Forget about the first thing a Woman thinks about when she sees an erected penis? Have you ever noticed:

The astounding capabilities of women to resist sex; even while being turned on?

By understanding these six female personalities, we will be better able to understand why certain women act the way they do.

Does it Ring a Bell? And it didn't sit well with you. Huh?

Do you even know why it happens? No! I guessed that Much...

You see sometimes when things comes too easy, we don't appreciate it that much.

Of sudden realization, or inspiration, or insight, or recognition, of: Why your Dick can't stand up in the "heat of the moment?

Likewise a female's pussy Can't just get Wet| Without out a Challenge, Or Anticipation, Or little Breadcrumbs that leads up to the final seduction phase.

Don't jump the gun! Make her want you, crave you, desire you, give her a bit than leave her wanting more...

Give her mystery, make it difficult for her to put her finger on what it is about you; that makes you seem so alluring...take your time.

Is the impact; that the environment, situation, circumstances and your current emotional state - has on you.

Our hearts goes through different stages and if someone triggers the right impulses at the right time; it can set off like a timebomb (((BOOM!))).

You'll thank me later|

When she actually squeezes your ass like an orange (with both hands) as you deep stroking her soaking wet vagina...

Almost as if she wants to push your entire body in her pussy.

While you enjoy the cheering noises of "Wet Clapping Sounds" and the musky smell of raw sexually juices.

Please Don't Cum! Atleast just yet; you have to read this entire post. Am I horny while I write this: "Yes!."

Men love pussy! Don't you? Seduction is a process that gradually intrigues you. Make her want you first; then you'll make your wife a happy woman.

My neighbour was sexually attracted to me and he showed it:

I also liked him in a very platonic kind of way, or at least so I thought.

Taking in account; how easy it was for me to resist his advances. I just never thought of him sexually. Period.

One odd day I was feeling down and out; after a heartbreaking event with my partner:

For some reason; my neighbour came around to borrow something; which isn't very uncommon with us.

It wasn't a strategy or a plot. He wasn't even aware of my current situation.

Somehow, he could tell something was wrong; by merely looking at my face:

Instead of asking anything: He compulsively open his arms to suggest a friendly hug. Which I obliged to.

In the spur of the moment; without thinking or planning he suddenly tongue kissed me, and couldn't resist squeezing my ass with both hands. To Drive the point Home.

Guess What Happened After That?

No! You dirty mind! He didn't fuck me, but I was now under his spell and feeling his rhythm.

• It's like an experience when someone playfully hit you on the shoulder. And for some reason you were itching on the same spot.
• Of course, the itching didn't bother you. You weren't even aware it was itching. Until that hit on your shoulder surprisingly made it Right!

Likewise; it felt like I needed to feel wanted, but wasn't aware of it.

And his eagerness to have me; in that particular moment; counterbalanced the feeling of rejection.

It all happened so fast, privately and automatically; which somehow made it feel natural. I No! It's Still Cheating! You don't have to remind me.

And the fact that my spouse put me in this emotional mess; justified my reasons to accept the temptations.

Meaning there weren't all the fears, guilt, shame or anxieties - that usually comes with cheating.

It all felt instinctive, natural and out of the blue; like animal attraction.

The only time it Really hit a Nerve|

Is only after I realised the sadness was now replaced with raw provocative lust!

1. Something in me wanted his dick inside me. I also remember his enormous erection through his pants.
2. Thankfully it felt like a coke can width. And honestly! I hate painful sex| My Vagina is too tight!
3. Atleast the fear of being hurt during a "tight squeeze penetration" and scream like a girl. Will keep me from straying.

If you guys really knew how painful it is: To feel the stabs of big penis plunged into your sensitive vagina. You'd all want smaller penises.

Anyways; Where Were We?

Yah! His blunt nerve hit me off guard and filled the emptiness in my soul; at that point.

Which ultimately absorbed the Shock of being cheated on. It was only relevant for that moment and acting on it afterwards;

Would Make It Premeditated Cheating:

Which would make me no better than my inconsistent spouse.

The least I can do for myself is maintain my standards and improve myself.

Instead of "giving away my power" like a thief stealing from herself. Yup! I do have morals and are very loyal by nature.

Nevertheless; My Panties Gets Wet When I See Him Bare Chest Working In The Garden:

I hope I don't give in. Why? He seduced me in the right situation, time and place. Which put my sexual impulses on autopilot.

Honestly, I regret being at his mercy. But in reality; I can't stop my nipples from getting instantly hard; when I see him.

As For My Marriage| We Agreed To Try Again Considering The Odds Stacked Against A Divorce.

Obviously the cheating of my spouse was a sign of the cracks in our ship. However, he's a good father to his kids.

There are just too many hearts involved in this crisis. But that's another story.

Still I'm afraid to be alone with my neighbour; not because of what he'll do. But more because of; "What I'll allow him to do with me."

As For A Woman Just Seeing The Fully Erected Penis Of A Perverted Stranger

If you're thinking it would be a jaw dropping experience. Think again.

You be fooled if you're thinking it would put her on autopilot also known as Automaticity in Psychology.

Which is when you hold onto a strong urge, desire or emotion too long. Till you eventually involuntarily surrender yourselves to the source.

• As a result your choices, decisions, reactions, behaviors, and experiences becomes automated to submit.
• Inspite of your conscious mind barriers, independent from your awareness, or cognitive involvement.
• As a result; you become a victim in your day-to-day experiences.

In this case; her eyes might as well be popping out; as she helplessly drooling all over the floor.

Like some men usually do; when they see a woman throwing her lags back to open up her mesmirizing vagina, or perhaps pop it back for you.

Let's not go there! We know what you guys like. Believe me; feminine power is an experience in itself.

How many of you guys had an experience:

• Where you see a beautiful lady and that you'd like to get close to.
• Only to find when you see her naked; right in front of you.
• You tend to experience problems; like not being able to get erection?

Which very common with quickies, casual sex and sudden sexual agreements.

The next best thing is to keep it to yourself and start doubting your abilities for to be ready for sex; in the "brink of the moment." Right?

Why Don't Men Get As Hard For Quick Sex| As They Do For Someone Hard To Get?

Because it's most often too sudden, quick and easy. For your imagination to build up anticipate for the experience:

You're soft and limp penis can't simply get hard - by the snap of a little fingers.

Because even men; needs to experience some form of desire, a sense of being comfortable and emotional stimulation; to perform on optimal level.

Give yourself a pet on the should guys. Don't be so hard on yourselves even you are human.

Fantasize a little bit to stimulate yourselves erotically, get in the mood and allow it to pour over to your wives.

If there are no background story to enhance the experience; the outcome can be very dull and boring.

Why do you think married people Stray?

Exactly! Because they became to relaxed in their relationships; so much so that sex are treated "as a matter of fact."

It's like watching a "karate movie" with no story line and just baseless fighting. It just extinguishes your excitement and makes you bored.

On The Other Hand: You Get Rock Hard For A Woman Who Resists Your Advances|

She subtly gives you a reels you in, give you a bit of hope, than resist your advances. As if it was a bad idea to entice you.

Then soften the blow by allowing you a bit deeper in her life, just to retract again.

Giving you breadcrumbs that ultimate leads to her snares. In no time you get hooked or addicted to her

Here's A Typical Example Of A Similar Scenario:

1. She gives you a wanton look as soon as you walk in the room; as your eyes meet hers, she shyly looks away.
2. You walk up to her, she looks down and bite her lower lip like a naughty girl. You somehow sense her interest and confidently introduce yourself.
3. She gives you a quick stealthy look before giving her name. Your eyes connects and she giggles like in a girlish tone.
4. You ask her if she regularly visits this place. She says: "It depends?"
5. You're Confused in an exciting way: You ask: "Depends on what?" She stares you directly in the eyes for a brief moment and asks: "What would your girlfriend say if she saw you talking to me?
6. You tell her you're single and immediately asks if she's dating anyone?
7. She ask you:" Does it matter?" As she brush her hair away from her face; with her hands: To give you a more meaningful stare.

Can you see the gradual process? I bet by then your pants is making a tent. Right?

Enticing! Huh? As you ask her on a more serious date. She tells you: "The nights still young...can we talk about it later?

The sense of mystery builds momentum, increases your blood pressure. You don't only want her for the night; but for always.

She walks away in a gracious stride. Stop. Looks back. Almost as if she wants to make you aware; that she knows you're watching.

Flashes a sly smile and continue her alluring walk; till she vanishes in the crowd. She's got her hooks in you! Your knees weaken with desire.

Can You Feel That?

Likewise, a out of the blue erection wouldn't do much to a woman. It might excite an eager; teenage girl. Who's still learning the ropes.

But it wouldn't do much if it's not really presented in a intriguing, alluring or an enticing way.

And for that to happen, she must trust you enough to appreciate your erotic dance.

You want to make a stunning impression; to make ripples, enough to Rock her Boat.

But even husband's these days lacks the much needed skills.

When a woman sees an erected penis it's nothing new?

If the above didn't drive the point home, I'm willing to put in more effort to hone it in.

Sexual arousal works different for woman as opposed to men.

Males are highly turned on and influenced by visual assets of a female. While woman on the other hand; has to be emotionally stimulated.

The mere sight of a beautiful face, luscious body and vagina; is enough to set a man's penis off for the Stars.

For females sex is a sensitive subject; irrespective of the latest trends of trying to modernize sex.

Nature is hardwired and can't be altered; without affecting the natural order in our existence.

I mean the risks of gender violence, unwanted pregnancies and bad reputations is unlimited.

• If we call the ancient people primitive and ourselves modern. Then why are gender violence still rife; despite our advancements of science?
• Despite our advancements in science we still cannot prevent or protect ourselves from global disasters.
• Need I say more to make you understand we're merely cooperating with nature. And it controls our realities. Karma never forgets names.
• Most men don't respect a lewd woman and no woman honours a coward.

Let's call a spade a spade:

Bad reputations even exists in companies, commercial industry, tertiary institutions, governments, etc.

1. Would you take your child to preschool; who has a bad reputation for physical abuse?
2. Would you park your car in a parking lot with an history of car theft?
3. Would you marry a woman with a reputation of being a community slut?

Even when it comes to condoms. Males generally has more control over safe sex; than the females.

Many guys may even use a condom in the beginning and secretly remove it; without the female's knowledge or consent.

My Point Is:

All these variables will by default affect the attitude of the person (female); who's most likely to be impacted by it.

And the one who benefits the most (male), will obviously have less to fear and more to look forward to.

There Are 7 Fundamentals You Should Keep In Mind:

So now that we're getting to the sex and cum of the topic. Assuming the variable that could ultimately affect a female's perspective:

In which she views an erected penis. Considering that it could be the making or breaking of her life as she knows it.

It's therefore not merely perceived as a source of pleasure; but also as source of potential danger or pain (literally and figuratively).

I mean just by seeing a too big penis, can sometimes make you cringe with in fear of potential pain. You might even feel sorry for his wife.

That's why you hear of woman rejecting too well hung or obese dick men.

If it's anything above average; I mean it's going to be a "tight squeeze." And we can estimate it just by looking at it erected.

1. The Situation:

Our lives are often shaped around around specific situations. And likewise do we have to shape our tight pussy lips around fitting penises.

Now I'm just not talking about the physical dick itself; but also the male that it's attached to.

For instance; if you're at a party, work or home. You generally behave differently because the rules are different.

Likewise if you're see an erected penis by accident, or the person never willingly to expose himself indecently.

It might be shocking, somewhat thrilling and generate some uncomfortable heat of the moment shame.

Why? Because it was accidental and not necessarily directed to you. In the context that it's supposed to spread your vagina.

A Examples Of Situations And Potential Effects It May Have On Females Seeing it Online:

May be fun, exciting or evoke curiosity. Because you're looking at it from a distant place. The person isn't physically present.

You're not pressured by the thought of having to embrace it with your vagina.

There are zero risks involved; accept for the freezer of admiring the features.

You can now comfortably imagine; how pleasant or painful it would feel.

In this case your imagination runs free and wild. Because you're in control of the situation.

Therefore it may trigger some past sexual memories or thought provocing fantasies.

A Random Person:

There can be different forms of random. Such as; walking in on a random stranger in a unisex shower or toilet.

• Who might also feel embarassed by your in expected entrance.
• An online or blind date, casual sex hookups, or one night stands; can and mostly are with strangers.
• Since you're already decided to have sex; it may or may not turn you on.

Assuming that the reality is always different than the fantasy.

In this space; it depends how turn on, excited and sexual compatible his penis measurement is.

If it's too big it might scare you, if it too small (a little disappointed), even an average size might look attractive or unattractive.

Depending on your expectations, preferences and desire.

But of course; the final outcome might ultimately Wow or otherwise disappoint you.

Other Than That:

If it's just a pervert or lewd guy; who decided to flash you. It can obviously maked you feel uncomfortably, threatened, disrespect, disgusted or targeted.

Unless you're somehow lead him on; due to some animal attraction scenario, or instinctive seduction episode.

Even then; it may feel slightly uncomfortable, doubtful or unsettled. Considering you barely know the person.

A First Time Sexual Encounter:

With a new lover. You may have process - what's about to happen and that makes you more nervous than anything else.

Because it's more a confirmation of a potential life changing experience. Which could be either Good or Bad.

There's obviously uncertainty and you're about to cross a line. You never crossed before; with this particular person

So the anticipation is anxiety based; about the potential outcome. As opposed to the actual experience of sex.

Which creates question marks; like something that's: "Still hanging in the air..."

Increasing the workload in your mind. Since it's anxiously trying to predict; whether you're about to enjoy, or regret this moment.

Plus your heart is rapidly pumping; although you appear calm on the outside.

So you have mixed emotions of fear, anticipation, disquieting doubts and what ifs, that continuously floods your mind.

2. The Chemistry:

Chemistry is a powerful stimulant and can make any ordinary experience feel more compelling.

attractiveness · interest · allurement · bait · captivation · charm ...

It's also unpredictable: You may even admire or love someone. And still there's no sex appeal that exists between you two.

While in other cases; you may sexually sexual interest; as well. Many relationships lacks chemistry.

Then you can have chemistry for irrelevant people.

Such as a total stranger, a family friend, a colleague, a neighbour or even your partner's friend.

It doesn't mean you have to act on it; assuming the dangers involved.

But most often it's very Difficult to ignore, resist or forget.

Unless you totally stay away from sources that may trigger sexual attraction.

It can put you on autopilot and make you succumb to shameful deeds or even illicit affairs.

If you see an erection from someone you share chemistry with.

It's most likely to generate wild thoughts, or compulsive sexual behaviours.

3. The Psychological barriers:

There are also psychological barriers that could influence the perspectives in which we see things.

Irrespective; of sexual interests or erotic compulsions.

Let's assume the person enticingly presents his erected penis; in a way that you find it appealing.

It may stimulate your imagination and get you excited. But the fact that it's someone else's man; may cause doubts.

This obviously interrupts the harmony of the experience and creates conflicting thoughts.

Which can make you feel disgusted, or hate the entire experience.

Unless you're a short-term thinker; who always think of consequences too late.

In order for a woman to get really wet; her mind must be totally at ease.

If an experience generates too many what ifs; it may degenerate the entire sensation.

4. The Emotional barriers

If it's only a physical seduction; it may get her thinking; but won't be enough to get her wholeheartedly involved.

• Even if she succumbs to your sexual requirements; because for some reason she has her back against the wall.
• Or suffer from Childhood abandonedment issue; that she's looking to fill with penises.

Let's say she's in some predicament and all the odds are stacked against her.

She'll Just Lay There Like A Dead Fish:

You're not going to get the best of her. You'll still feel her indifference, resistance or unwillingness; during the entire act.

Ask married men how disheartening sex feels with his wife; if she's half-heartedly invested.

To really touch the "warm heart" of True Feminine Power. You have to get a woman onboard on all 4 levels:

Mentally (erotically), emotionally (feeling worthy), spiritually (feeling loved) and physically (triggering her sexual impulses).

Which is likely to happen when she's married to you. Meaning she has to really know you'll never leave her.

We vulnerable and needs security to counterbalance our fears. 5. The Moral Boundaries:

Even if she's lewd and appear to have no morals. Believe me there are certain principles that governs her decisions.

Just like men, there are women who only act a certain way to impress their friends, men, or fit into a crowd. A state known as "Complexes."

It doesn't mean they really enjoy what they're doing. Sometimes women behave a certain way:

Because they try to please other people or keep men around. Only to find their behaviours does the opposite.

I personally know females who enjoy talking about sex all day with male friends. Pretending to love sex.

But when they actually have to prove themselves, they look for excuses to prevent it from happening.

Guys may call them "cock teasers" and others who somehow get lucky. They may even find they're not really as experienced as they claimed to be.

Bottom Line:

If you're already in a relationship and someone flashes his cock at you.

Although it might seem alluring at first; the after effects Would be guilt versus Shame.

Because the fear of potential consequences; that may stem from crossing certain boundaries.

Will send shockwaves after such an experience. Because now it feels like a dirty secret.

6. The Environment:

Then again, there are different places where this may occur publicly, private, party, etc. The environment where this happens are also important.

Because the environment shapes our emotional reactions towards it.

Don't Believe Me? Test The Following:

• Try making an important decision or set a long-term goal in a shopping mall?
• Now go to a library (which is generally quiet) and make the same decision?

Even at home; why do you think parents shout noisy children. When they busy processing important information?

Why Do Seasoned Partners Associate Quiet Places With Romantic?

If you're at a party and someone is drunk or excited enough to wield his private parts around; it may not even affect you.

Bit if you're in a secluded area it may be seen in a totally different light. Taking in account it's someone you adore or admire of course.

7. The Consequences:

When a woman is sober minded. Potential consequences are regularly part of her decision process of cognitive senses.

No matter how exciting something may seem. Dhe may ultimately rejected it. Simply for it not being worth the risks.

Not to say our hearts don't attach to the bad guys. I mean we fall for the wrong person at one point or another.

Maybe subconscious, we like drama; although we say we don't.

And that's already evidence; there must be a story that builds up momentum.

But it takes more than simply taking out your erected penis. Maybe try taking out your wallet, credentials, inheritance, or Mercedes Benz. Than we can talk.

Not because we're sex workers or something.

But just to neutralize some of the potential financial risks, associated with reckless sexual behaviour.

Examples such as unwanted pregnancies, baby maintenance costs, diapers, etc.

Going for men who are financially capable of help us out when things gets real. Is a way of cushioning the blows of life as we know it.

Instead of going for a "deadbeat:"

Who are more likely to Jump Ship, or avoid child support...

Not because he don't want to, but simply because he's financially incapable and depend on his mother.

Did You Know Women Can Have Sex By The Snap Of A Finger|

In fact; she tries not to see erected penises of men that she's not interested in.

Not because it will tempt her - but more because she won't be impressed interested in servicing it.

She probably has platonic male friends who get hard for her all the time and she don't think anything of it.

Why? Because it don't mean much; if you're not emotionally invested in the guy.

Speaking Of Emotional Connections:

Sometimes when a guy you really like guy (potentially lover) and you're about to get sexual.

And he undress to reveal his eager Willie, it doesn't even make you get wet.

You're rather thinking:

• Is all of that going into me?
• Is this even a good idea?
• What have I gotten myself into?
• I wonder will my reputation be damaged after this?

You see; we're not necessarily turned on the mere sight of hard dicks. Unless it happens in gradual stages that really triggers our sexual impulses first.

We're more turned on by a PENIS from an old lover; who actually gave us memorable sexual experiences.

Because there are so many unanswered question when it comes to someone new.

Anxieties And Thoughts That May Cross Your Mind Are:

There's exceptions to the rule. This is basic examples of a few potentially worries that might cross your mind:.

• Is this person trustworthy, safe or healthy?
• What will be the aftermath of sex with him?
• My reputation, self-respect and will I regret this decision.
• What if the condom breaks, I get pregnant or contract a sexual transmitted disease?

Your charmig Attitude is very important in this aspect. Combined with experience, knowledge and skill; you're a superpower.

In Summary:

The first thing a woman thinks about when she sees an erected penis depends on:

The size of erection, is she sexually attracted to you, are you stimulating her imagination, and making her want to see it .

She obviously don't want to think about potential diseases, discomforting or shame that might resort from it.