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Right Age To Get Married



 
   Marriage is one of the most important decision one will make in their life. This decision should not be made in a hurry. In some cultures, as the time passes, the pressure to get married increases. There is a lot of social pressure of marriage in India.



  One of my friends got married right after celebrating her 18th birthday. Today she has a 2 year old child and she is only 21. Too young right? My cousin got married at around when she was 37. She hasn't conceived yet and she is currently 42.

        My mother always tells me that the right age to get married is between 25-30 years. Research tells us that the appropriate age is somewhere around your 27th birthday. Which means you should start searching for your LIFE PARTNER when you are around 24-25 years old. 


        
     Some people believe that there is no certain age to get married. The best age to marry is when you know you're ready for marriage and that you've matured enough to handle situations that can arise. However; I will partially agree with my mum. A person usually matures at the age of 25. I think it’s sensible to marry around or after that age. My advice would be to not rush things as you may not end up happy with your decisions simply because you are getting older. Be patient. Some people marry too quickly and end up divorced. Just take your time until you know when you found the right one to settle down with. Make 100% sure you trust who you want to marry. You should know that even through the worst of times, your spouse will be there for you, and that you can grow together. For those who are still young can start searching for a perfect partner early in their 20's. 

   I remember, my neighbor took almost 5 years and met around 40 girls before settling for his Mrs. Perfect. Past studies showed that the longer you waited to get married, the lower your risk of divorce. Getting married in your late teens and early twenties -- when you're still insecure, less educated and less financially stable -- increases your risk of separating. In fact, research shows that someone who marries at 25 is over 50 percent less likely to get divorced than is someone who weds at age 20.

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  Also, doctors believe that it is difficult to conceive in your late 30's. Hence, most of the doctors’ advice that women should have babies before they turn 35 years old. Although this is differs from woman to woman. Some researchers believe that women are just as fertile at 39 as they are at 27. From my personal experience, my elder sister got married at 34 and conceived at 36. During her labor she went through many problems and complications. Although both of them are safe, the doctors advised her not to conceive again. 

    Past a certain age, people become less fertile, able in general for many things, loose physical performance and top, peak condition, and begin aging, slowly deteriorating, and even possibly start having chronic, or heavy and serious, diseases. In younger eras, people were getting married as early, as even early teens or middle teens, and late teens. And in some countries these customs are still in effect, even if our civilization deemed them dreadful, offensive, or even downright unsophisticated. 

   Marriage is not always "a walk in the park." It takes serious work and effort from both partners. The honeymoon does not last forever! Be sure to look at every angle of the situation before you decide. This is a life changing decision. It is important that you and your spouse have similar and hopefully joint goals for the future. In order to avoid making mistakes and regrets, do not rush into marriage. Do not rush and get married because your mates are married. This is one of the biggest mistakes that many people are making. They are getting married because their mates are married. This is why many marriages are crashing today and there are many divorces. If you rush in, you will rush out.



    So my advice, don’t haste to take any decision. Be mature, educated and independent enough before taking the big step. Don’t delay too much. Marry when you are ready. Don't feel pressured. Let your heart tell you what's right from wrong. You'll know when it's your time. Just be calm about everything and let nature take its course. 


Remember that Wedding lasts for a day but Marriage lasts for a lifetime.




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