Nobody wants a confrontational Divorce with contentious attorneys and long drawn out court proceedings. Divorce Mediation is the best way to avoid this, especially if you and your spouse are on common ground about the issues which need to be resolved in your divorce. In California, divorce mediation is now the most popular way to divorce.

Mediation offers a peaceful alternative to the often aggressive and stressful courtroom battles. It’s also the fastest, least expensive and most efficient way to work through the divorce process. Mediation requires a professional mediator who acts as a Neutral Third Party throughout the divorce process. A skilled mediator actively listens to both spouses, and guides the parties through the divorce process with the ultimate goal of a fair, reasonable and equitable Marital Settlement Agreement which is acceptable to the couple. Successful mediation requires both spouses committed to the process. Here are some guidelines to help make your decision:

Both Spouses Agree Mediation is the Best Way to Go

Before you decide on mediation, make sure it’s right for both of you. Mediation works well if you and your spouse have a good working relationship. Both spouses must support the process and be willing to work together peacefully for the good of the family. Each spouse should be on equal ground and never feel intimidated.

Transparency in Financial Issues

This is one of the most import issues in divorce. Both spouses should fully understand all joint financial issues. This includes real property, joint accounts, and investments. Nothing should be hidden and no surprises when you go into mediation. The mediator is the coach, but you both have to provide the input to start the process. Make sure to bring a list of all your assets including real property, bank accounts, debts, financial records and retirement accounts and pension statements to aid the process. California is a Community-Property state. Anything which was accumulated during the term of the marriage is to be shared between the parties with some exceptions which the mediator will explain to the parties.

Jump start the process

Make decisions ahead of time. Find areas you can agree upon before the meeting to save time and potential disagreements. If there are children involved, mediation is one of the best ways to negotiate an agreement for the care of your children. Decide on such issues as visitation, joint parenting, and education. If you can, come into the mediation with decisions on what is best for the children and each other.

For years, A Fair Way Mediation has helped California couples realize the value of a non-confrontational divorce process. Now with offices in Coachella Valley we’re here for you. A Fair Way Mediation will help you work through the issues and come to a fair and equitable solution. With your input, our experienced mediators will lead you through a thoughtful and open process. We put your needs first as we all work together. Mediation is a valuable tool in our current pandemic situation. All that A Fair Way Mediation offers is available without leaving your home. Stay safe and achieve successful sessions with Zoom, Skype and video chat. Complete our online request for a free online evaluation. Receive a free 30-minute consultation at www.afairway.com or call 619-702-9174.