I finally had that "aha!" moment last night.  You know the one where you realize that you are a grown-up.  One would think that I would have had it by now.  I mean, I've been shopping for a condo and have made a few offers...all of which was terrifying to me.  That alone should have Caused that "wow, I'm an adult" moment. But no.  What caused it?  Well, I left work yesterday, walked to my car,