By,
Shubham Srivastava.
Life always needs Balance from us to balance itself. Are you supplying the stuffs/ingredients to yourself to lead a balanced life? Ask yourself this question again and again!!!
When you give balance to your life then life gives happiness to you. Happiness can never be a choice but happiness is an answer available to all your pending questions. The most important thing is that you have to get happiness for yourself. No one will get it for you and for this life and you, both need balance. So, strive for a balanced life and it will automatically lead you to happiness. It's that simple. Life always reciprocates in the same way what we do to our respective lives.
Now the question is; what takes balance away from your life? Even the question is wrong here. The question should be that who takes balance away from your life?
Unfortunately, it's you who is taking balance away from your life. Whenever Happiness arrives in one's life. Suddenly he/she starts thinking that oh my god! I have never been this happy. Indeed, there is something bad coming. This happiness is fragile. But in bad times, one never thinks about happiness. One starts complaining that why me always? And then one goes to spend both good and bad times in misery. It's okay to be sad in bad times, but it's not okay to be sad in good times also just because of a fear that something bad will also happen soon. The fear which doesn't even exist and which only resides in your mind. One should always react according to circumstances. That will lead everyone to a balanced life.
Q:- What is balance and how can you live a balanced life?
Ans- Balance means duality. We can never talk about balance when only one thing/person/situation/stuff exists. Balance always talks about two. We have been given everything in balance. No matter what it is? If there is happiness then there is misery, if there is male then there is female, if there is laughing then there is weeping, if there is summer then there is winter, if there is presence then there is absence, if there is love then there is hate, if there is rich then there is poor and so many things which are perhaps uncountable. So balance will always mean duality.
:- Some simplest ways to live a balanced life which will eventually lead you to happiness-
Balance can only be disturbed when one knowingly or unknowingly disturbs or separates the duality. When we start to appreciate what is in front of us, regardless of it's negative or positive nature. Balance is created.
Just think that if we won't know winter, how will we appreciate summer? If we won't know darkness, how will we appreciate light? If we won't know misery, how will we appreciate happiness? So in a certain way, balance means respect too. Respect whatever is presented to you. It will take all your fears away from you. Choice is yours that you want to only respect/appreciate positive or you want to respect/appreciate duality of this universe. Make your choice as soon as possible.
You can only make this possible yourself. May god bless you!!! Bbyee....
