Let's face it; men are the ones who benefits the most; from "a no strings attached Sexual arrangement."

While women bends up with the short end of the stick.

I mean; just look at the risk that a female has to endure; in the act of Casual Sex.

Such As: 1. Slut shaming:

Yup! A guy pulls up his pants and he's a stud.

Unfortunately, the female bears the brunt of reputational damage and awful emotional meltdowns.

2. Unprotected Sex:

Let's admit it! Men has more control over protected sex, than women.

She may vaguely assume he wears the condom. While he secretly slips it off or broke it; without her knowledge.

3. Unwanted Pregnancies:

Yeah! That too; how many men rejects their own flesh and blood. By refusing to take full responsibility of impregnancy.

That's when you're realise "no strings attached" is a stress free way to sell yourself cheaply.

But in reality, it has expensive repercussions. which is just another way of waving our Rights.

4. Painful Sex:

Men has a tendency to assume just because we give birth to babies.

You can easily stretch; to "engulf any massive penis" with no effort."

Toot! Wrong again; ladies you know how painful; a too tight squeeze and deep fitted rod feels. Right?

Plus you risk tearing some of your most sensitive internal tissues, or risk cervix cramps.

Which kind of feel like; being "skinned from inside your tender vagina; with a hard shaft."

5. Casual Sex Hangovers Are The Worst:

Aside from feeling your vagina throbbing from huge penis sex; the night before.

Which you deeply regret. Only if you knew; he was that "Big" you'd probably refused to subscribe.

The Hollow Feelings That Follows A Casual Sex Hookup| Is Heart Plunging:

In comparison to males; who may just take it as "another quicky."

Females tend to feel; unexpected negative emotions stabs.

Although, it's easy to get caught up in those "one night affairs "

Thanks to sexual attraction, or unrealistic hopes to reach new heights in a relationship.

Unhealthy Emotional Ties Are Inevitable:

There always seems to be; something we either leave behind or take with us.

And most often; it's not good. Instead it's disheartening, sad and almost like a deep grieve.

• We either curse ourselves for steeping so low.
• Or regret the ignorance; of thinking: Casual Sex will satisfy the void in our souls.
• Because, sexual intercourse without a genuine emotional connection. Feels dirty, lousy and diminishing.

Now if you're a single lady who somehow relates to "regrettable casual sex."

Rest Assured:

Because in your case you're still looking for love or are afraid of committing. Thus mistake your decision as a solution.

But in my own experienced opinion. I'm here to tell You! It's nothing compared to:

What Married Friends With Benefits Feels Like

It's as if; the excitement, the adrenaline, fun, naughtiness, and adventure.

Are only position as a marketing division; in the initial stages.

Making it good enough to lure you in, hook you and trap you into a vice; that you're about to regret.

It's more like a magnetic attraction, an addiction, or false advertising mechanism.

It says all the right words, make all the right moves and suggests the seemingly best solutions:

To your mind numbing; dutiful marital sex problems, or decaying romantic situation.

Which happens to make it; seem like a "undeniable need." While in reality It's "a deadly desire."

Some fantasies are Better left in your mind. Be never bring them into reality. It Might Haunt You Forever.

Now Let's Assume You Have A Traditional Loving Husband:

1. And for some reason the "little slut in you." Desires some mysterious sexual fun; outside of your monotonous marriage.
2. Or perhaps, you can't pass by an opportunity to get laid " by an attractive hunk or sexual provocative bull."
3. Or just because you met an old admirer; who still thinks you're "Hot." And it feels good to be admired; after so long.

Let's Face It:

10 years of marraige can begin to feel like an endless journey through a dark tunnel of:

1. Powerful struggles:

Conflicting goals, relentless financial problems and a dwindling sex life.

2. Uncooperative inlaws:

A too late realization of incompatibilities, indifference attitude collisions, reluctance, etc.

3. Dutiful Compliment:

Meaningless hugs and kisses, "I love you" expressed in a rehearsed tone, endless emotional struggles,

Routine based missionary sexual positions, bills piling up, mortgage pressures, and so on.

Which Seems Like Strong Motives To Justify| A One Time Extramarital Sexual Adventure.

Suddenly your abilities to resist your flirtatious colleague, neighbor or husband's best friend becomes less effective.

It first started as a thought, then a fantasy and suddenly you "Crave him" inside of you.

You transmitted a few hints, showed a bit cleavage, bent a few sexual provocative ways (while nobody was around.

One Thing Leads To Another| And The Wheels Was Set In Motion:

You both agreed; to participate in a "secret sexual hookup" and keeping it discreet.

The most suitable; appointed time is a few days away. Considering your hectic working schedules and overwhelming family ties.

Finally The Big Day Arrived|After Many Moons Of Nail-biting Anticipation

In a state of nerve wrecking excitement. Your much anticipated big day arrived; for a treacherous sexual hookup.

Something tells you there's no turning back now. You have to follow through on your promise to commit adultery.

You're pretty much on autopilot mode. You feel more obliged to meet your illicit partner halfway.

Even more so, than you ever could to your faithful partner. Almost as if you're priorities changed.

The Hotel Room Is Finally Booked:

Your friend with benefits has been keeping you updated; most of the day.

And like anxious children on Christmas day who can't wait to open their presents.

You can't seem to wait for your shift to end. In some dirty kinda way you this feel necessary.

Your sexy wet lingerie is wet with sexual anticipation juices. Which exposes the "lust" hidden behind your "faithful wife pretense."

Eventually You Made It To The End Of The Day| And Managed To Escape The Preying Eyes Of People Who Might Know Your Husband:

In the hotel room, you're sitting on the bed. While your accomplice take off his jack and shoes.

You remind him that you're "using a condom." Which he obediently agree to; as he sits next to you on edge of the bed.

• Start kissing your neck, caressing your thighs, fondling your breasts and finally tongue kiss you passionately.
• He then stands up, pull you up and start undressing you. Loosens his pants which smoothly drops to the floor.
• At the point; you're both naked. He eagerly rolls the condom on. Which exposes his 8 inches long and hard organ.

Ouch! Is This Going To Hurt?

You're wondering... immediately your mind begins to try and find solutions: "To avoid sex with your average husband after this."

Because, he'll definitely feel the additional width and depth of your stretched out vagina.

Fake My Monthly Cycle| As An Excuse To Avoid Marital Sex With My Husband:

You're pondering...As your illicit lover slowly positions your body towards the bed. And start kissing you more aggressively! This time around.

You're heart vibrates nervously, shocked, afraid; but still a bit excited.

The magnitude and gravity of your decision begins to sink in. There's no turning back now. You're indebted to your lust.

He Spreads Your Legs And Position His Penis Towards Your Tiny Hole:

Your vagina is clearly too small and not wet enough to envelope his thick head.

So he skillfully spreads your vagina lips; with two fingers. Exposing your pink tissues.

As he eagerly manoeuvres his obese penis head; to part your vagina lips.

Your eyes are closed, you can't seem to stop thoughts of your "husband's face," mercilessly flashing in your mind.

He Push His Large Rod Bit By Bit Deeper:

All the lust, excitement and desire dumbsdown; like a disappointing sinking feeling. Almost as if; it ultimate seals the deal of your betrayal.

You just lay there like a sex doll; as he heartily penetrate; in and out. You don't enjoy a single bit of this "painful and empty sex."

Why did it seem so appealing at first. But now that you're doing it. It exposes you to the Reality of reckless sexual behaviors.

You Can't Wait For It To Be Over:

Deepdown, you disappointed at yourself. Did I make up all the lies, deny the truth, spend weeks of plotting my betrayal. Just for this?

Your illicit lover suddenly stop his deep and painful penetration. And asks you:"Are you Okay?"

Perhaps he wonders; why you're just laying there! Like "a dead fish."

He must be worried about his performance, or perhaps your "sudden expression of disapproval."

He Finally Decides To Stop And Take Off His Condom:

It's funny how all the excitement faded after the actual deed.

The only thing left is "dead silence" and a deep sense of shame; amidst the musky sexual odour.

You don't want this to ever happen again. But what remains is the "deep fear" of having to look your trusting husband in his eyes.

Unlike the anticipation in the beginning that made everything seem so excitingly feasible.

What's left now is "the stench of shame, regret, loss of self-respect and knowing your life is changed forever.

Damn! You feel like the worst wife and mother of 3 kids to ever walked this earth. It makes you sick to your stomach.

Plus now you share a "dark secret" that can crumble your life to pieces.

The boredom was in fact a feeling of stability. Which is now replaced with fear and paranoia of this; Ever coming out.

Now you realise cheating yourself out of Trust is worthless. Trust feels regular because it's firm and consistent. All you have now is vulnerability and listlessness.