Humiliation kink fetish dating? Yes please

Unless you meet your partner on a fetish dating site like very Naughty, where you express your love of Humiliation Kink up front. Telling a new partner your preference for humiliation, can be difficult as part of your sexual enjoyment can be awkward. Your age could be a factor in how you see some of the kinly stuff people get up to in the bedroom. These days, sex fetishes are not the taboo it once was. You need to watch the series Sex Education or read EL James 50 shades of grey to see that things have moved on significantly. You can also chat with girls on one of the popular fetish cams websites to see what is out there.

So, how can you tell if your partner has a kinky side? The easiest way is to ask him or her. Wll, that will be both boring and awkward. How about trying some of your kinks incrementally, for example talking dirty during sex, such as saying what juicy pussy or rock hard dick your partner has, If your dirty talk does not cause offence, how about a bit of love bite? By fishing and exploring, you can get to a stage where you can show your more kinky side, such as humiliation.

So, what exactly constitutes humiliation kink?

Different people have different boundaries. What may constitute humiliation to one person, may be normal to another. Say you are having sex and call your partner a bitch for example, that may be offensive to someone, where that is a welcomed humiliation kink for another person. A slap on the ass, may be a humiliation kink to one person, which enhances the enjoyment of sex, while could be painful and unwelcomed by another person. Sometimes humiliation kink works one way, and not both ways. What that means is that one partner may love dishing it out, but does not like receiving it. All these needs to be worked out between the two consenting partners who want to engage in humiliation fetish.

Humiliation kink and other fetishes

Humiliation kink is just a tip of the erotic and sexual fetishes iceberg. Staying with humiliation kink for now, let’s have a quick look at some common and popular humiliation fetishes. Let’s start with the mildest and slowly stray into more hard core humiliation fetishes.

1.Inspection humiliation

Inspection humiliation strays slightly into master/slave fetish. It is well written about in wikipedia and beautifully illustrated. Here is an excerpt from how this kink was described in wikipedia “Inspection: A form of scenario play usually in a master/slave like relationship where a submissive has to strip naked at the command of a dominant and adopt a pose to have their body, posture, grooming and appearance inspected. They may also have the execution of other duties examined during this time. During an inspection areas of their body and their state may be examined.After an inspection a sub may be rewarded for passing or punished for failing” This is of course a snapshot of this kink, coupled who enjoy this fetish may add their own variations such as enjoying humiliation kink in public or in private.

2.Verbal humiliation kink.

To see a good example of this in action, or should I say on a video, you just need to watch or read the lyrics of Madonna’s song hanky panky. For people who enjoy verbal humiliation, calling them names such as bitch or bastard. Once you get him or her aroused with verbal humiliation, say for example “you are a bitch” you can then discipline her by showing her what you do to bitches.

3. Physical humiliation kink.

This is probably the most popular form of humiliation kink. One most people would be family with, perhaps even seen in film or TV plays is humiliating your partner by making him or help helpless. This could involve being tied to a bedpost with ropes, being handcuffed and other degrading unflattering positions or things. Rather than humiliating your partner, it’s a big turn on! There are many variations to physical humiliation which you can explore with your partner.

4.Erotic or sexual humiliation.

This is one of the wackiest forms of humiliation kink. You have foreplay, sex and everything is normal and going well. But when it gets to the point when your partner climaxes, you stop! You don’t allow him or her to climax. For those who enjoy sexual and erotic kink, this form of humiliation fetish can be very potent and satisfying.

5. Humiliation kink

This is the ultimate humiliation kink. All the other involved things happening in the privacy of your bedroom. Public humiliation kink involves stuff that happened in the bedroom spilling over into the publick. This should be discussed and agreed upon before embarking on it. You should find out exactly how far your partner wants to take it before enacting this kink.

How to find a new partner for humiliation or other kink?

Finding the right partner is important when you have a humiliation kink or want to dominate someone with a humiliation kink. Also, you both might have different forms of humiliating kink but may not like each other’s kink. It is normal. The best thing to do is try. You can find the right partner on the best:

#Safetytips when exploring humiliation kink with a new date

Most dating experts said trying something new is good for you. But let’s talk about safety tips for meeting someone new on a dating site. First and foremost, always trust your gut instincts. If something feels off or too good to be true, it probably is. When messaging with potential dates, try to get to know them before meeting in person.

Ask questions about their background and interests to get a better understanding of who they are as a person. It’s also important to do some research on the person you’re planning to meet – Google their name or look them up on social media platforms. When choosing where to meet, pick a public place such as a coffee shop or restaurant that you’re familiar with and never disclose your home address until you feel comfortable enough with the other person.
Furthermore, make sure someone close knows where you are going and who you will be meeting prior to your actual date time just in case anything bad happens while out on your date night!

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