It's been said that I ask waaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too many questions. Especially when I first meet a potential " datee". I've been told that my many questions are a turn off. One date I went on, the guy said to me " This isn't one of your interview shows you know". Excuse me for trying to get to know him then hunh?
I admit that maybe just maybe the questions could be a little too much. But as I've stated before and I will state again, I am a journalist by nature. So what does a journalist do?? Part of that job is to ask questions. So basically that's what I do. Am I supposed to pretend I'm bird watching... waiting for this guy to drop an egg?? Yeah yeah let things take its course, but there are some things I'd like to know upfront.
I ask my questions yes. But they don't come spitting out of my mouth like a hail storm. And I don't fire off my questions like the fireworks at Canada day. It's a gradual process.
I' m not like this all in one breath : So what kinda music do you listen too? Isn't Caitlyn beautiful? , What's your favorite show? What kind of coffee do you like? Where do you work? Do you want kids? Do you wanna get married? What was your longest relationship? Why you'd guys break up? ....
I' m not like this all in one breath : So what kinda music do you listen too? Isn't Caitlyn beautiful? , What's your favorite show? What kind of coffee do you like? Where do you work? Do you want kids? Do you wanna get married? What was your longest relationship? Why you'd guys break up? ....
Would you rather me stalk your social media to figure out who you are? Then form an opinion and make my own assumptions? No because I have such a barmy imagination only God knows what my assumption may be so you really don't want me to do that.
In my defense I don't have time for games or non sense. So I ask straight shooting direct questions.
Do I believe some things can be figured out over time? Of course. That's how we find out a lot of things. But if I don't have answers to my questions within a decent time frame of 1-2 months I'm sorry but we're not able to continue this conversation.
Take for example some weirdo who appeared on my whatsapp a few weeks ago. I asked him who he was. He gave me his name. I then proceeded to ask him where he got my number from and he replied with a "smh" now if you're familiar with whatsapp you know that you have the person's phone number in order to add them. So I asked him if I'd receive a response as to where he scooped my number from and he then replied that he thought I asked wayyyy to many questions and that he wasn't giving me an answer. So that led me to end our conversation. Letting him know I won't continue to engage in a conversation with him. I then blocked n deleted him. Who has time for that?? What did he think I was going to do? BEG him for an answer? Or perhaps ask him more than once.? No thanks . I'm like that old school strict mother who only asks you something once and after its not done then you'll play by my rules.
I know they say "curiousity kills the cat", but I must have 90 lives because I'm still here :)
So in true Miss Trish fashion I have to ask : What Do You Think?
So in true Miss Trish fashion I have to ask : What Do You Think?
