If your bra can handle these, then let's talk!Dear Bra Manufacturers, Hi there.  I'm Jen.  I am a 40 year old mother of two. Actually, allow me to introduce myself in a language you can understand: I'm a 38 DDD. I have always had a ridiculous time bra shopping for these small boulders I carry around and I'm always cursing your names.  You've probably heard me yelling "Damn you, Maidenform, and your barbed underwire!" or "I hate you, Vicki!  Your secret is to...