| John Wayne Gacy, Jr. Go ahead, speak ill of him. |
The old saying "don't speak ill of the dead" assumes that every dead person deserves respect. But plenty of people do say nasty things about dead people. Some deserve it, some don't. I suppose it could be a matter of personal perception, one that will find disagreement among us. But there are some who are absolutely deserving of being spoke ill of after they've died.
John Wayne Gacy, for example, did many good deeds. But there was another side to Mr. Gacy. From the Crime Library: "It is no surprise that John Wayne Gacy, Jr. was admired and liked by most who had known him. He was a sharp businessman who had spent his time, when not building up his contracting company, hosting elaborate street parties for friends and neighbors, dressing as a clown and entertaining children at local hospitals and immersing himself in organizations such as the Jaycees, working to make his community a better place to live. People who knew Gacy thought of him as a generous, friendly and hard-working man, devoted to his family and community. However, there was another side to Gacy that few had ever witnessed..."
How many of you have ever spoken ill of the late Ronald Reagan? How many of you are currently making jokes about Anna Nichole Smith? Or Mother Teresa? If so, you certainly don't apply the rule of not speaking ill of the dead, do you? And I'm not condemning you for it. There have been many well-known people in our history, recent and distant, who did good deeds while alive. Some performed heroic deeds. A good number of those now-dead heros or do-gooders were also scoundrels. To deny that they were scoundrels is to paint half a picture.
And that other side was not very pretty. He was active in his community. He kissed Jimmy Carter's wife on the cheek, once. But the worst was his habit of killing boys. Gacy was a serial killer. To forgive his evil deeds just because he also did some good deeds - or because is dead - is folly.
"When Chicago businessman John Wayne Gacy was exposed in December 1978 as a sadistic homosexual serial killer it came as a seismic shock to his neighbours, friends and business associates. It was also deeply embarrassing for the Democratic Party of President Jimmy Carter as Gacy was an enthusiastic supporter who had been photographed with the First Lady, Rosalyn Carter." Story at BBC...
| Image by Rudy and Peter Skitterians from Pixabay |
So should we never speak ill of the dead? It's a good rule in general, but sometimes we must. Sometimes it is a duty.
Related: Speak Honestly of the Dead Even if it Means Speaking Ill of Them - Patheos (2021)
