So often in life, if things aren’t going the way we want it to, whether we are for example, unemployed, without a partner, friends or in an unideal living situation, we can end up feeling embarrassed, like something has to be justified and like something must be wrong. The problem is that so many things can be done purely for the consent of others that we can end up stripping away our autonomy. What do I think? What do I feel? What do I believe in? Who is to say that when life isn't going the way you want it to that this is the biggest time of growth and development that you could ever experience. When you lose it all, this is an opportunity to be happy with little and when you are happy with little, you then see how much you have.