Isn't it amazing how over 16 years old marriage can be turned into dust; in 30 minutes flat, through a hidden camera sex Clip that accidentally went viral?

You may be a strong believer of the saying: "Love conquers all."

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Still don't underestimate the powerful compulsions of lust, which is inherently tied to influential biochemical reactions in the brain.

Meaning can destroy a marraige in minutes:

Imagine being blissfully married to a treacherous husband.

Who you subconsciously found attractive due to childhood wounds:

Only to discover your judgement was flawed (when your hopes gets shattered); after sixteen years of tirelessly pouring in your heart and soul

Compelled by the painful consequences of a leaked sex clip:

Glamorising his: Fat married penis thrusting out a tight pussy of an enthusiastic female colleague

Ultimate unwrapping his hidden taboo fetishes; in the most heart wrecking way to his faithful wife.

Shocked And Confused!

Because he's one of the last profiles; anyone would associate with:

fetishistic disorder. Which is described as a condition in which there is a persistent and repetitive use of taboo to reach sexual arousal.

Which was so cunningly planted and neatly buried:

Underneath his compelling attractiveness and charm - that could inspire devotion in others, positive attitude, hardworking fatherhood abilities and rarely found love making aptitude.

Good enough to keep even the most quarrelsome wife; in a humble beautiful obedience.

Dating a man gives you the false impression you truly know him.

Wait until after the honeymoon season of marraige has blown over. You'll be astounded at the other sides to his true character; often depicted as "true colours."

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Since the wedding all those years ago.

I never imagined my husband could betray my trust the way he did.

The one generational cycle he always talked about breaking; was family's long history of toxic relationships, dark secrets and of course broken family pattern.

We both came from shattered family background and broken homes. We wanted to change that pattern.

I only learned much later; that the drivers behind our attaction was triggered by mutual on psychological and emotional wounds.

And not necessarily on healthy compatibility standards. Such as common interests, shared goals or similar personality characteristics. A bit more on that subject later in the post.

There Are Commonly Different Reasons Why You're Attracted To Specific People:

1. Some people are more attracted to like-minded folks. In the same way that football lovers likes to talk about football.
2. Some people are attracted to people who model their parents. Especially, visible in ladies who likes older husband's (father figure).
3. Then you get opposites that attracts, but usually in the long run there conflicting interests may turn toxic.
4. Lastly you get those who carry childhood wounds and are attached to people who seem capable of healing it. Which might not always be the case.

Like people with trauma who relate better to those who share their pain.

Then again you can be attached to an incompatible person:

Who doesn't really take good care of you. Perhaps even abuse you physically, psychologically or emotionally.

Further down the post; I discuss the above in more detail. Be sure to find out: Why you are Attracted To Your Partner| Before It's Too Late!

Sex is not love and are often mistaken as such by many. When it comes to who you decide to marry, or spend your entire life with; ignorance isn't bliss.

If you don't understand what's drivers behind your attraction to romantic partners.

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It wouldn't benefit you much; if it's already too late. Because by then you may be too busy helplessly sliding down a slippery slope.

Into a deep dark pit; of lies, deception, betrayal, misery or even a physical abusive relationship.

When some people used to say odd things; like how some men think with their penises.

• I always thought my situation would be different.
• I played by the rules: Do unto others as you would want them to do unto you. Assuming karma would send favourable conditions.
• But the rules changed: And I was notified by a "cheating sex video clip" in my inbox. Can you imagine:
• The heart wrecking pain; of watching your unaware husband having sex with someone else on a hidden cam?

It felt like someone ripped my heart out of my chest. My mind short-circuited like a live wire in water.

To Think This Is My Husband, Who Fathers My 3 Loving Kids|

The same hands that hugs me meaningfully, tuck my kids into bed and touched me sensually.

Were tenderly touching another woman's vagina, stroking her wet hole and make her gasp; out of ecstasy.

The only man who knows how to stimulate me psychologically, erotically and subtly trigger my emotional impulses; like guitar strings.

Was now looking with wanton eyes into another woman's eyes. Stroking her hair as he darts in for a passionate kiss.

Erotically he puts her body on autopilot as if she's under mind control.

I'll give you the details of the hidden camera video below. But let me treat you to a quick background story.

See I'm not that kind of woman| Who are easily convinced by the:

Outdated, robotically rehearsed, and worn-out lines:

Commonly used by; around the way guys to effortlessly get their way with some ladies.

You See, My Husband Accurately Met The Alpha Male Standards:

His sweet and silent seduction techniques; crowned him with the persuasive abilities to land any good girl in trouble.

He could say with a single touch more; than what other men may tirelessly try to express in a thousand words.

His attitude is reclusive, silent and meaningful.

His deep soul piercing stare send shivers down your spine, belted with a masculine demeanor and dumb nerve to match.

Everything about him was mysterious; kept me on my toes, in anticipation of his next unexpected move.

Just to get my brain short-circuited with a passionate kiss out of the blue, during a heated argument.

Like fire and ice; it'll merge my emotions from irate into total bliss; when I least expected it.

My tone will suddenly change from aggressive into a loving submissive wife.

When I'm Feeling Down| Under The Weather Or Sad:

All it took was one look and he could tell something was wrong. Instead of asking:

• He'll generous open his arms to give me a deep and meaningful hug:
• Whisper "I Love you always!" Stroke my face and wipe away tge teardrops from my cheeks. And that made everything okay, better and blissful.

I just knew this was something extraordinary, special and unique.

I just couldn't see past his charming disposition; anything coming between us.

Good lovers like these are rare Gems, they're hard to find; which you must secure with both hands.

I can't even remember a single sexual occasion; that I was finding difficult to uncontrollably orgasm.

Pleasing his partner was his top priority in bed and something he took very seriousl

Even if he had to put his head between my thighs and keep it there all night.

Which Is Highly Uncommon In Many Marraiges:

Any married person who'd tell you that marraige sex has many faces.

Sometimes it's exciting, boring, sensual, in a slow rhythm or even quickies and anything else in between.

Not forgetting the awkward moments like premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction function, painful penetration or half-hearted performances in bed.

It's more stable, regular and consistent; than superficial one night stands.

And therefore influenced by daily variables. Such as a variety of moods, circumstances, situations, conditions and experiences.

• Sometimes sex happens after arguments, or are forced in during difficult situation, intense financial constraints, restricted working schedules.
• Or even during scenarios; like when you try to do it quietly; to avoid waking up the kids/guests, etc.

Against All Odds| My Husband Thrived In Knowing Which Buttons To Press On My Body:

His reclusive nature made him highly observant, calculating and sophisticated.

Like a lion stalking his prey. He could just sit there and study my behaviour and adapt the most suitable attitude to tip me over.

Thereafter he'll do specific things; to skillfully switch my mood from anxiety ; into blissful moaning sounds.

Or he'll change my mood from harmonious , into disquieting doubt and vulnerability.

Then neutralize everything by making passionate love to me all night long; as a method of injecting reassurance.

Until A Leaked Sex Clip Ruined My Relationship With My Spouse:

I never saw it coming. It shattered everything I believed in; through a simple click.

It instantly shifted me from happily married; into feeling miserably rejected, lost and disowned.

I was about to learn the "True Colours" of my prince charming. And the leaked video clip was the first lesson.

It's Like Happiness Has A Limit And I Reach It|

Someone anonymously sent a hid camera sex clip; of my husband and a sexy colleague.

Like a ticking bomb; it was just sitting there in my inbox; waiting for my discover.

When I did; it blew my life into pieces. My heart was shattered, my perception about reality distorted.

A simple click on the play icon; was all it took to turn my entire life upside down.

• Did I use up my credits for happiness and are now left with the opposite of it?
• For every advantage there's a disadvantage. And experiencing both seemed compulsory?

Wide Eyed, Jaw Dropping Shock| I Just Sat There With A Blank Stare:

The angle of the clip was from an accurate position facing the bed.

• I saw my husband caressing her body, slowly lifting her top and bra.
• He had an intense, an animalistic thirst in his eyes; like nothing I've ever seen before.
• Her young poking, hard and pink nipples was exposed; as she sat on the hotel bed.
• They had this cunning sense of urgency in their behaviour, like a criminals trying to escape detection.
• Or people who quickly took a detour before minutes before an important meeting.

I think because it happened on a business trip, so time was of the essence. Because the video showed the time and date as it records.

Despite their urgent demeanors. He sensually pinched her hard nipples, which made it look like pink erected runner points.

My heart fell deep into my stomach.

As I was watching this my thoughts short circuited, questions, worries, pain and many incomplete thoughts bombarded my brain.

I thought I'm going to get a heart attack, my breath shortened, I could feel sweat mixing with my tears.

I couldn't stop the clip, I had to watch what felt like a nightmare. Maybe I'm dreaming.

It's unbelievable how busy a persons mind can be in a situation like this.

He unbuckled and unzipped his formal pants (I bought him for as present); it instantly fell to the floor like a garbage bag.

The front of his boxers was like a tent; he was hard and pulling his boxers down.

Exposed a dick ready to explode like a balloon out of hardness.

Almost as if her mouth was watering uncontrollably, she eagerly used her small hand to guide his rock solid cock towards her mouth.

It didn't take much licking to make her realise she urgently needed between her thighs.

Her skirt has ridden up exposing her Victoria's Secret panties.

She was now laying on the bed. He gently rubbed her vagina like a preciousness and concealed treasure.

Then slowly slid her panties down her milky smooth thighs; to reveal her clean shaven v shaped vagina.

She raised her hips; like an obedient and submissive lover. Helping him to slid the panties, further down her legs.

Kicked them off! With a girlish giggle.Then he positioned his big cock; more accurate between her pink pussy lips.

He than slid it bit-by-bit into her stretching hole. The video clip shows every detail; as his penis enters her tight squeezing vagina.

She gasps with a bittersweet smile. Expressing pleasure mixed with pain; that somehow shows her eyes rolling backwards in her head; out of sheer pleasure.

Like a well-oiled machine he steadily moves with more meaning intent, into a slow rhythmic flow (like a boat on water); in and out.

Every thrust makes his shaft goes a bit deeper than the one before. Till it ultimately vanishes into her wet tight gripping hole.

His now sucking her fresh rubberish tits; which made her get carried a way.

She acted as if she wanted to push his entire body into her hungry pussy.

She wanted him even more than I do; her thighs was shaking uncontrollably:

Shivering lips and desperate touches to his head, back and shoulders; showed it.

It seemed like she blurted out, something like: “Fuck me now.”

As the audio sound was not of good quality. But somehow her lip movements showed it.

With that motivational sounds he seemed to lose control, spread her legs more wantonly and start fucking her harder.

He never fucked me so aggressively with such animalistic intent before; this really blew my lid off.

I could actually see the pressure building up, her body vibrating as she orgasm and his body jittering as he ejaculates; like a car struggling to start.

He collapsed on her body and she just lays there; looking to the ceiling with a strange regretful expression on her face.

She unconsciously clenched her fists; as he lifts his body to dress. He looks down in the direction of the floor.

They both look as Reality sunk in after they climaxed and struggling to come to terms with what happened.

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The man that you are attracted to and gracefully decide to marry; must be chosen carefully.

Blind attraction, trust or dates! Is a strictly prohibited area. There's just too many shades of Grey.

For your own sake; kids and overall well-being. You want to ensure you're not subconsciously surrendering yourself; to previous negative experiences.

Cloaked in a seductive garment of attraction; which ultimately impact your current choices.

Thus you want to carefully scrutinize, observe and investigate your needs and desires from an analytical perspective.

Meaning you can now easily focus your selection process upon the positive characteristics; that draws you to your significant other.

• Rewards your efforts with higher chances to remain grounded, happy and secure in life.
• Equips you with a balanced point of view. In the context of; who you date, what qualities attracted you and why you choose to date him.

Roots In Childhood:

Our childhood experiences and relationships ultimately influence which type of people we'll be attracted to.

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During these humble beginnings; you're shaped as a child and molded into the ideal adult.

Therefore it propels your vision as an adult. Hence, it powerfully impacts who you relate to and choose to spend your time with.

Parents and society plays a major role in your development. And like everything else in life; there are advantages and disadvantages.

You're find yourself attracted to people; who in one way or another reminds you of your parents. Be it physical, emotionally, behavioural, or psychological.

In this case; you're likely to allow a stranger into your life.

Fearing the unknown; you may use fimiliar qualities of your parents to navigate and select the most suitable person.

Your objective is of course to tread safely; on ruff terrain. Which is understandable because your parents are your natural guardians.

As a child you naturally feel good, safe and secure around parents. And they naturally go to far extents to keep you happy, fed and protected.

As you begin your relentless search among the masses; for a dedicated partner.

You naturally associate certain characteristics; with what you're familiar with.

You don't only want someone who will love you dearly, satisfy you emotional; but also deeply care about your overall well-being.

The only difference here is that you don't only connect to this individual; emotionally, psychologically and spiritually.

• As is normally the case with parents, siblings or other family members.
• But you also connect sexually (biologically), which puts it in a class of its own.

What better map or criteria can you find; other than a partner who reminds you of your loving family?

So with a dedicated, biased and restricted measurements: You diligently calculate all the positive qualities.

Not even realising that you omitted the weaknesses in your loving parents.

Of course; there are parents who model bad attitudes, behaviours and relationships.

Which could place your hopes on a flimsy foundation. It could miserably throw your instinct off course; which is what happened to me.

You may find yourself attracting people with flawed personality traits.

Examples Such As:

• A partner with addictive habits, abusive and manipulative tendencies.
• An incompetent spouse; who selfishly puts his sexually desires ahead of his family.
• A compulsive bad tempered liar; confusing love with sex and who takes your kindness for weaknesses.

Because the family relationship you value may be toxic and unhealthy.

Which ultimate distorts your readings of what a respectable companionship entails.

Which obviously autopilots into a vicious cycle of; subconsciously attracting unhealthy relationship - after unhealthy relationships for relentless years.

Until you reach rock bottom and learn the hard way. In this case the punishment becomes the lesson; which forces you to shift gears.

Sadly some people are suckers for pain and never see the light at the end of the tunnel; unless it's a train heading their way.

Still confusing their bad match for love, they never rise again and slowly fades away in their "Unhappily Ever After."

Stuck in a toxic relationship with someone who doesn't really care about them. Who abuse every rule in the Book of Love.

How Do Your Ex Lovers Affects Your Psychology Of Attraction?

Your past relationships served as a platform for future selections.

No matter how good it may have been, there are good and bad in everything.

Since your previous relationship may follow a pattern.

So much of what you look for in a new partner is based on previous interactions.

Which serves as a sample, navigation system or example.

Say for instance; you had a chain of charming, loyal, and loving ex lovers.

You're like to be attracted to similar qualities.

As you're already fimiliar with the traits that symbolises kindness, happiness and love.

Once you have an example of what happiness looks and feel like.

You search for similar quality in future prospects.

Everything we do is for feelings, and in the case of relationships your objective is happiness.

Everybody needs love; the only difference is that we all have different perspectives of what it suppose to look like.

Thus you can find situations where two people in a marraige.

Can travel diverse paths on a one way street. Because they're incompatible in many respects.

Birds Of A Feather Flocks Together versus Opposites Attracts| Which Is Better:

When it comes to love opposites don't necessarily attract.

Instead this approach is rather flawed and results in endless conflicts.

In fact, it's the opposite. Couples with opposing beliefs and personality traits; are more likely to clash.

Hence, they're proven to lower satisfaction compatibility rates and higher numbers of divorces.

Meaning individuals who had commonalities, or similar interests has of course higher levels of satisfaction rates.

Thus like attracts like. Similar to the known fact; that football lovers are more likely to associate with like-minded folks.

To narrow it even further down; fans supporting the same team even get along better than opposition fans.

Concluding the fact that a partner: Who you shares similarities, relates to the same subjects, or have a common interest with you.

Are more likely to harmonise your emotional requirements. Hence, your friends is a reflection of your soul.

Likewise, do you feel more comfortable with the people you spend most of your time with.

Because it creates a platform of kindred spirit, one voice and makes you feel a sense of belonging and at peace.

A partner who is your polar opposite; causes disharmony and therefore makes it difficult to meet on common grounds.

Which makes the relationship like fire and water.

The one will infuriate the other (like boiling water) and the other will be a turn off (like water extinguishes a fire).

Therefore it doesn't make sense to spend your time together. There will be lose ends of course:

But contextually relating to similar things creates a dedicated avenue to long-term happiness.

Which will also serve as a platform to easily overcome; the differences they may share.

Another form of connection is attachment; instead of attraction.

People suffers from emotional voids inflicted during childhood, may be drawn to others who may have the abilities to fill the void.

It's not easy to understanding why you are attracted to certain people, sometimes you need help.

Cycles and patterns that are built into our core being; since childhood. Can be very difficult to break.

Especially, because these patterns are deeply bedded under several layers upon layers; like onions.

Sex with your spouse can be extreme; especially after an affair. Because you're both scared to lose one another.

It's like almost losing your life and thereafter grabbing it with both hands to express your appreciation.

You may have a strong urge to merge together, connect, grip each other tight and don't let go.

You may embrace each moment, cry together or crave the need to express your innermost feelings.

It's like a form of scarcity, you never miss the water until it's gone or comes in restricted increments. You want to bridge the gap or distance that has been created between the two of you.

Sex therefore becomes a healing method or comforter. You may discover that you drawn to one another; more than ever before.

It also a way to claim authority over one another when your relationship has been threatened. Which surfaces your true desire to be one again.