Ever wonder how Women can always seem to tell when you’re making stuff up? No matter how much you practice what you say, they will always call you out on it. It’s like they can see right through you. The reason for this is quite simple: it’s because you ARE being fake. Let’s face it, most of the time we’re trying to say things that we THINK she wants to hear and using predetermined lines and phrases that SHOULD work. Ironically, this hinders our success rate rather than helping us.

So how do we stop looking like a fake? By being real. If your like most guys you know very little about body language and when you’re pretending to be somebody you are not it will show in your movements. Subtle movements we don’t think about will counteract with what we are saying, and women can see this. You will be instantly labeled as just another typical creep. So don’t make up stupid stories that didn’t happen and don’t pretend like your god’s gift to women unless you can back it up. A little exaggeration is fine, but don’t overdo it.

Take this scenario for example: Imagine you’re talking to one of your buddies who went out with a super hot girl the night before. Just a regular night out, nothing special, not a date or anything. We’ve all seen this situation. The next day you ask him the obvious question “did you bang her?” Naturally he says yes, but you can tell he’s lying. Because we’ve been in this situation so many times we can easily tell when they are telling the truth or not. Women are the same way. They’ve been approached so many times that they can just tell if a guy is being real or fake. And if you’re being fake you can bet that her guards will be up and you’ll have a tough time recovering.

Keep this in mind whenever you are talking to women. Not only will you not look like a complete douche bag, but the fact that you don’t have to think about looking like a fake will let you be able to focus on other more important things, such as kino escalating, building attraction, or coming up with witty comebacks.