Think about that for a minute. She took an entire day off work and her kid didn't care.

The First Lesson: Maximize Your Time and Resources, Do What Your Kids Enjoy

None of us have unlimited time and resources, especially us working moms. For that reason, it is important to invest our time and money on things our kids value. For me, the wakeup call was in Buying Dresses for my twelve-year-old daughter. There was a time where she wore tutus nearly every day and wore a tiara to the playground. I miss those years and I was trying desperately to hold on to them by buying dresses. As I fought with her about wearing the dresses, I realized that life would be easier if I just let her pick out her own clothes. Because I am a girly girl it was a bit of an emotional adjustment. However, life has been much easier. And you know what? She was much happier with the Lululemon belt bag that I got her than she would have been with any dress. I got so much more bang for my buck that I am never turning back!

The Second Lesson: Forget What Other People Want and Focus on Your Kids

So, here's my lesson. Working moms, we need to get delivered from doing what everyone expects us to do. And instead, we need to pay attention to what our families really want and need and eschew the Rest. What is "The Rest"? The Rest are the things that other people want us to do that neither put money in our pockets or make ourselves or our families happy. I think that working moms are often exhausted and unfulfilled because they are focused on "the rest". Instead, focus on your kids. They are who you love, value and cherish. So, invest your time and resources into things that help you reap real, meaningful dividends.