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The Secret to Mega Self-Confidence in ANY Social Situation

Imagine if you were invited to a fancy cocktail party where you didn’t know anyone.
 
✅Significantly richer than you
✅Better dressed than you
✅Probably really smug
 
How would you feel?
 
Possibly a little intimidated?
 
A bit concerned how well you’d fit in?
 
Maybe scared of making a fool of yourself…
 
For many people this is a absolute nightmare
 
You might just mutter “fuck it” and turn around and walk right out of there
 
Unless of course you knew the simple secret to be confident
 
Anywhere
 
With anyone
 
Which is…
 
People don’t give a shit about you, they give a shit about themselves 😲
 
That’s it
 
Sound cynical?
 
It’s not, it’s great
 
When you’re thinking, “I hope nobody thinks I’m boring, ugly or stupid.”
 
Other people are thinking, “I hope this new person finds me interesting, attractive and smart.”
 
People are much too concerned with themselves to be concerned with you.
So, how can you use this to your advantage?
 
You can use the No1 most interesting conversation piece ever
 
The other person.
 
😻 Hey, that’s really interesting, I bet you have a really great job
😻 You look amazing in your dress, red really suits you
😻 I never thought of it that way, you’re really smart!
 
Sound cheesy?
 
Sound easy?
 
Maybe, but who cares, it works.
 
Practice those two things and you’ll never struggle again
 
One mindset
 
One strategy
 
If you’re shy or nervous to interact you’re going to miss out
 
There’s no two ways about it
 
If you find yourself wanting, so badly, to get involved but can’t bring
yourself to get the words out
 
Message me and let’s work on changing that
 
R

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