Let’s be frank here. Most people want Love. The craving for approval and affection from others is embedded into our DNA. There’s probably nothing else on earth (other than the survival instinct) that is as strong and primal as the longing for love. We need to belong. We NEED to feel loved. This is all normal. It’s a wonderfully exciting and ecstatic quest that we all walk sooner or later. Read also – Fresh From a Break Up, This is How You Can Start Enjoying Single Life But what happens when our search for love becomes tainted with unconscious motives? What happens when our search for love comes from a place of avoidance and fear? The answer: we suffer. But we don’t just experience garden-variety-type-suffering, we go through cyclical suffering, meaning that we repeat the same toxic patterns over and over again. In other words, when the love we have obtained doesn’t distract us from ourselves enough, we […] More

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