Our story picks up where we left off the other day……
I was so happy to have met a man who lived close, and had many things in common with me. It was perfect! I felt as if fate had stepped in for me and I had found my Prince Charming. I had a lot more to learn about toads between then and now.
So the “policeman” and I carried on our flirting every night and some during the day. We were happy, or so I thought. After talking by webcam the whole time, for several weeks now, I asked him when he was going to actually ask me out. This is when I started learning some things. He was very secretive about our talking and being seen together. He started coming to work to get in my line (since I am a cashier) and flirting but also acting like he didn’t really know me. At firsts I thought it was sort of cute. But time went on and I started wondering. He told me that he had to be careful since it is a small town and everyone talks because he didn’t want to get a reputation that he asked out people he arrested. Okay, again made a little sense to me. He said that every time he pulled someone over he would hear rumors that he was dating them after that. Again, makes sense to me, somewhat.
I had also learned during out talks that he lived out of town in the country in a 4 bedroom house and also owned a small farm. He had also told me he wasn’t in a serious relationship and hadn’t been in a very very long time. He had not been a policeman long, only a few months so after the first of 2012 he was going away for three months for police training. He wouldn’t be around if any at all during those months. My good looking, tall man also told me that when he got back he would be taking are relationship to the next level but he loved going slow. He didn’t want his heart broken again. How many men say this? He had told me a few times how he wanted me to keep us and what we had “quiet” until we were actually going out. Hum………….when I am happy about something it’s really hard for me to keep quiet. And I was HAPPY!
I couldn’t help but share my happiness with my family, friends at work and some friends at school. I shared too many secrets with too many friends when I done this. Then again, maybe not, maybe I got exactly what I needed. And so did “tall policeman”.
On a Friday night at work I heard from another cashier that she had heard he was dating a certain Woman and had been for a long time. Naturally this hurt thinking about it but it also got me to wondering. Was he really telling me the truth? Was he has honest as I thought? Should I dig deeper and find out things?
I decided to dig deeper. After work when I got home I was on Facebook. I must say you can find out all kinds of important information on there. I spoke by messenger to another friend on Facebook because I knew she knew him fairly well. She also told me he was Engaged to a woman that I had worked with at one time. She also told me that not only were they engaged but he lived with her. So I found out who the woman was.
Should I contact her? Should I confront him? Should I do anything at all? Maybe he was tired of her and it wasn’t working out and that he was waiting to tell her this? Maybe just maybe he was getting rid of her for me? Did I want someone who would toss someone else away that easily?
I had so many questions running through my head but it didn’t take me long to decide what I had to do. I had to contact the woman to whom he was engaged. I needed to know, I needed to hear her, and I needed to tell her what a scumbag he is. I didn’t want to hurt her, but at the same time I would have wanted someone to let me know if it was happening to me. In some strange way it was happening to me.
I refused to let another man screw with my heart ever again. No man would make me feel bad, knock my sense of self down, or do me dirty again. It was time to take action and stand up for myself once and for all.
I reached out on Facebook and sent her a message. At first it was just a message asking how someone else we worked together was doing. Then I started asking her some personal questions about who she was engaged to? She answered exactly how I was told she would. Yes, they are engaged she said and “why?” At that point in the conversation I felt it best to maybe have her call me. Before I could even say this to her, she asked me to call her.
Once I got her on the phone I told her what had been happening. I also told her that I wasn’t trying to hurt her that I only wanted her to know how he was treating her. I apologized to her for flirting, talking and sharing our bodies over the webcam. Yes, close your mouths we shared body parts. Just looked but it was sure nice to see. Back to the story……………….
She was angry! Not at me, but at him. She accepted my apology and we talked. I ended up learning that the house he claimed was his was really her house. He did have a farm, if you could call 3 acres and a house trailer a farm. He didn’t even pay any of the bills. What a joke he ended up being to the both of us. She went on to tell me she has been expecting it to happen. They have been engaged for four years and he also tried to keep them somewhat hush hush as well. She said she met him while he was living with another woman with whom he had lived with for several years. She and the tall policeman started their affair together, which was 2 years before they became engaged. She had to give him an ultimatum to get him to get out and leave the other woman at that time. So she said “I knew it would happen to me eventually”…………………………………..
To be continued later.
Keep sharing the secrets,
Savannah, Chloe and Tyler
