Before you start reading this blog and start thinking that it is the victim card that I am playing, that's not why I am writing this blog. This blog is for all those who are taking women in there life for granted. By women I mean your mother, Wife, sister, daughter, boss or a subordinate.

Just because you ego gets hurt that does not mean you suppress her voice. She has her opinion too and has every right to voice it. Just because you think she is wrong that does not mean that she is wrong. As father, brother or a husband don't crush her self-confidence.

She need not to take every decision based on your yes or no. It is her right to live and have experiences of her own. If she does something good you are proud and if takes one wrong decision you disown her. There are many platforms where she is disrespected. As a daughter sometimes she is disrespected for taking her decisions. As a wife sometimes she is disrespected because you don't like what she said. As a mother she is disrespected because she cares for you.

Men have difficult life too. They also have many challenges too face. This blog is not about who is right and who is wrong. This blog is about self-respect.

So, why I am writing this blog. That's because of an incident that took place today while I was returning from work.

I was standing by the roadside waiting for my friend as we had planned shopping together. I finished my work and left early and reached before her. I was still waiting when I noticed another lady standing by my side. She was waiting for someone too. Looking at her body language, I could make that out. I was still waiting when a man came towards her and said," Sorry dear I am late but I got stuck in an important meeting. Though I had informed my boss prior that I need to go early as my wife has an appointment with doctor, but the clients came and it was important to attend them." His wife smiled at him and told him that she was fine and had not waited much.

Before they could head to doctor, they decided to have juice at the juice corner which was next to where I stood. They ordered juice and started talking to each.

They seemed happy couple to me. Suddenly I heard man shouting at her (though his voice was not very loud, but it was loud enough for me and some of the students who stood to hear). He told her that she need not to speak to him on this matter (I am unaware what he was talking about). I will take my own decision I need not ask you. She stood there embarrassed and looking around she told her husband, " Please, don't shout. It is just my opinion. If you don't like it, that's fine. But don't shout." He told her that she could not be right every time. Before he could finish she added, "But, I cannot be wrong every time."

Her eyes were filled with tears and I decided to move.

I did not want to know the reason for the argument neither I want to prove her right. My only point is that she waited for him and even if he was late she did not complain. Even if her husband did not agree with her was this the way?