Ok, I have no idea how to "blog" but as I indulge in an unusual profession I have been asked and have agreed to do so :) .

I am a prostitute/working girl/whore/escort, I work in what is referred to as a "massage" parlour and obviously Miss Amalie is not my real name (but for privacy let's go with it ). Mine is a job usually shunned due to misconceptions, religious intolerance and social stigmas; in fact it is this stigma of my world that I want to try and lift by opening up and helping to educate the population on what kind of women work in the sex industry and what that really entails.

In this first blog I will discuss a couple of very commonly asked questions and for future blogs I am opening up the floor to you...simply message me your questions and I will try to get to each one.

1. Do you have a husband and does he know what you do?
     
      Yes I have a husband and yes he knows what I do. In fact I discussed it with him when I decided to go back to work.  For privacy I will refer to him as MrAmalie and when we were first discussing it I gave MrAmalie a "client" experience this showed him the difference between what we have at home and what I do at work. He is confident in me and our relationship and I absolutely adore him for it :) (Perhaps if you wish to send messages for him I could have him write a blog or two on here).

2. Is there anything you don't do?

      Yes, like most working girls I have limits (which I set myself), think of it as similar to 50 Shades of Grey, we have hard limits that each girl sets to her individual boundries; for me it is no anal sex and no kissing (the first as it can be painful, the second I see as very personal). Then there are soft limits (things you may do with one customer but not another). All I can say is each woman is different and a good boss respects and helps to enforce that :)

3. What about STD's/Health?

      I get asked this a lot, and the industry is actually very strict on this. We are required to get a clean bill of health from a doctor every 3 months a copy of which has to be given to work. There is also the fact that for me, nothing happens without a condom. A good work environment will not allow "bareback riding"/"natural" due to health and safety, but I have to admit (like in every profession) there are a few who think that they are above this or simply don't care about safety. Still a professional girl is usually about 90% "cleaner/safer" than a girl who may be picked up randomly.

4. How do the guys pick a girl?

      This can differ in each establishment; but in ours the guys are shown into rooms by the receptionist, then the girls go in one by one, introduce themselves and let him know what they will or will not do (this is usually the time the guy will ask for a specific thing). Once all the girls have been introduced the receptionist goes back into the room, they find out what girl he has chosen, how long he wants and then collects the money. The receptionist then sends the requested girl in.

5. Do you feel guilty about possibly sleeping with someone's husband/wife?

      This question gets me cranky for a number of reasons. Firstly I state that I will not be held responsible for the actions of someone else (it would be like the world hating you because your brother drove when he was drunk and killed someone...illogical and completely unfair).
Then comes the inevitable, "you are doing damage to relationships, if you weren't there then he couldn't cheat" to which there is one response BULLSHIT! a married man is more likely to pick up a woman off the street as it doesn't involve him having to hide the bills from his wife.
I did have a person point out in my defence that if someone was cheating on their diet you wouldn't blame the fast food stations...I appreciate the analogy but the people who attack do not understand that with a working girl, sex is a simple duty (like opening the mail), it holds no importance for me unlike sex in a relationship which most people connect with love and other emotions.
Rest assured ladies/gentlemen 99% of working girls have absolutely zero interest in your partner we are simply doing a job.

Well I think this is it for my first blog...thankyou for reading it, I hope it explains a bit of my world to you and please feel free to message me with any questions you may have. :)

MissAmalie
xxx