When my first real ‘love’ told me that the Timing just wasn’t there, I was fuming mad. I realized later that it was nothing against me, but it was the timing of everything else that mattered.

One of my favorite quotes on the enchantment of timing comes from Australian singer songwriter Rick Springfield, he said: “if the timing’s right and the gods are with you, something special happens.”

As you mature, you will realize that timing in life is everything. Whether it is regarding relationships or a career objective, you must wait for the right time for everything. I felt great being single but also great when I was in a Relationship, it’s all about the timing of having everything the way you need them to be, for your current stage in life.

When things didn’t work out with my ex, I was too hurt to see that the timing just wasn’t there. We were living in different parts of the world and we were also at very different stages in life. She was just entering a crucial part of her professional life while I was busy pursuing a graduate education. We realized that we cared a lot for each other and that we are constants in each other’s lives, but we just couldn’t be together. These things happen in life, I’ve learned over the years to enjoy the phenomena of God’s timing and not to rush things. Things will happen exactly as it is supposed to.

So, timing my friends, will show you why things didn’t work out before and it will show you that what is meant to be, will be. I met the girl of my dreams one year after my first real heart break and the timing was just great for both of us; we had both gotten over our previous relationships; we had very similar interests in life; similar tastes; similar life goals; and it was crucial that we both as individuals, learnt to love ourselves and was self-aware enough to realize that with the right person, we were ready for anything!

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Article written by Don Sahan, a contributing author for Lightning Speed Dating blog.