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Does Getting Physical Increase Love?

Yes and No! There are specific drivers behind every sexual encounter.

Which falls under the categories of financial motives, fear, survival, status, lust, job promotions, etc.

Of course there are darker motives as well.

You get blackmailed, threatened, abused, or trying to make a name for yourself to fit into social circles, one night stands, affairs and so on.

Then you get reasons that supports each motive, the risks involved and so forth.

(All of these somehow influence our natural affection order, or emotions. Which makes kinda difficult to the concept of falling in love).

All of these factors have different variables, circumstances, situations, conditions, environments, mindsets, perspectives, etc.

Meaning There Are Several Unique Reasons; Why A Male And Female May Get Physical:

For instance; she may be pressured by circumstances, or forced to react accordingly.

She could be under the influence of alcohol, or perhaps she's hoping to take a relationship to new heights.

Many women are sometimes defeated by circumstances to submit to men's sexual desires.

Sometimes we even do it because we suppose to; even in relationships or marriages.

Although it may seem consented from the outside, she may be heavily conflicting from the inside.

But For The Sake Of A General Context.

Let's Assume The Man And Woman Gets Physical During A One Night Stand:

In this case let's assume the ultimate driver is lust. Still chemistry may not be as optimal in the bedroom as it were in public.

There are little variables that may burst your bubble.

"These can fall under the categories of lack of foreplay, a too well hung manhood, awkwardness during intercourse, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, etc."

What Attracts A Woman To A Man Emotionally?

So although his kindness, charm, ambition, style, facial features, Physical prowess. May attract a woman emotionally; in the beginning.

  • It may dumb down like a flopped cake; as soon as she looks a bit deeper.
  • The opposite of his personality traits may also result in arrogance, indifference, selfishness, etc.

Meaning instead of the female feeling closer to her crush, she may eventually be pushed away; by his attitude between the sheets.

It may even flush out all the desire for a second experience. Unless there are material drivers; such as money, status, or exposure to certain resources.

Which may help to make her stick around longer; because her bread and butter; depends on it. However, the connection will not be genuine.

In such a case; she don't really love you or the sex. But simply hang in there and trea it as a dutiful compulsion.

Despite the assumption of being truly in love; as the guy may assume.

As quick as it came; it can easily fade when the superficial drivers burn-up.

For instance; you lost your job, physical features, social status, etc. Because that was the only things keeping her around.

What Makes A Woman Fall Deeply In Love With A Man?

Real love is built outside of the bedroom. It's usually bred in mutual experiences, working on the same projects, sharing the same values, etc.

It may begin with the most basics personality traits. Such as mutual respect, romance, endurance, honesty, kindness, togetherness, reliability, trust, etc.

But even in situations; where there is true love. It's like a wave that goes up and down.

Real life issues like building friendship amidst learn each other's bad habits, living together in close quarters, kids shared bills and responsibilities.

It's sometimes hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel.

And if you do; there may be a train heading your way (your attitudes towards challenges).

Which may even end in resentment, distrust, hating the person for loving them, secrets, locking of horns, etc.

Ultimately falling in love is one thing; staying in love is another. Because, if it was a casual hookup; you don't know the true person yet.

And if you get to know them; you may find you only loved them because you didn't.

Meaning it was all a fantasy, or the desire to fall deeply. But in this case the relationship may turn out to be shallow.

In Summary:

Despite a woman's idealistic approach to love; in the beginning. It most often turns out to be short lived. Easy come, easy go.

While strong bonds (trust) can only develop over time. Which creates a strong platform of enduring difficulties together.

Meaning common goals, mutual interests, shared values, consistent efforts and staying together through real day-to-day issues.

Sex is only the biological bonding process. Without the psychological, emotional bonding. Which brings spiritual harmony (love).

It can be more damaging rather than rewarding. Because mere biological bonding often leads to personality clashes. And therefore translates into lethal jealousy, rage, resentment, toxic fights, and so in.



This post first appeared on Finally Yours, please read the originial post: here

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