This year was one of the toughest I can remember. I could not WAIT to be done with 2016, but upon prepping for this post, it was nice to realize that hey, some good things did happen as well. I feel like I should be walking away from 2016 with some introspective and profound realizations and wisdom to bestow, but alas, the best I could come up with are these summarizations of the past year:
1. Optimal physical health is something that should not ever be taken for granted;
2. A marriage with a strong foundation is of utmost importance when one's physical health is compromised;
3. The kids are all right; and
4. A trip to the beach is always the answer.
And now, I apologize, for this recap is quite long and self-indulgent, but it's nice to have it written down. To look back and remember...
January 2016 started off with promise, with a friend's 40th birthday bash, and the excitement of an upcoming Florida trip with another couple.
Beach time in January is never a bad thing.
Neither is long-lost friend time.
And our kitchen renovation began in earnest:
But January is also when Hubby began to feel sick with stomach issues. It was definitely just a small sign of things to come...
Nonetheless, in the beginning of February, I celebrated my 43rd birthday with an annual overnight spa trip with girlfriends.
But then, Hubby got sick and was hospitalized for a week. Turns out he was having complications from his longstanding diverticulitis.
In March, our kitchen re-do was finally finished!
...and Hubby was hospitalized, again, with the same stomach complications.
So we postponed our 17th anniversary getaway to focus on him getting well. And we also scheduled surgery for him in the summer to remove the portion of his colon that was riddled with diverticulitis.
In May, we were finally able to get away to Maine. Hubby wasn't feeling his best, but he humored me
And we had more family health issues. My dad underwent a 10+ hour back surgery in Boston.
And although I wish time would stand still, it simply won't. Eldest had his 8th Grade Dinner Dance.
And of course there was baseball. Always baseball. I'll spare you (and myself) the multitude of pics of that. My bleacher butt can attest to the hours of baseball played from April-July.
Again with the passage of time. Someone turned 12 in June...
...and Someone turned 11 in June...
...and yet a third Someone graduated from middle school.
And then there's July.
Surgery Month.
It was a long, hard road. With a long, hard recovery. And getting used to a new way of life for Hubby. Due to surgical complications, he was left with 36 abdominal staples and a temporary colostomy. This involved visiting nurses coming to help him learn how to care for it, an infected incision as a side effect, and just lots and lots of frustration and helplessness (on both our parts). Needless to say, it was a super tough summer. Throw in the parental guilt of cancelled vacations and summer plans, and you have the perfect storm of Suck.
Thankfully, we are so very lucky to have a Village of friends and family who jumped in to help us.
August brought about the boys' very first concert - Florida Georgia Line. We missed Hubby dearly, but he wasn't up for the crowds and chaos of a country concert so soon after his hospital stay.
There was also a Staycation Week for me, in which I tried to cram in as many fun things as I could with the boyz, while Hubby continued to recuperate at home.
And some beach time with my parents on the Cape...
And with that, summer was over. Football began, and so did school.
And then there was our annual Labor Day trip to Hampton Beach in NH, which is always a good time!
September was also when Hubby began feeling more like himself and willing to venture out. (Never without his trusty backpack of supplies though.) We hit up the Big E (state fair) as a family in September...
And Hubby somehow came away from that with a new cowboy hat. Who am I to tell a sick dude no?
In September, there was yet MORE beach time for me with a friend. We had a glorious RI beach day all to ourselves...
And Eldest was happy to be playing football on both the Freshman team and the JV team and also dressing for the Varsity games. He was so fun to watch play!
There was the Homecoming Dance...
...and a Girls Getaway to Newport, RI where I squeezed in a final beach day!
Still in September (it was a busy month!), my parents came and my Mom and I saw the musical Wicked.
But best of all, I surprised my parents and Hubby and the boyz with a visit from my youngest brother from Colorado. We pulled it off without a hitch!
Then came October. And with that, a 15th birthday.
And Middle got his braces ON.
And because we weren't quite yet done with medical issues yet, this happened:
Broken collarbone. Done with football season.
And the end of October brought us Halloween 2016.
Finally, on to December. An end to a year that was bad, yet reminded us how much worse it could really have been.