Sometimes we don’t have a realization what we are doing. but actually, we are hurting someone’s feeling who are very Close to us. I know what you are thinking that how is it possible?  people who are very close to our heart we wanna do something for that to make them surprise but you know what in over-excitement we do something big,  something that they are expecting from years ago or months ago as goal or dream. they live every second with that goal or dream and they really work hard to make it real.

when people are too close their dream or goal and at the same time people make it as easy that “it’s not a big deal, why are you waiting? just get it now (as surprise or prize or as a gift)

now think how badly it hurts from inside, acting happy from the outside but full of tears from inside. it’s like you broke someone heart but they can’t react to you because they don’t wanna lose you. I agree that can make many people’s life. or most happy sometimes. you can win their heart if you really know them very well.

“sometimes self-respect and self-achievement become the first priority for their biggest happiness”

small things make people happy that they think it’s very hard to achieve and lastly, they achieved it without anyone help. what matters for them is that satisfaction of their hard work.

“Don’t make the great moment worst with a good intention because it can become a rock that hurts so bad” “think before execute because sometimes good becomes bad or bad becomes good”