Life Advice | When You Feel Stuck and Unhappy
This happens to plenty of people, you just feel stuck in one spot and unhappy. It can be a relationship, city, house, job, friendship, whatever it is it can be making you unhappy and feel like you just have to settle for something you’re not happy with so you don’t hurt the other person.
Let me give you guys some advice because I’ve been going through the same things. If you feel unhappy and stuck in a relationship, LEAVE you deserve Happiness. If you feel unhappy and stuck with a crappy job, QUIT you don’t deserve to be miserable or working you’re a** off for something you’re not happy doing. If you are sick and tired of your house or city, MOVE because you deserve to be where it feels like the sun is shining bright every single day and where it feels like you’re at HOME.
My point is, don’t stick around and feel like you have to settle to make someone else happy. It’s time to make yourself happy. Once I figured this out myself because I haven’t been happy for a while with anything, relationship, house, city, or job, anything. Once I realized this, I decided to make a change. Now I’m on the verge of getting a great job, a nice car, and I’m headed home where I belong. I’m going back to the home I felt in 9thgrade when I was 15-16 and up until I was about 18. I’m going back to the days I was happy and knew I wanted to be with that person for the rest of my life, the one I could trust. The one I pictured and still picture my future with. I’m going back home and working the job I’ve wanted for a while to get the job I want for the rest of my life. I’m getting the apartment I’ve always dreamed I’ve wanted. I’m working my way up to the happiness I’ve always wanted to give myself.
My mind has been so off lately until I finally realized, it’s time to fight for the things I love and need that are beneficial for my future. It’s time to fight for my happiness and work hard for it to get to it. It’ll take time to accomplish every single one of these tasks I’m sure, but I want the majority of it taken care of by the end of this year. 2017, I’ve felt something great would happen since it started, now I know what. A lot is going to change and it’s going to be incredible changes.
There will be obstacles that try to stop you in the middle of it all, but don’t let it completely stop you. If you want happiness get up and fight for it. If life knocks you down, get right back up and show it who is boss. Your happiness should come first no matter what. Fight for what you believe in, what you love and who you love, never stop fighting and never give up. You won’t regret it when you’ve accomplished it all and you’re so happy that not a single thing could ever mess it up. Hard work always pays off and it’s hard to work towards your happiness but if you finally figure out what you really really want, you can work hard for it and you’ll remind yourself every single day why you’re doing it.
My main point of advice here is, make sure your happy and fight hard every day for that happiness no matter how hard it is or how impossible it seems. Anything is possible and everything will work out the way you plan for it to if you keep the faith, positivity, and hope. So, pray hard, work hard, and never give up. You’ll find and get to your happiness soon enough. J
