Understanding, Communication, Dedication, Loyalty, Respect, these are not just words but are the base of any Relationship. In fact, you can add more to the list. A strong relationship is based on understanding. An understanding that we both are equal. If your family becomes mine then my family is yours. I don't want to write this article based on sacrifices that women make for their families nor the challenges. As sometimes we fail when we say all men are wrong. There is no good man and no good woman, it's good or bad human being.
In a relationship, there is no place for ego because it destroys the most beautiful world that we create when married.
I have always believed that both men and women are equal, only the difference is that women have to face little more difficulties than men. That does not mean men lead an easy life.
Now the question is who is right a woman who leaves her home and comes to you expecting that you will take care of her or a man who becomes bad son if he speaks for a wife and if does not then Bad Husband. I don't mean say that mother in laws and daughter in laws are enemies but instead there are sometimes that both make it complicated. In their expectation, they forget a bad husband is a mother's son and a bad son is her husband.
There are times when a husband is right and wife is wrong or vice versa. There are times when daughter in law is right and mother in law is wrong or vice versa. Or both are right in their own ways.
When you live together there are dis- agreements and fights. This does not mean that the beauty of your relationship should be lost.
Communication plays the major role. I have seen the attitude of man towards a woman or woman's attitude towards a man that spoils their relationship.
You are earning but that's your responsibility. You are the man of the house and you are supposed to earn.
You are a woman and you are supposed to give birth, nothing great have you done all women go through labour pains.
Just a word thank you says it all for both.
We have become so busy in our lives that we forget to compliment each other. We forget that we both are incomplete without each other.
An argument finishes a relationship of love and care. When we argue and you say Yes! you are right that does not mean you are wrong. A relationship is based on equality and both have an equal right to express. If you step down when you realize you are wrong does not make you small.
Thank you for working so hard for us.
I love you for whatever you do for us
Trying to justify yourself even when you realize you are wrong that Ego. Sometimes both are right because we speak for ourselves but the moment we start speaking for each other all the disagreements vanish because when you speak for yourself you look at only on side of the coin.