hello guys n gals how r u doing im fine hope u are also.
every one in the world want Happiness some go in search of it and others will get where ever they are so,should we run behind the things to get happiness or stay at a place i say it depends on the things we are doing.
from childhood to end of life we do many things some are done with good effort as we like them and others with less effort as we dont like them.how do you distinguish between liked and unkiked things its very simple when you do a particular course of action with out any pressure the chancesof getting succeded is high as, you like that work probably every person will be lucky if he is able to make decisions right from birth to death when you start doing things on your own you will get the confidence that you can achieve anything that you aim for. simultaneously the confidence increases so,the question arises how to gain the confidence that you can do anything especially from your parents why am i saying parents ull know it later.
Try to do this ask your parents to give some work try to complete it with in a stipulated time after doing it go and ask for another work take responsibility and finish it, this time with out surprise they will assign you the work as you have gained the confidence by accomplishing the tasks .so u may think from happiness i went to confidence im coming earlier, I mentioned about parents and ull know it later.sometimes not always ull be forced to do things which u dont like such as you want to take up arts parents insist on engineering or someother and lifelong u need to repent now the term confidence plays an important role that parents have on you is yeah he can take decisions on his own,it doesnt make u happy for that moment but for wholelife.
people say do the work if you are really interested so what makes you interested is that money or position if you ask my personal opinion ill go for position because if u have position money is going to flew automatically.dont go in search of money if u go ull be left with nothing give your best do the work that brings happiness.one should be responsible for his life for anything that happens anger,joy,sadness.when you commit a mistake try to accept it and say sorry dont throw it on others when you are successful in life will you give the credit to others similarly accept the faults ,problems keep hitting us worrying about it will get you stressed up if there is any shortcut to happiness relieving us from the problems it wil be nice but there is no such thing accepting the fact and facing it there will be solution to every problem for some the solution strikes on the right time and others little longer.give the best inputs that you can give and hope for good results.
I had to face a difficult situation what happened is we took a policy in hdfc life insurance,premium amount was ten thousand for 3yrs during the payment of 2nd yr premium the bank official informed me i have to pay 2lakhs as premium amount i was shocked asked r u joking its not possible he said the policy amount has gone up my father was out of station so,i need to take care i went to bank in order to speak with the bank manager he was busy he asked me to come again i went again the next day he said u r name is on the list no need to pay but its not yet confirmed.I was thinking how can i get out of these because if i didnt pay the premium amount i was on the eve of loosing the rest of the deposit we had in bank.The bank manager asked me to come again i went that was the last day for payment and another bank official came earlier day i spoke to him and we met i wrote a letter requesting them to reduce the amount from 2lakhs to ten thousand by gods grace he accepted.But i didnt had money to pay as my father wasn't there my brother in law lended me in cash the bank official asked me to give the cheque i thought for a moment and searched the whole house you dont believe i found out one cheque signed by my father but if i gave the cheque it would bounce back as there was no cash in the account so, i took a demand draft and deposited ten thousand on my fathers name there on it was encashed.so what i ultimately say problems will come in any of the form be ready to face rather it clinches your happiness.
JAI HO INDIA......