Each Couple has its own reasons for a break up. However one thing can be said about all of them without exception – they just did not get what they needed from each other, be it care, attention or support. To give or not to give a second chance is a question which tortures every woman on a certain stage of here life. If you think about giving your man a second chance, it means that the emotional closeness between you two has remained, and if this feeling is mutual, it may be worth a second beginning.

The concept of break up exists on two levels – formal and Informal. You can stop living together but on the Informal Level you will be still connected. To break up does not mean to forget and turn a new page; it is a long process which resembles disease. The Relationship should be given a second chance only if both of you understand, that it will be a new story with two new persons.

It is impossible to finish the connection on the informal level if you or your partner do not understand what specifically they wanted from the relationship. This feeling of incomplete makes you hesitate whether to return or not. If you decide to return, you should clearly understand the reason of your break up in order to avoid old mistakes.

Some women use the threat of break up as the way to show who the leader in the couple is. However, such manipulations lead to negative experience which can abruptly end your relations. It is better to use some other methods of communication and explanation of your needs.

If you decide that your relationship worth saving, do not expect that all previous offends and conflicts will be forgotten and you will easily start a new chapter of your life. It is important to approach new stage gradually and carefully, to survive the loss of previous relationship and cope with pain and hurt. In any case, even if the attempt to revive your couple will not bring results, you will leave with understanding of what you need and what kind of a man you should search for.

To sum up, giving a second chance is a good decision if you are ready to bear responsibility for understanding and satisfaction of needs in relationship, to satisfy these need in a new way and are sure that your man is also ready to start new relationships with you.