One of the most uncomfortable Blogging lessons you will ever learn is facing, embracing and leaning in to what or who you resist through your blogging campaign. Expanded success awaits behind resistance. Why? What you resist, persists. But facing resistance dissolves the energies into seamless non-resistance. Coasting through zero resistance creates blogging success. For example, a number of years ago I worked with a client. He is-was a fine human being. For whatever reason, he paid me late every time. I cared less but eventually he refused to pay me for work I did. I sent clear Paypal screen shares plus emails time-stamped. But beyond tangible proof, he had absolutely no reason not to trust me. Even more than that; he had zero reasons to believe I was lying to him. I told him after 1 week of non-payment how I appreciated working with him but had to move on unless he paid me. He again made the excuse that he paid me. I let him go forever. Letting him go opened new prospering channels for me and my blogging campaign. But I faced some resistance to release him because: guilt regret the fear of criticism the fear of rejection the fear of loss arose in my mind the moment I sent the first email with screen share proof until I sent him my last email. Overall, I felt OK but I did resist him a little bit because I did not enjoy knowing I would likely have to let him go, nor did I enjoy being in mild conflict with a blogging friend I liked and appreciated working with. Facing, feeling and releasing resistance let me be more successful. But imagine if I avoided facing him and the resistance I built up in my mind? Imagine if I acted like it was A-OK that he refused to pay me after I supplied him with proof, let alone me being straight, honest and doing grade-A freelance writing work for him for many months? If I skipped the resistance I would have suffered blogging and business wise. I also never would have opened up or even seen those sweet new prosperity streams because clinging to poverty blinds you to abundance. Who do you need to let go? What do you need to let go? Observe your blogging campaign. Honestly assess anyone you fear facing, whether it be a client, customer or the pleasant fellow blogger who continues to drop a link to their blog through their comments on your blog. I offered said offenders feedback sharing how dropping links in comments is spam but most either never paid attention to the messages or believed I was kidding. Even though dropping their emails in the spam folder felt uncomfortable because they were pleasant, kind bloggers, I cannot damage my reputation, Google rank and overall credibility for bloggers who refuse to believe me or trust my feedback. Bloggers often feel bad about being honest with nice people but surrendering to the bad-feeling resistance hampers your blogging campaign. Face fears triggered anytime you offer helpful advice to nice but misunderstanding bloggers. Be with the uncomfortable emotions. Proceed to observe how resistance dissolved serves as a growth accelerant. Sometimes, increasing your blogging success is all about mindset and has nothing to do with strategy. Explore this concept. Apply this idea to your blogging campaign. Face resistance head on. Prepare yourself for greater blogging success by facing resistance preventing your blogging success. Blogging feels easier if you face fear. Blogging feels tougher if you resist facing fear. Everything is on you and your mind decision to step into blogging resistance and greater online success.

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