the first phase most of the cases is denial. Only after that you start to think about your own actions. The best part of this miracle that the other half told you something is a chance for us to analyse and understand if this is a bad habit of ours, or there was “a trigger” or a reason for our behaviour. Why was I impatient or intolerant? Why was I so harsh? Why did I started to yell?

Relationships aren’t only black or white. They are colourful. They are all the colours of the rainbow. There are no two identical people. Relationships are meant for us to Grow, to learn, to improve and to help the other half to do the same. To grow! And growing never happens only one way. It is like branches of the tree. They spread to all sides.  We start to grow together, we start to unite in one even when we grow to other sides too. Relationships where everything is “fine” will never bring us to the clouds. They will always be just fine. They don’t challenge us and we start to get too “comfy” with everything, we stop to develop.

Sometimes you have to brake bones, so they would start to heal and grown right again.

We just had a fight. We told each other very painful things, we shared our insults and offense. We touched the most fragile themes. We grew. And growing sometimes hurt too. Thank you for teaching me to see myself from aside. Thank you for being able not only to share everything thats amazing and awesome, but that you are able to tell me: “babyguuurl, this is not okay!”, because it is important so I could grow. things like these should not happen too often, but from time to time it is healthy and necessary.

We both aren’t only the “cookies”. We are young, stubborn, impulsive and sometimes – dummies as well. We have to learn how to use it in our favor. LEARNING, LEARNING an LEARNING again!

I love you. And I love you even then, when I disagree with you, and even then, when I am not interested in something, that you would die for. (new online game for example) But after you have done it, we can meet up and we will never get bored of each other . There will always be something new for me to explore in you. Something that I don’t know about and then you are going to be the hero, the one who will tell me all about it.