We're either Engaged in living, or we're engaged in dying.  Which is it for you? Recently I suffered the terrible loss of a close and dear friend: Cristeen Negulis Mangeris. Cris and I went together from 5th grade through 7th. She was a happy-go-lucky girl who never quite grew old in her mind. Well, I will miss talking with her, beit on the phone, even a few days before her assumed COVID Death