Hello readers,

Now, I do think of myself as a reasonable person. Given any situation I tend to weigh the pros and the cons. I literally write down all the benefits and all the possible negatives of every given situation/relationship/and relation. This is done in order to limit Time-Wasted, drama, confusion, and problems. If the cons just slightly outweigh the pros, chances are that I will stop such activities/thoughts. And NO amount of pleading, encouragement, persuasion on anyone else’s part will change my mind.


Note: 1) I am self-admittedly stubborn (sue me!). 2) I just hate creating unnecessary headache for myself. Life is just wayyyy to short!

Occasionally though, I do act even though I see that the pros are clearly feeble. I convince myself that the negative/cons are not that bad or that I can handle them. One could say I ‘second-guess-myself’. Time and time again evidence has proved that my initial gut feeling was right. The result: I must deal with the consequences. Even though the results may not have been as bad as I thought it would be- time was STILL wasted and unnecessary energy was used up!

Of course there are some situations where one must act, even though the cons outweigh the pros by a landslide. For example: new investments, starting new businesses and ideas, and even in the development of some relationships. In these cases, the final benefit makes up for infinity cons.

That said, there can be grave reciprocation from ignoring known cons.

May I/we be granted the wisdom to differentiate...

Goodmorning/Goodafternoon/Goodevening...

Live life, laugh, smile, play, stress free!