Good evening everyone as I don't work weekends I don't have any quirky stories about my day at work, so after being asked "how do you go about becoming a working girl"? I have decided to take the bull by its horns and YES I am going to reveal not only how to get into the sex Industry but also a kind of survival prep list for those who are interested can follow. So let us dive into the main question:
1. "I'd love to get into the industry but I don't even know where to look for them kind of jobs and like what sort of experience/resume would I need" - C.B.
To be honest I am amazed at how many times I have been asked this in the last few weeks, it is pretty encouraging to see that so many women are starting to see this as a viable job to help support their families rather than a shameful sin that should only attract the worst kind of woman.
Anyway before I get into it there are a few things you need to sit down and clarify:
1) Where do you want to work? I recommend somewhere at least 30mins away (I work about an hour from my home), remember the closer you work to home the greater the chance of running into someone you may know (school principle, a school friends dad even your own GP) and standing in a grocery line or attending a party a seeing a guy you had sex with the day before can be rather awkward lol. So make sure you pick somewhere away from your home, your kids schools and where you generally shop.
2) Who do you tell? I have to promote honesty with your partner, though I do understand that not all men are as open and trusting as mine. But if you can't tell him, is there a family member or very trusted friend? Try to have at least one person outside of the industry who can be a sounding board for you but remember to choose carefully, this person will know and can really hurt you with this information.
3) Cover story! Because of the stigma still attached you need a fake job to explain your absences and the money. Think carefully, you need a job where no one can "pop in" to take you out for lunch, that can explain why you sometimes work to 3am and why there is no office number they can contact you on. Here are two that I have used, working for 000 as a phone operator and currently I tell people I work for an insurance company logging their emergency claim calls.
4) Hard limits....make a list of things that are a complete no no, mine is no anal sex and no kissing. You should not have to explain why and if a brothel owner tries to push you about it then walk away.
5) Stability, honestly evaluate your current situation: are you reliant on any substance? Do you suffer from depression or any other mental illness? Or are you incapable of separating sex from love? If you answered yes to any of these then the sex industry is not the industry for you.
Right onto the next step.....the SEARCH!!! Just for an example I am going to use Woop Woop as my location.
There are 3 main "search engines" I guess you could call them, well 3 that I have used. Firstly good old fashioned news paper find the local paper in Woop woop and check out the classifieds section; secondly try a general google search ie Brothels in woop woop; finally my personal recommendation, Locanto and for the purpose of this demonstration I will be using that.
1. http://www.locanto.com.au/?
2. Enter in your location ie woop woop
3. Scroll down to Personals
4. Select Personals Services
5. Select Jobs
Make a list of the jobs you find interesting. Before you start calling have a list of questions you want to know, I recommend the following:
1. Can I set my own shift schedule?
2. How many girls do you currently have?
3. Do you have a large client base?
Set up "interviews" at the brothel and do a walk through. Wear something that shows of your best asset ie boobs, curves or legs and make sure the facility is clean, the girls seem friendly, they have security and the owner/receptionist is approachable (if they want you to give them a "demo" walk out!). Remember to that they generally need you more than you need them, there is a market for all types, sizes and shapes of women and most importantly tell them exactly what your hard limits are :)
Ok so you have the job and you are preparing for your first shift:
1. Hair, it is better to have your hair out/down for the introduction and then (if it is too annoying) tie it back once you are in the job. See your hairdresser and get a top up on your cut, colour and style.
2. Nails, guys luuurve some long trampy nails so get a manicure or splash out on a good set of acrylics (about $50). They need to be enticing without being impractical (you still need to be able to open a can of coke or put a condom on).
3. Clothes, some places like you to wear lingerie but most want you to wear a cocktail dress, short, low cut and stereotypically tarty lol. Have at least two outfits for every shift (just in case). Matching bras (push ups are best) and panties (preferably G-strings but see through or lace are fine) are essential!
Below is from Best and Less $30
Supre Dress $15
4. Shoes, in a word....stripper! Find a pair of sexy heels that go with your outfits, usually not a lot of walking is required so don't worry too much about keeping your balance.
Spendless Shoe $29.99
5. Work bag, have an overnight bag for your shifts. In it will be hair products, long lasting make-up, clothes, shoes, ID and something to do in the down time (I personally cross stitch, read or play pokemon on my 3DS).
Finally go to work! Remember your first is always the hardest but once that is over and done with you will find it easier. Also remember to talk to the other girls and receptionist, they understand any confusion or emotions you may experience.
TIP OF THE DAY: Sponge Tampon
For those women who want to have sex during their period or who want to work through that time of the month then please let me introduce you to your new (slightly disgusting) best friend...the sponge. The one above comes in individually wrapped packets for hygiene purposes. Simply add lubrication all over the sponge and insert into your vagina (exactly like a tampon), I find pushing it to finger length inserts it far enough not to be easily detected but close enough to remove with no trouble (to remove simply squat and insert your index and middle finger, pinch the sponge and pull out). Some women like to add string to the end for easier removal but I do not. I have never had a client detect it!
So ladies (and possibly gents) I hope I have covered this for you and remember to contact me if you have a question.
Keep sexy
Miss Amalie
xxx
This post first appeared on Adventures Of A REAL "working Girl", please read the originial post: here
