Men and Women are not equal…..at least not in the way that feminists want us to be, and before you send me hate mail, remember that healthy discussion begins when two people respect eachother’s opinion, and as I’m pretty open minded, I’ll assume that I already respect yours, so please offer me the same courtesy if you can.
To say that gender doesn’t play a role in politics for men is very wrong when the candidates are of the opposite sex. Being a woman gained Hillary votes, and it lost Hillary votes - and every vote won or lost due to Hillary’s gender was a vote won or lost for Trump. Gender plays a role in everything from mundane everyday tasks to the President of the United States, and all I’m saying is that it’s not necessarily a bad thing.
My Husband takes out the garbage, shovels the driveway, fixes the taps when they leak, and moves our furniture every time we move. He hunts, fishes, brings home actual meals that he has killed. I clean the toilets, dust and sweep, get groceries and I cook his venison, rabbit and partridge into delicious meals. We are a perfect combination and although our duties in our house are not the same, we EQUALLY contribute. We are EQUALLY needed. And we respect and are very grateful for the other person’s role. To me, this understanding is the TRUE definition of feminism, that I believe should be renamed ‘equalism.’
Now, dear feminists, I COULD do everything that my husband does, I AM physically capable, and I am sure that old hubster could figure out recipes and toilet brushes, but two things stop us dead our tracks from being equal, and sorry, but they always will.
ONE: although I am bigger, he could knock me out with one punch and I could never do the same.
TWO: like it or not Ladies we bring emotion to every decision, we cry when we are sad, angry, or even happy. We are almost incapable of not bringing emotion into our decisions, and even if we do, if only for a second, we rarely do it twice in a row.
But that’s OK! We need emotion in our decisions, it’s almost a must! But we also need someone to make the tough choices with the ability to block out feelings whatsoever.
So in the wake of the downfall of the United States, I propose this…..
A man AND a woman should run every country equally. All decisions are made behind closed doors with healthy discussion and if they cannot reach a decision the opposing choices are released to the public, without knowing who chose what, and the public decides. Think of the possibilities! There would be less war for sure, because we women would see the soldiers as someones son or husband, a little more than the men do I think. There would be more money because we are thrifty little gender, BUT, there would be tough love to criminals and the hard decisions would still get made accordingly, no matter what time of the month it is. I think this idea is brilliant! Vote in a man AND a woman to equally share the load.
Because instead of attempting to unify gender, argue about our equality, why not celebrate our differences and use them for the greater good?
Now, I believe that male mentalities have to grow up a little as a whole for us to be able to celebrate and use our differences properly. I can’t stand it when I hear a man say ‘you don’t want me to come on to you, don’t dress like a slut’, or when I hear schools banning certain clothing because it distracts the boys. Just because my skirt is shorter doesn’t mean I want you to rape me, dear men, so let’s just forget that notion and move on to a less rapey culture. You dress how you want, and I will do the same.
And hey, Rhonda Rousey brought female fighting to the UFC after I watched Dana White live in person say that women will never fight in the UFC, so I believe if you are as good as the men at something you should be awarded the opportunity to draw the same rewards…..
but my feminist - to the nowadays definition - attitude stops there.
Real men are sexy! If I wake up at three a.m. and need tampons I DON’T want my husband to wake up and say “let me go get those for you sweetie. I don’t mind.” NO! NO! NO! That’s bullshit! Everyone minds waking up a three a.m., and no man WANTS to go buy tampons before the sun is up! BE REAL! Bitch about it first, whine, complain, and then go do it. Or, if you are so damn feminist, YOU go do it. There is nothing sexy about complacency, OR being married to your mom.
STOP with the manshaming! If you ladies turn my husband into a woman there will be some hell to pay. Real men have nothing to be embarrassed about! YES! I’ll do the dishes if you scrape off my car in the winter, AND I’ll prolly shoot you a BJ if you start my car, and make me a tea for the road. Yes! I’ll cook the food you kill and make it delicious! I’ll do it all, because together WE ARE EQUALLY important to this household, albeit in different ways, but together we make the perfect combination. EQUALLY.
My husband, who moonlights in stand up comedy, did a bit on stage celebrating women stating that women are amazing creatures on a level almost out of his realm of understanding, because, as he puts it, ‘he wouldn’t leave his house if his THUMB was bleeding, let alone his reproductive organs’. A so called ‘feminist’ comic, who first demanded that she follow my husband because she is a better comic, ranted on social media, and to the promoter that my husbands’ entire set was demeaning to women and she was ashamed to be part of the show - which made us all laugh and feel kind of bad for her. She even sent him a private message stating the same! But
BECAUSE SHE DIDN’T LISTEN. She didn’t hear his words, she just put up her nose and decided that my husband was a chauvinistic asshole. Her opinion is confusing because her close-mindedness forbids her to grow mentally. Because we want to judge, ladies, we don’t want to hear opposing sides, and if men aren’t behaving the exact way we want them to then we portray them as villains and use man shaming like it’s an internet bazooka. I’m guessing this lady lives with cats and is horribly underloved by the opposite sex, but those factors don’t make her right. Sadly, they just make her sad.
So if you are a man that is hiding in sheep’s clothing, watching chick flicks and going to craft shows - STOP IT! THAT IS NOT SEXY! THAT makes you a phoney, AND a girl (unless you truly enjoy both of those things, in which case….party on). There ARE still women out there that understand the true EQUALITY that makes a relationship and a household run smooth. You can still be a man!
And, if you ask my husband, the rewards are a-plenty.
So please, ladies, enough! If you want to date yourself then do so, but don’t hang a man out to dry for being himself. Imagine if men did that to us? You would crucify them. Why, all of a sudden, have we started hanging people for not doing or feeling exactly how we want them to? We ignore their reasoning and call them names. Everyone needs to grow into better people … everyday, but please stop trying to turn men into penis having versions of you….if I found me sexy I would be dating women. I’ll leave that to the ladies who like the ladies.
And to the countries that belittle and demean a woman’s value due to custom, tradition and religion? You are seriously missing out, and your mentality needs to expand…..fast. I wish all the curses and hexes on you for your stupidity, and I invite all of those ladies to our great country where you will be honoured and revered. See how the men in your country self destruct with you gone.
Because we ARE equal, girls, just not in the way you are fighting for. NEVER in that way. We are one half of the yin and yang cohesion that makes life just friggin’ lovely. Without me, my husband couldn’t function, and without him I would be lost - and I refuse to see that as a bad thing. It’s what makes us EQUALLY important to eachother. Let’s go ahead and run a country together, let’s fight for the greater good….together. Let’s solve problems, rise to new heights, and succeed…together.
End rant.
