When you were a child, were you ever taught that saying, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all?" We have all heard that. It is quite a Biblical application.
Bible verses to think about
Let no corrupt communication (rotten words, polluting, worthless, foul or dirty) proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying (good, building up, beneficial), that it may minister grace (blessing) unto the hearers. Ephesians 4:29
And above all things have fervent charity (love like your life depends on it, intense, and unfailing) among yourselves: for charity (love) shall cover the multitude of sins (disregards the offense, forgives). I Peter 4:8
And be ye kind (gentle, sensitive) one to another, tenderhearted, (compassionate, understanding) forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you. (readily and freely) Ephesians 4 32
And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise. (do to others what you want done to you, treat people like you want to be treated) Luke 6 31
Interesting quotes
"People who talk about others to you will talk about you to others." – Unknown
"What you don't see with your eyes, don't witness with your mouth." - Jewish Proverb
"I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet." - Mahatma Gandhi
"Great Minds Discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people." - Eleanor Roosevelt
"Be careful with your words. Once they are said, they can only be forgiven, not forgotten." - Unknown
"Gossip is just a tool to distract people who have nothing better to do from feeling jealous of those few of us still remaining with noble hearts." - Anna Godbersen
Learning how to hold our tongue
We start by treating others like we want to be treated.
We choose kindness over criticism.
We use only words that can either uplift, so we must choose them wisely.
We don't contribute to negativity.
We show empathy and compassion in our words.
We focus on building others up, not tearing them down.
We aim to be a source of encouragement.
We will be mindful of the impact of our speech on others.
We will engage in thoughtful dialogue that benefits others.
We will speak to leave a positive impact.
Steps to take right now
Practice patience and kindness in your interactions with others, and avoid bragging or being envious.
Show forgiveness and compassion to others, reflecting the forgiveness God has shown you through Christ.
Let your actions and words reflect God's love and grace, and be a positive influence in the world.
Cultivate the fruit of the Spirit in your actions and attitudes —love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.
Be a loyal and supportive friend and family member, always showing love and compassion.
Engage in acts of kindness and service, recognizing that you are God's handiwork, created for good works.
Demonstrate love for others, knowing that love covers a multitude of sins.
