Recently, my children and I were in a significant car accident. We all survived without physical injury. However, the stress of it has been overwhelming. And, it has made me even more appreciative of my blessings. And, with "National Daughters' Day" being today, I am incredibly grateful.

Some people pride themselves on "being the same" as they were years ago. I guess that mindset works for them. However, for me, I can say without equivocation, motherhood changed me. 

Ever since I learned about "National Daughters' Day", I have thought myself to be incredibly lucky. Somehow, the birthday of my only daughter is on September. 25tth--the same day as this new holiday. This year is really special because she turned 13 this year. 

This milestone reminds me. of the old adage, "The days are long but the years are short." I can hardly believe that I am the mother of a teenager. It feels like I became a mom only a few years ago. That feeling remains true even though I have chronicled my motherhood journey on this blog.

I am now aware that the next thirteen years of my daughter's life will be much different as will mine. 

Today though, I am savoring the now. On any given day, being a mother is an exercise in confusion and doubt. I am confused about my choices. I doubt whether these choices are worthwhile. Because the job has such meaning, this insecurity can be overwhelming. However, I have received flashes of validation that make me think I am on the right track. 

She is AMAZING!

I am proud that she is strong, brave, and confident. She has discovered her passion, which is dance. And, she is all about that dance life. I guess that makes me a "Dance Mom" but with less cursing, not as much drama, and less makeup. 

I am incredibly proud that she is kind. Every time I pick her up from an event the organizers tell me how helpful she is. They also say that she is patient with the younger children. It is an overwhelmingly consistent comment. So, I know that it must be true.

I am already in awe of her accomplishments. She is a talented dancer, gifted swimmer, and has already been in two national commercials. My job as her mother is to provide her with resources, tools and opportunities so that the reality of her life is consistent with what she dreams.

Now that she is thirteen, I feel like the stakes have been raised. I hope thatt I remain up for the challenge. 

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