In a world obsessed with personal achievements and the law of attraction, let's take a whimsical detour and explore the things we really don't need to Manifest this year. And guess what? It's absolutely okay if you can't or don't want to manifest them!
Welcome to a lighthearted journey through the art of not manifesting! I know, we all want to manifest a better life for ourselves and our loved ones.
Here are my thoughts on not manifesting or not being able to actually do it properly - it's ok!
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LIST OF THINGS YOU DON'T NEED TO MANIFEST
1. A Perfect Life
Let's start with the big one – a perfect life. Society often paints a picture of what an ideal life should look like: a high-paying job, a picturesque home, an enviable Social life... the list goes on.
But here's a little secret: perfection is a myth, and chasing it is like trying to catch your own shadow. Embrace the beautifully imperfect life you have. The mess, the mistakes, the muddled-up days – they're all part of your unique story.
2. A Flawless Body
Next up, the flawless body. You know, the one that looks like it's been sculpted by the gods themselves. But let's face it, those gods must be pretty busy because most of us are still waiting!
Your body is your lifelong companion, and it's done an amazing job keeping you alive. So, instead of manifesting a new one, how about sending a little love to the one you've got?
You know, instead of manifesting perfection, it's better to just do small things that make you feel good. Something basic like using a massage gun can work wonders. Or, you can whip on some body butter like Tree Hut Moroccan Rose Whipped Shea Body Butter to give yourself beautiful skin.
3. An Overflowing Bank Account
Ah, money – the root of all... stress? While financial stability is important, constantly chasing more money can turn into an endless and unfulfilling quest. Just think about how much time you end up worrying about money and finances.
The reality is that it's hard to manifest it - there's just a lat of actual work involved. It's ok if you struggle and it's also ok to spend your money how you see fit.
Remember, the best things in life aren't things. So, if your bank account isn't overflowing like a billionaire's, don't sweat it. Your worth isn't measured in dollars and cents.
4. A Fairy-Tale Romance
Rom-coms have a lot to answer for here. We're led to believe that the perfect partner will come along and sweep us off our feet, solving all our problems in one romantic swoop.
Reality check: relationships are work, and expecting a fairy-tale can set you up for disappointment. Instead, focus on building meaningful connections, starting with the one you have with yourself.
5. A MasterChef Worthy Culinary Skillset
So, you can't cook to save your life? Join the club! Not everyone needs to be a gourmet chef. If your idea of cooking is microwaving yesterday's pizza, that's perfectly fine.
There's no need to manifest your cooking skills when there are so many options out there.
Culinary skills are great, but they're not a prerequisite for a happy life. Takeout exists for a reason, and there's no shame in using it!
There are many easy to follow cookbooks you use to learn some new skills:
- 5-Ingredient Cooking for Two: 100+ Recipes Portioned for Pairs
- Gordon Ramsay Quick and Delicious: 100 Recipes to Cook in 30 Minutes or Less
- Half Baked Harvest Every Day: Recipes for Balanced, Flexible, Feel-Good Meals: A Cookbook
6. A Viral Social Media Presence
In our digital age, it's easy to feel like you're missing out if you're not a social media superstar. But here's a thought: what if you just... don't? It's okay if your posts don't go viral or if your follower count isn't skyrocketing.
Social media is just one tiny facet of life, not the whole diamond. I'm sure you've scrolled past gurus who claim to teach you how to manifest thousands of followers by repeating certain affirmations but hey, if it doesn't work, don't stress!
7. A Jam-Packed Social Calendar
Are you even having fun if every weekend isn't crammed with social events? Absolutely! It's okay to enjoy quiet weekends at home. In fact, it's more than okay; it's necessary.
Rest and recharge in the way that works best for you, even if that means saying no to social commitments.
8. An Exotic Travel Bucket List
Travel is wonderful, but the pressure to visit every corner of the globe can be overwhelming. If you're not ticking off countries like grocery items, that's fine.
Traveling is expensive and time consuming and it's ok if you stick to short trips.
Discovering local gems can be just as fulfilling as a trip across the world. Remember, adventure is a state of mind, not a destination.
9. A Spotless Home
Lastly, let's talk about your home. Magazines and social media might have you believe that a happy home is a spotless one. But let's get real: life is messy.
If your home looks lived in, that's because it is! A few dishes in the sink or a pile of laundry doesn't mean your life is falling apart.
I've tried manifesting the aesthetically pleasing Insta home but it doesn't really work and it's ok as long as you feel comfy.
Have you tried hygge instead?
Embracing the Unmanifested
So there we have it, folks – a list of things you absolutely don't need to manifest this year. The pressure to constantly achieve and improve can be exhausting.
It's important to remember that you're not defined by what you manifest or don't manifest.
Celebrate the Small Wins
Instead of focusing on big, life-changing manifestations, why not celebrate the small wins? Made your bed this morning? That's a win.
Managed to drink a glass of water? Another win! Life is made up of these tiny triumphs, and they're worth celebrating.
Be Kind to Yourself
The most important thing you can do this year is to be kind to yourself. You're doing your best, and
that's enough. If things don't go as planned, it's not a failure; it's just life doing its thing. Laugh at the mishaps, learn from the mistakes, and keep moving forward.
Connect with What Matters
Instead of manifesting material things or perfect scenarios, focus on connecting with what truly matters to you. Whether it's spending time with loved ones, pursuing a hobby, or just taking a moment to breathe, these are the things that bring real joy and fulfillment.
The Joy of Unmanifesting
In our modern world, where manifesting and achieving are often seen as the benchmarks of success, there's a refreshing and much-needed concept that's starting to take root – the joy of unmanifesting.
This idea isn't about giving up on dreams or aspirations; rather, it's a liberating approach to life that encourages us to release the grip on stringent expectations and embrace the beauty of life as it unfolds.
Let's dive deeper into this concept and understand why it could be the most fulfilling trend we embrace.
Understanding Unmanifesting
At its core, unmanifesting is about letting go of the need for control over every aspect of our lives. It's a gentle reminder that not everything has to go according to plan for life to be meaningful and joyful.
This concept challenges the notion that we must constantly strive for more, be more, or have more to be happy. Instead, it invites us to find contentment and peace in the present, even if it's imperfect.
Living Authentically
Unmanifesting encourages us to live authentically. In a world where we are often pressured to present a polished version of ourselves, to chase after what society deems successful or desirable, unmanifesting is an act of rebellion.
It's choosing to honor our true selves, with all our quirks, flaws, and unconventional choices. It means making peace with where we are in our journey, even if it's not where we thought we'd be.
The Beauty of the Unplanned
There's a unique beauty in the unplanned and the unexpected. Life's most memorable moments often arise from the unplanned detours and spontaneous decisions.
Unmanifesting allows us to be more open to these experiences, to welcome the unexpected with curiosity rather than fear. It teaches us the value of flexibility and adaptability, showing us that sometimes, the best path is the one we didn't meticulously plan.
Redefining Success
The joy of unmanifesting also involves redefining what success means to us personally. It's about breaking free from the cookie-cutter definitions of achievement and creating our own metrics of what it means to live a successful life.
For some, this might mean a quieter, simpler life filled with deep connections and meaningful experiences. For others, it could mean pursuing passions without the burden of turning them into profitable ventures.
The Power of Now
Unmanifesting brings us back to the power of now. It's a practice rooted in mindfulness, where the focus is on the current moment rather than being fixated on future outcomes. It's about appreciating what we have, who we are, and where we are at this point in time.
This mindfulness leads to a deeper sense of gratitude and a fuller, more enriched experience of life.
Letting Go of Perfection
A crucial aspect of unmanifesting is letting go of the pursuit of perfection. It's an acknowledgment that life is inherently imperfect and that there's great joy to be found in this imperfection.
This doesn’t mean we stop striving for growth or improvement, but we do so without the harsh self-criticism and unrealistic standards that often accompany the quest for perfection.
Embracing Change and Uncertainty
Unmanifesting teaches us to embrace change and uncertainty. Instead of fearing the unknown, we learn to see it as a space ripe with possibilities.
It's an understanding that change is the only constant and that our ability to adapt and find joy amidst change is a profound source of strength and happiness.
Conclusion
Remember, dear readers, your value doesn't lie in what you manifest. It lies in your kindness, your resilience, your unique perspective on the world.
So here's to not manifesting! Here's to living a life that's wonderfully, beautifully, perfectly imperfect. Embrace it, enjoy it, and above all, be kind to yourself along the way.
