A Father is a girl’s first superhero. He taught her how to ride a bicycle and drive a car. He would carry her to her bed when she would fall asleep on the couch. Before saying goodnight, he would tell her a bedtime story. He would always remind her that she is the most beautiful person in his life and make her feel special.
Girls, didn’t that all sound familiar to you? With him, you always feel so safe, as he has always been a rock solid support. And, now that you are getting married, it is your turn to do something to make him feel special. Here we have some ideas on how you can honour your father at your Wedding.
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Go on a lunch date
So far, you have been going on family lunches or dinners, which were mostly planned and organised by your dad. But, now is the time that you do this differently. This time, you take your father out to his favourite restaurant. Enjoy his favourite cuisine while talking about your feelings. You can ask your fiancé to join you as well. Your father would be really happy to see his little angel taking care of him even when she has another important man in her life now.
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Organizing an Indian wedding is a really hectic job. Since he is your dad, he must be stressing the most. After all, it is his little darling’s most important day. With all the fuss and flurry of activities, he surely must be acting indifferent to peace. So, book a meditation session to calm his nerves and yours too.
Have some conversation about your childhood
A father just wants his daughter to be happy, but it is always hard for him to see her go away. While you will move on to embark upon a new journey, your absence will always remind him that things would not be the same. Just sit with him and have a long session of emotional talk. Since, he has to look as well as act super-strong, it will be tough for him to cry in front of others. But, he would not need to hold back when he is only with you.
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Dance with him
Everyone waits for the first dance of the couple. Before you dance with your groom, dance with your father. You do not necessarily have to choreograph it, just go with the flow. This will tell your father that he is and always will be your first love.
Walk down to the mandap with him
Instead of making a grand entrance, ask your father to walk you down the aisle. Hold his hand tight before he gives you away. This is a very special way to say that you want him with you in every step that you take. And this way, you will also tell him how grateful you are to him for his support as you move forward to start a new life.
Photo shoot with your daddy
Wouldn’t a father-daughter photo shoot be a super-adorable thing to see? So, get clicked with him during all the pre-wedding as well as wedding ceremonies and collect the best ones. Apart from these photographs, also collect all your cherished childhood photos with your dad. Compile them all in a beautiful album and gift it to him before your vidaai. You can even create a slideshow of all of them and show them on a big screen on your wedding day to tell the world that you are still your daddy’s little princess!
Ask him to say something for you
Ask your father to read something at your wedding or your reception. It can be your favourite fairytale that he used to read to you when you were a toddler, or a blessing, or anything else that you want. You can read something for him as well.
Co ordinate outfits
Most of the brides colour co-ordinate their dresses with that of their groom’s outfits. While there is absolutely nothing wrong with that, matching your outfit with your dad’s clothes will give you and your father a completely different feeling.
Highlight his sacrifices or moments
Your super-talented dad is amazing and you know it! He has been there to cheer you up when you truly needed him. And now, it is the time that you do the same for him. Let the world know about his talents too. You can make a video montage or give a speech telling how talented he is. And, let him know how proud you are of him.
Well, a daughter can never repay her father for everything that he has done for her or even explain to him how priceless he is to her! But, doing these things will apprise him how much you love him, and will make him feel truly special.
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By Shagufta Rahaman
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