There are people you will find that tell you that Marriage isn‰’t a walk in the park or it‰’s for life. A lot of them maybe for it, against it or worse, resigned to it. But we at shaadimagic.com think that you ought to know five well kept secrets about marriage. And maybe then, you could decide for yourself!

1. That good run you thought lasts forever- doesn‰’t

You were in Love or perhaps are in love. You got married or perhaps are just about to. There will come a day when you wake up and go ‰”is this forever?‰” And the unhappy truth is, this point might be the morning after you have had a bitter fight with your life partner. Yes, it‰’s nice and yes it‰’s fun. Sometimes happiness will be on the run. There will have to be a moment when you give up on the fairy tale concept of marriage and give in to the journey that a marriage really is a daily mix of joys, disappointments, strife, celebrations and a hundred other things. And the day you realize this, you would know that the knowledge of enchantments that exist within this institution, in spite of the occasional speedbumps, is greater than anything else you‰’ve known.

2. Prepare yourself for hard work

Family relations come easy, they are actually related! But marriage, dear friend, is a different ball game. You have to work and work hard at keeping the relationship going. Sometimes, things will work in your favor. Other occasions, your efforts may go unnoticed. Do not give up. People compare it to losing weight, something that may take years of hard work and even more to maintain it. So stop being critical on those tough days. The kinks will iron themselves out over time.

3. All fights do not resolve with a click of your finger

Instant gratification is more than a buzzword; it‰’s a fact of life. However, when it comes to relationships, you might as well wrap this word up and and throw it out of the window. Arguments and differences will not resolve themselves over a cup of coffee or a war of words. They need careful introspection and sometimes long periods of firefighting. So if you thought you had put out the fire for now, think again. That small, seemingly un-threatening spark of a dissent between you and your partners may bring your house down. Be patient and solve it out. Mostly, be patient.

4. Nope, it‰’s not about who is right. It isn‰’t even about winning the argument

You didn‰’t think this could be a possibility now, did you? Arguments are often the result of differences. And differences can be sorted out through reason, not by trying to win something like a trumpeting match. Sit with your partner, figure out the problem. You might have to wait it out to reach a point for dialogue. Wait for it. It will be worth your while.

5. You may not have erection. Ok, sex. And for a long time too. And that‰’s completely ok

There will be periods when you wouldn‰’t be at it like you imagined it would be. That‰’s ok, really. There are periods during marriage which will be sexless. And the reasons wouldn‰’t be because your partner doesn‰’t find you attractive or the love is dying. It‰’s how things are. But, try to keep the passion ignited during these periods. Even a hug, a kiss or a caress can keep your love alive.

Sometimes marriage can seem like a storm to your boat. At other times, it‰’s a sunny day and beautiful weather. But that‰’s the beauty of it. Make sure you love your marriage like a novel, because you never know when the twist is going to come.

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