Ok, this is one of those DIY posts where I am not sure if I have lost my mind or I am actually a creative genius.   My guess is it lies somewhere in the middle of these two extremes?  I think Nick thinks I have lost my mind.  He did not say it but he gently nodded and I think I saw pity in his eyes when I asked him what he thought of the Cactus.  Kalia totally loves it and that makes me