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We are together, but I am still me!

Success for Couples and marriages

Whether you are a married or in a serious Relationship, keeping it together can be a real challenge. Because first and foremost, we are individuals. You are an individual that has likes, needs, goals, and dislikes. The other person that you are in a relationship also has like, needs, goals, and dislikes.

The issue becomes when these feelings are not the same. Even though it seems like this only means you don't Match or belong together. But nothing could be further from the truth as we are all unique and usually it's what attracts us to each other. It is the reason we fall in love with each other.

Even if we know this to be true after a relationship has been going on for a while we tend to lose the understanding of the fact that our differences are exactly the reason we fell in love

In this blog, I will disclose some research as well as experience as an individual and family therapist of some characteristics of a healthy relationship.

Below are some of the characteristics of a healthy relationship

Respect

Understanding

Attraction

Kindness towards each other

Healthy arguing

Shared values

Communication

Commitment

Honesty

You have to understand that you are each individual's and need these basic parameters. Then you can begin to heal and make sure you are acting and treating one another in a way that you would like to be treated. Relationships are not always easy to maintain. With work on both ends, you can have a great relationship. Take time to remember the why. Why did you choose each other, or why did you fall in love. Think about the long game. Act strategic with the relationship. Try to put yourself in the others perspective. And always remember to love.


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This post first appeared on Change Therapy, please read the originial post: here

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