I want this thing this is the most easiest thing for people to say. some people are Naturally assertive they end up having so many opportunities but not everyone is naturally confident.
Today we are going to discuss 4 ways to be naturally confident in most aspects of life like in school or in front of parents so you can tell them what you did in the car.
Today we are going to discuss 4 ways to be naturally confident in most aspects of life like in school or in front of parents so you can tell them what you did in the car.
1) Hold on to your NUT
This stands for "Non -negotiable Unalterable Terms."
Whenever you find yourself in difficult or uncomfortable situation think of something that is most important to you at that moment. Something you can’t compromise, like your health or something specific. Once you know what your priorities are it will be easier to fight for them.
2) Be simple, honest and direct
Don’t be passive, aggressive or rude it is very annoying. don’t wait until last if the waiter brings you a salad and you ordered a burger don’t be rude send him back and be honest. underhanded things are likely to work in your favour at the least you have done a favour by making your needs known.
3) Fake it, till you make it
If you think you will notice, you feel how you act , but how to do that, well with the help of body language, Practice good body posture and speak in authoritative manner.
"Be a eagle not a turtle"
Don't trust a shoulders forward a slump you look like you are apologising for yourself, do straighten your back stick your chest out breathe evenly and deeply
If you have problem maintaining eye contact focus on their forehead or nose, this tricks work and you will feel more in control.
4) Use “I” statements instead of “YOU” statements.
This way you can express what you want
The wrong way :
You never wash your Dishes their is pile of dishes in a sink.
The right way:
I think I have been washing more than my fair share of dishes, I am pretty tired when I get home from work could you help me out please.
You never wash your Dishes their is pile of dishes in a sink.
The right way:
I think I have been washing more than my fair share of dishes, I am pretty tired when I get home from work could you help me out please.
