Hello beautiful people. How are you all? We're on school holidays, so far it's been lovely and restful (because I've had a very sick child.)

I've had lots of time to think lately and I'm confused. 

Of all my friends, other than H and Lisa, if I don't call them I don't hear from them. That's okay, I understand that we're all Busy and I too am terrible at calling people.

But here's where I'm confused. I'll catch up with a friend and they'll say something about us not having seen each other for ages but then they get annoyed if I point out that they can call me too. Like it's my fault I didn't call them? But they didn't call me either?

Here's an example of when I saw a friend recently.

Friend: I haven't seen you for ages.

Me: Yes, we've been so busy.

Friend: I've missed you.

Me: I've missed you too, it's nice to catch up.

Friend: You haven't called me for ages.

Me: No, I've been really busy. I'm assuming you have too because you haven't called me either.

Friend: Oh, it's like that is it!

Me: No, I'm not being funny, but you can call me too.

Friend: Okay well if that's the way you're going to be.

Me: You know you can call me anytime.

Friend is now annoyed with me.

 

Does that make sense to anyone else? It doesn't make sense to me. Why is it only up to me to call people? Why can't they call me too? And if they choose not to call me then what right do they have to get angry that I haven't called them?

It makes no sense to me.

 

That's all I have to whinge about today. Have a wonderful weekend!