Let us introduce you to Dr. Andy Cope – one of our favourite authors – who has exclusively written this article “How to be an influencer” – especially for you, our readers!

He is the brilliant mind behind the insightful and uplifting books we’ve come to love, including two new books. The Art of Being Brilliant (for anyone who wants to upgrade to ‘best self’ more of the time) and its sister book, The Art of Being a Brilliant Teenager – think the the exact same message, but for the 12+ crowd.

A good dose of positivity and empathy

What we love about his writings is that they embody the essence of influence and positivity in a rapidly changing world. With his profound understanding of human behaviour and well-being, Dr. Cope navigates the complexities of modern life with clarity and empathy, offering invaluable insights for individuals of all ages.

In this article, aptly titled “How to be an influencer,” Dr. Cope delves into the transformative power of Everyday acts of kindness and connection. Drawing from his extensive research and personal experiences, he challenges conventional notions of influence, highlighting the profound impact that each of us has on those around us.

True influence is…

At the heart of the article lies a simple yet profound message: true influence stems not from fame or fortune, but from the genuine connections we forge and the positive energy we radiate. Dr. Cope reminds us that we are all capable of making a difference, whether it’s through a supportive gesture, a listening ear, or a heartfelt smile. By embracing our innate capacity for empathy and kindness, we can create ripple effects of positivity that extend far beyond ourselves, shaping a brighter and more compassionate world for generations to come.

So are you ready for a slice of Dr. Andy Cope’s insightful commentary and infectious enthusiasm? It’s time to immerse yourself in his wisdom and guidance:

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How to be an influencer

It won’t have escaped your attention that the world has changed. Very dramatically, and very quickly.

Children and teenagers have changed too. If I ask an assembly of teenagers what they want to do when they leave school the top three answers are:

YouTuber

Professional gamer, and…

Influencer

Which is the perfect way for me to launch into the science of wellbeing and human flourishing because, after 25 years of hard graft, my PhD basically tells us that we’re all ‘influencers’. I’ll spare you the evolutionary psychology but human emotions are an open loop, so everyone is ‘catching’ how you feel. In fact, you cannot NOT be an influencer!

Rather than trotting out a whole list of ways that you can influence your children to be more positive, confident and resilient, here’s something much cleverer than that. It absolutely WILL help your children to be more positive, confident and resilient, but as a Motherhood Real Deal follower, I’m crediting you with bags of intelligence. You’ll be able to work out the meaning for yourself…

Is it a bird, is it a plane… nope, it’s an…

Everyday Superhero

They’re everywhere, but chances are you’ve never seen an Everyday Super because they’re cunningly disguised as ordinary people. 

For example, your mum is an Everyday Super. She probably can’t lift cars, but she can lift you!

Dads – they might not be able to stop time but they can create time. The most precious time of all. The one-to-one, eye contact, genuinely being in the moment with their family time.

Next-door neighbours might not have x-ray vision but they can see when you need a hand. Their everyday superpowers are revealed by lending you their ladder.

Have you ever wondered why your besties are your besties?

They have the power of empathy. They tune in. They understand. It’s a wavelength thing. They are your cheerleaders (no pom-poms required).

All these Everyday Supers have one thing in common – a superpower of ironic proportions! Because, if you stop and think about it, while we all quite fancy the Marvel/DC superhero power of invisibility, it turns out that your Everyday Supers have the total opposite – the power of visibility. 

In a world of distraction, where everyone is glued to a screen and there’s a cat video buffering, ready to snaffle your attention – the power of simply being there for someone is quite a thing.

The superpower of presence is your gift to the world so why not join the ranks of the Everyday Supers. Embrace your viz-ability and avail-ability.

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